Things that men do that don’t impress some women that much…

[Pinay_ako]

I was just listening to Shania Twain over the radio about what doesn’t impress her. This inspired me to write another Mytake about what men do or have that don’t necessarily bring heart eyes to women.

“I've known a few guys who thought they were pretty smart
But you've got being right down to an art
You think you're a genius-you drive me up the wall
You're a regular original, a know-it-all”

I love a man who’s smart and intelligent. Who doesn’t want a man with an impressive list of accolades? But if all you constantly do is bore me out with your scientific theories, alien conspiracies and brag about your accomplishments, don’t expect me to stay put. Talk to me about how vulnerable you are, your thoughts about our relationship, your fears – tell me. I want to know more of you.

“Okay, so you're a rocket scientist?
So you got the brain but have you got the touch”

Who doesn’t want a man who works on rockets? Who flies planes? Who builds skyscrapers? But if you don’t show me that side of you who loves to get down and dirty with me, cooking in our kitchen or painting our house together, then who are you inside that uniform?

“I never knew a guy who carried a mirror in his pocket
And a comb up his sleeve-just in case
And all that extra hold gel in your hair oughta lock it
'Cause Heaven forbid it should fall outta place”

You can be Tom Hardy or Brad Pitt, but if all you care most about in life are your looks, you’d leave me feeling unloved knowing you have a string of girls vying for your attention. How will I know your heart belongs to me only if I have to constantly compete with them?

“You're one of those guys who likes to shine his machine
You make me take off my shoes before you let me get in
I can't believe you kiss your car good night
C'mon baby tell me-you must be jokin', right!”

I get it. You love your Aventador. It’s your investment, your baby. I wish you’d look at me the way you look at it sitting magnificently in your garage. I wish you’d spend as much time on me as you do buffing off the little nicks on it after a drive in the town and how careful you are with it. I wish you’d be as gentle with my heart.

“You think you're cool but have you got the touch, so what do you think you're Elvis or something?”

You’re so suave, so ruggedly handsome. Everyone adores you. You’re too cool for school. I want to love you but I feel you’re way out of my league and I cannot keep up. I wish you’d come down to earth and love me for me as I love you for you…

“Don't get me wrong, yeah I think you're alright
But that won't keep me warm on the long, cold, lonely night
That don't impress me much”

You look like the perfect man. But I am not looking for perfect. I am looking for a man with a human touch with flaws, insecurities and who is not afraid to show me who he truly is inside. What I need is someone who is not afraid to laugh or cry and share his life with me; someone who can hold my hand through it all and just love me.

Having a lot of money, cars, a big house with a gate are good. But it means nothing if I don’t have your love. It can be an upgrade to some women but it is a bonus for me to have an amazing man like you by my side. Together, we can build a life; just you and me. Let me show you what love is…

Thanks for the time reading, lovers.

XOs Pinay_Ako

[RussianNestingDoll]

My personal experience with super intelligent guys has been they they had fewer social skills. They were so arrogant and condescending towards others that I couldn’t keep dating them. They were also shocked and bewildered that I was done dealing with them. It’s not like I like dumb guys with poor earning potential either but their negative traits were insufferable.

[1truekhaleesi]

So many men are offended by this. *Sips tea" ☕

[betaTester]

tbh it's only offensive when the women who aren't impressed are also physically attractive so I don't think we need to worry about that 😂

[Organic_Pineapples]

Shouldn't you be in the kitchen?

[1truekhaleesi]

@Organic_Pineapples Good idea. That's where the knives are.

[Organic_Pineapples]

Yes, so you can make me a sandwich like a good obedient woman

[1truekhaleesi]

@Organic_Pineapples I'd rather kill you. Fuckin creep.

[ThisAndThat]

So many women are offended by MGTOW and gorgeous brides and the children they're having in Russia. Sips yet more tea.

[1truekhaleesi]

@ThisAndThat probably because MGTOW members have killed people.

[ThisAndThat]

To date I"m not aware of one single MGTOW that has killed anyone. Which MGTOW or MGTOW's are you referring to? Name and articles?

[kingofthellamas]

I'm not offended by the comments. It's fine to have a wish list. But I think you need to live in the real world or die with your cats.

[1truekhaleesi]

@kingofthellamas cats send me into anaphylactic shock. I would rather be alone then be with man that treats me like shit.

[devilman666]

@1TrueKhaleesi feminists members have killed people.

[devilman666]

*sips tea*

[kingofthellamas]

I'm not asking anyone to be with a man that treats them like shit. (who would?) And its ok to have a wish list, but recognise it is a wish list not a must have list.

[1truekhaleesi]

@devilman666 did I say anywhere that I'm feminist?

[1truekhaleesi]

@kingofthellamas Hmm. I think the fuck not. If I have to spend the rest of my life with someone, I have higher standards than just hoping I don't want to strangle them again.

[devilman666]

@1truekhaleesi no, my point is simply that almost every political movement/group like that has radical elements.

[TrustOfWorthington]

Oh gaaawd what the hell is wrong with those 5 guys?

[KristiBreaksTheRule]

@TrustOfWorthington clearly they are not impressed by this comment 😂😂😂

[TrustOfWorthington]

Yes but how they react is astonishing xD

[TrustOfWorthington]

But what else should a one true khaleesi comment on this? Fools...

[kingofthellamas]

@1truekhaleesi. Totally agree with that. But I think you have not understood my point.

[1truekhaleesi]

@kingofthellamas What was your point again? Wait I just realized I don't care.

[kingofthellamas]

@1truekhaleesi. You don't need to, but it's a bit odd given the premise of Gag.

[1truekhaleesi]

@kingofthellamas if you want to argue with people, go to Reddit. I didn't ask for your opinion, I was giving my opinion to OP.

[kingofthellamas]

@1truekhaleesi. Yes and the Op's may run on to infinity

[1truekhaleesi]

@kingofthellamas That makes literally no sense.

[Kdude010]

Actually the ratio between men and women being offended is larger for women. Women can't handle their emotions, which is why there are little to no female CEOs. Male masculinity actually triggers females lol

[1truekhaleesi]

@Kdude010 I don't know have you seen the number of downvotes I got for saying one sentence.

[Kdude010]

I'm speaking in generality. See? women dont understand the bigger picture. They think everything revolves around one small comment post. No wonder they can't be CEOs lol

[1truekhaleesi]

@Kdude010 who the hell said anything about CEOs?

[Dbwkdncnf]

All great points guys. Seriously. Take note.

However, don't do all this shit when you're first getting to know her. Trust me, she will check out. No question. Just be fun and worry about all the heartfelt shit later on. Trust me. Hardly any women will tell you this, but this is the way.

[Dbwkdncnf]

Downvoted the truth?

Typical of the one who lives in denial of the facts.

[Pinay_ako]

Thank you. I don't get why they're so upset. i am not even tearing men down... I am actually telling them you don't have to be all this, the right girl will love you. Even if you are all this, it is not the reason why a girl is in love with you. It could be a bonus. For lazy gold diggers, then yes they hit a million jackpot regardless if there is love or not...

[Dbwkdncnf]

Everyone is different. The problem with most people, if they even attempt to play the game, is that they believe there is a sort of rule book on this shit. Hell, most idiot men actually believe that you have to "try harder" to like someone. The notion behind that is absolutely absurd and I won't even bother trying to deconstruct why. Lol

But, yes, you're right. You don't have to be all these things. This list could really be personal to what you want, but it won't match another woman's list of expectations.

[Darknut]

Women dont like introverted men like myself who just go to work come home never go anywhere and only speak when there is something to say. Live a simple drama free life, because going out being social and talking takes too much energy. Yep thats me.

[imanf7]

To be honest not just women who. Don't like introverted men.
Most people don't. Everyone would like a fun social person, someone who does more than just work and stay at home all day that's just too boring

[Darknut]

@imanf7 I might go out on Friday evening for dinner and in bed by 9 so i can get up early Saturday like I'm going to work. Have all my errands and grocery shopping done with nobody in the way by the time the world wakes up.

[Robertcw]

@imanf7 Yeah, this us true. I am naturally introverted for the most part and a lot of the time I can't be bothered to go out. Most places I don't have a lot of fun being at.

I have two exceptions: I love pool parties, and I like movie theaters. That's about it. Live music can be fun if I really like the artist.

Otherwise I'm out on my own either eating or reading.

[Darknut]

@Robertcw I agree man the less people interaction the better. Traffic, shopping, dont loke crowds. Just for the sake of the unpredictability of people. I think Tommy Lee Jones says it a person is smart, people are dumb. Panicky.

[Robertcw]

The only downside with introversion is as we go sbout our daily lives, nobody really talks to us.

So, while other people are meeting up and javing sex, we're just walking around eatching other people wondering how they do it. It's this weird feeling of being alone in a crowd.

[Darknut]

@Robertcw true but kinda cool in a way.

[Robertcw]

Ehh, 'I guess.'

I wish actively pursuing people wasn't so draining and exhuasting though. If I have to do something I wouldn't ordinarily enjoy very muxh just because there was literally no other good way -- damn dude that wears you out.

On the other hand, there's a real possibility that I've been living with undiagnosed sleep apnea my whole life. So I'm working on getting an appointment for that. If I do have it, and suddenly get a machine to improve my breathibg while asleep that could chsnge my life. But its still speculation.

[Logorithim]

Well, some women do get iimpressed by stuff that most others don't get iimpressed by. Shallowness is always bad, though.

[YvanKarma]

that`s why she said things men do that SOME women aren`t impressed by

[DontFvckingAskMe]

That's what the great Gatsby von F. Scott Fitzgerald taught me. So basically just watch the movie.

Jay Gatsby, a poor boy who is dreaming of his big love. Seperated through the class destinction. He works until he becomes a millionaire. She is always his goal. He would throw exagerate big Partys like you only could seen it in the 1920s. Always with the hope she would arrive.

One day she did and so they began to rebound and start an affair. Levitating through pomp and circumstance. She is lovely but cruel. One time she drives drunk and kills a woman. Gatsby takes the blame.

All he desired to hear are only two sentences:“I love Gatsby and want to restart a new life with him only" Her saying those words in front of her then husband. But she never say those words.

By the end she decides to leave him without him knowing, in the Last minute he dies, He awaits a call from her saying those words without knowing that would never happen, one last time he's hearing the phone ringing.

The husband of the woman who was killed in the Car accident would shot him while he awaits the call from her saying those words full of Euphorie. The sad thing: its not even her that calls.
No one arrives at his funeral. Not the guests, Not the Great love, the many guests who did not personally know the host out of sheer ignorance, in part invited themselves, simple-minded continued with their lives as if nothing had happened. A man can fall and not a speck of dust stirs.

I have always been a happy and conscious lone fighter. Love is a beautiful puddle on which a rainbow is reflected, but it is also as deep as an ocean that devours you. Unpredictable whether you drown or swim. Some say it is an illusion to preach morality and reason.
My theory: There is no such thing as great love.
You can have a child and be happily married. You can love, you can love someone else too, so that's not the problem. Returning to the problem is just how long?
We humans are adaptable. No matter what situation we are in, we learn to accept it and adapt. But, ever noticed that our brain constantly brainwashed in which we accept memory but did not take place or are different than we retrieve them. Nothing is and remains original. You are not the same person after two months. You can still love him after a thousand years, but one day logic will tell you something else.

[MannMitAntworten]

What is with the necessity of vulnerability and flaws in order to elicit a sense of genuine human connection from a respective person of interest? Is one icy or closed off if they lack blatant vulnerabilities or flaws? A vulnerability in one could be seen as a strength in another. Flaws, also left to our individual audience. Then if not severe enough or if it does not cut deep enough to wound our spirit, is this vulnerability or flaw not cast one as just as humanly genuine?

Maybe it's me, but I don't find ardent love in another in the broken places. How they bounce back for me speaks greater volumes towards their character. Some can be stricken for life within their broken places. Character seems in short supply.

See, when I say a strong woman, I do not mix words. I do not mean a pain my ass (equally when women say a nice guy, they so not mean a passive yes dear sort with a jelly spine). No, I want a killing partner - figuratively speaking. I want to not just know, but feel it to my core that I can count on her. To know the other's thoughts with a look or glance... to be right there burying the bodies, too - again, figuratively speaking. Essentially, a pact between us, that we will put the welfare of the other, that you will put the safety of the other above your own. In effect you are saying, I love you more than I love myself. Which is true.

Vulnerabilities and flaws do not convey me this. They do not reassure me this. Especially when we must absolutely depend on one another. It isn't just knowing. It is feeling in in our marrow, too.

Just my own perspective. Take it for what it's worth.

[betaTester]

It's reasonable, a male scientist wouldn't talk to some woman about scientific theories unless he thinks she could understand it, which is why scientists only date intellectual women.

Men who work on rockets, who fly planes, who build skyscrapers don't impress me either. A woman who could accomplish those things would be impressive and truly different from the rest. I share the sentiment of Shania Twain and the rest of the unimpressed women, that intelligence in women is more impressive because it's rarer.

[Benedek38]

"Men who work on rockets, who fly planes, who build skyscrapers don't impress me either. A woman who could accomplish those things would be impressive and truly different from the rest."
Well, that's just plain old sexism. The first half of your name is spot on - you're a beta.

[betaTester]

@Benedek38 nice try, beta is the numale who complains about sexism without looking at the statistics :))

[Vanillachoc88]

Very good one. Lots of men just want to impress and they don’t realise that when you’ve been together for a few months, you get comfortable and that coat of shine they covered themselves with starts to fade...
I experienced that with my ex. Saying so many amazing things about how he does his own laundry and can cook and so obsessed with his hair... always a know it all, when I was honest and myself. after a year and a half of relationship we were living together and I was cooking, cleaning, doing his laundry, and even cut his hair. This is my fault and I get it. I let him fool me. But never again. After 5 years together I broke up. He was telling me I’m too strong, independent and too impressive. I’m successful in my career I’m right in my choices, I earn twice the amount of money he does. So he felt small, and took a hit to his ego. Well, piss off. That’s what I said 🤷🏻‍♀️

[devilman666]

Then just don't expect a man to impress you, and be open about it. I think a lot of men feel like they need to he impressive in order to attract women, due to how picky women can seem, wanting a handsome, tall guy who is financially their equal, smart, kind, loving, emotional, open about their feelings but not too open to make it boring, interesting, funny, not too braggy, not too serious, not too laid back. You have to be a reliable guy who is not too reliable because then you would be boring, but you need to be somewhat reliable or you're seen as immature and childish by women. I think this whole thing with women believing a man will blow them away and give them everything they want is very toxic and is causing this scenario. The current dating game is mostly based around men impressing women. You seem like a decent example of this, you seem to want everything. Pick the things that are most important to you and focus on them.

[el_Te_de_la_Rosa]

I'm so weird. I'm not like most girls. I like it when men are smart, willing to share and talk about stuff I have no idea, so that I can learn new things. In vice versa, I think it's not normal if a man talks about "feeling". Men would like to be protectors. If they show their weaknees to you, how could you rely and feel safe when being with them? Somehow I think one would use the word to make a woman feel like he cares. It could be a lie. I don't believe in that kind of word at all.
Plus, how can you compare yourself to a car? (actually that sounds like getting jealous of it.) If a man wants to express about his property, his success, it may imply that he could be a provider, for you? I don't know maybe I'm wrong.

[lovelyhoneybones]

"I'm not like most girls".

[Mir95]

You're being honest to your feminine side.

[lightbulb27]

@Mir95 I agree. I think there's some possible lack of security, feminine, but maybe other insecurities as well?

[el_Te_de_la_Rosa]

Yes. I'm not faminine. And?

[el_Te_de_la_Rosa]

*feminine

[el_Te_de_la_Rosa]

@lightbulb27 Can you guess, sir? My other securities?

[lightbulb27]

that's challenge, but you don't feel safe around male feelings. If a man expresses feelings. That is kinda normal for females as their history is they want an emotionally strong man who can face challenges without dropping in energy. But there is a vulnerability aspect to sharing feelings as well, that equates to him exposing himself and being close to her... a deeper connection.

So I conclude from what little I know, but makes sense, that you are have difficulties with deep connection, closeness, intimacy. you are not comfortable with it and back away. That could beshow up as passive aggressive... you are passive until you lose them, then become aggressive to win them back, and cycle repeats.

All of that then would be rooted in childhood trauma and your mental makeup. That would likely equate to a missing father figure.

Let me know if I'm right... I like to tune my emotional intelligence. I'm not always right, but one can see sub tones of thought in expressed writing.

[Mir95]

@lightbulb27 oh no, I don't think just because she's embracing her feminine feelings, she's insecure. I just meant, that the she's liking certain male behaviour, which is expected from females. There's nothing wrong, insecure or weak about it.

[lightbulb27]

@Mir95 you could be right, that is feminine. But there is insecure as well. I'm probing...:) Even the best chef's will put a toothpick in the cake to see if it is baked:)

[el_Te_de_la_Rosa]

@lightbulb27 From my experience, the men who said they had some feeling for me were the ones who stop pursuing. There were only words. No proper talking. No actions. They didn't even try to get to know me. Thus, I can assume that they only wanted my body. I love discussion, deep conversation. Without these, how can we mentally connected to someone?
I don't let ones that I'm not attracted to step into my personal space as well. I don't want to give them hope and waste their time. I don't want to hurt them as I don't want anyone to hurt me.
And I don't think father issue would be a reason. My dad worked away from home, but he's a family man. What makes me distrust most men is because I keep attracting unavailable men, aka married or men with girlfriends. It's really hard to believe there's love when they can betray and cheat on their lovers.

[lightbulb27]

this one is throwing me for a loop. "said had feeling for me but didn't pursue". I can see your perspective as they were just out to use you.
"attracting married men or with GF's". why not drawing others. Maybe you cast a very strong confidence image, or you are intimidating other guys? Not sure what is going on, grasping at staws without visual, more info. Attraction is sub conscious, that is where the real stuff is going on... look in there...

[el_Te_de_la_Rosa]

@lightbulb27 I think so. I'm very competitive. And I have to apologize that I can't share a pic of me, I'm on this site to observe if people can't see me, I am attractive or not... If there's something wrong with my personality, I would like to improve.

[lightbulb27]

no worries, do what is right for you.

[el_Te_de_la_Rosa]

@lightbulb27 Thank you. Now I would like to know what make a man feel intimidated by a woman? Her strength? Her intelligence? Her social status?

[lightbulb27]

You are not "feminine". What do you mean? He has to feel like he can contribute and be something for you, the man for you. We are opposites in energy.. feminine and masculine and all exist somewhere on that spectrum. Most females are emotional but some are more logical and dont' expose emotion.

Are you projecting feminine energy, sexuality? If so, you can project "I've got this all under control and power", and still draw men. If you are projecting masculine power, then you'll need a more effemininate guy... I suspect. Or you can figure out why you are functioing as you are and bring out the feminine... which is deep emotional junk probably.

Someone who has feeling bailed? Makes me think he thought about his feeling and decided otherwise... for whatever reason. He got scared. I ran from a lot of women, of different types, that was me issue not her. Maybe because you are more strong you draw emotionally weak guys... e. g. low self worth and they aren't ready?

If the woman is sexy... femine... she can b intelligent, confident, etc.. and draw men. The issue is if she projects "welcome sign", positive energy. If negative, depressed, moody, bitchy, grumpy or any of the other female dwarfettes... lol..., not attractive, guys run.

[Bananaman177]

Those song lyrics just show that Shania Twain can't handle a strong, independent man.

"Wah, you're too smart, you're too good at winning arguments! You do what you want instead of doing what I want, you like your car more than me, you should be worshiping ME, ME, ME, ME, ME!!!

[lightbulb27]

Shania is a beauty, but her outfit and hair does not impress me much in that song. oh well..

Great take. I hope you find your romantic love! That's good. Realize guys have opened their hearts to find someone grab them and slam them to the ground... it make take some time to be vulnerable.

[ThisAndThat]

Shania is a beauty. Dude they sell glasses at the store near me. You can get you a set for only 99 cents over there.

[lightbulb27]

@ThisAndThat lol.

[ariadneR]

I know this is cliche, but to impress me, all tey have to do is be themselves. At least for me.
Be as geeky, nerdy, funny, charming, even be a prick if thats who you are.
Just be yourself

[LonewolfMeme]

@ariadneR I tell my boyfriend this everyday so when he wants to buy me presents or whatever i feel out of place.

[ariadneR]

@LonewolfMeme so true

[ThisAndThat]

In other words, you're not superficial, you are rare and a one of a kind.

[Benedek38]

"Be yourself. Unless you're unattractive. In that case, be attractive."

[smg99]

Threatening her , disrespectful behavior and making everything about him.
Soon it brings fear and resentment to women if all their acts are interpreted as wooing and capturing him.

Even desire and the spark are lost with assumptions and misunderstanding- misinterpretation.

[ThisAndThat]

Yea but you pretty much just described her, not him.

[smg99]

No women don’t do this until we are driven to resentment. Men do it for sport

[ThisAndThat]

Oh don't even hand me that one lol, I think we know better than this non sense.

[smg99]

Why you didn’t care to elaborate though. It’s then unfounded;)

[Gar4ry]

Yeah all men threaten and disrespect women for sport. You lost all credibility by saying that.

[smg99]

Well then you can validate your credibility equally with evidence to the contrary.

Mine is personal experience and countless RSS feeds to suggest that tactics are employed In legal scenarios.

Likewise the ease with with relationships head south and are beyond repair if a man finds a reason, any reason to stop respecting his partner.

Women yield out of reactivity and pain.
We don’t freely find it entertaining to discuss how we slept and wrecked so and so’s image. It has its deepest roots of vengeance and emotions to go that length.

That’s also why there are countless videos on how to earn a guys’ love, respect and attention back and so very few toward men seeking these answers
Because they don’t want to care.

That itself speaks volumes the market for relationship counseling is ideally geared to women.
You may say that’s because we can’t be grateful or happy. But women have heightened intuition before damage is near.

Some let it slip because they endure the embarrassment and awkwardness or let’s say in some dire situations, abuse.

It’s not incredible to know it’s that obvious in society.
If you have better rationale offer that not your unfounded criticism.

[Gar4ry]

You made a massive generalization that's simply not true. Makes you look unintelligent and uncredible.

[smg99]

Well you still haven’t even offered any explanation makes you sound like an empty vessel

[smg99]

at least I offered an ‘opinion’ also an observation what have you?

[smg99]

Too stupid to take a risk because you can’t put forth your argument against me either

[smg99]

Massive generalization is what the question requires Incase you can’t follow that. It collectively asks about men in general. It didn’t ask for specific details but I provided some feedback on it through, so called legitimate and obvious observations.

What can you say against my points that make you sound credible? Yes go ahead say it i would love to learn your insight .

So if you can’t offer it and you are just up for a challenging come back; “empty vessels make more noise.” Is dedicated to you in general.

[MusicMayhem]

This should be retitled "Things men do to impress work that make them insecure."

News flash there's over 7 billion people in the world. You're always going to have competition so rather than get annoyed that a guy is trying to show his best assets, realise he's going to have other girls interested in him and bring out your best to win him over.

[MusicMayhem]

Argh should be women not work lol

[JayParris]

Why bother with trying to impress women? What's the point of spending all that time and energy getting to impress another useless person who just sits back and judges others?

Do what you do. When someone comes along who's worth your time, you'll know.

[kingofthellamas]

I feel like you are going to die alone. Your wish list might feel realistic to you but trust me, you're in for shock. And let's not forget the most important part here, the other side is going to have a wish list too. Probably not as long as yours (few do) but you better be damn sure your ticking a lot of boxes.

Understand yours by doing this. Stand naked in front of the mirror, holding up your harvard law degree and home baked apple pie. If you can't do that ( who could?) get as close to that as you can so you can truly understand what you are offering up. Understand if you are shop bought apple pie or homemade

Either that or get ready to die with you cats.

[humanearth]

You know it took me many years to get to know that. How come women don't say that in the beginning? Like tell us what you want to hear. Why lets us stubble across and let us figure us out on our own. Just make things simple and tell us. Just like you did with this take. Most men will read this and go that's a good idea and never learn from it.

[PsychoKiller]

While this may be the case for you personally, a lot of women out there will fuck a guy just for being rich even if he is the ugliest, most boring and retarded person in the world.

[Deydey12345]

Yup. MOST women would open their legs for an ugly doctor because he's a doctor.
*most*

I think the female who wrote that is.. A lesbian.
Not gonna lie.

[AllThatSweetJazz]

But if I don't have any of the *things* and I only care about you, then that's not enough either, right?

So the question that goes unanswered at the beginning of all of this is: Why should I care about impressing you? Shania Twain also neglects explaining it.

[Tdieseler]

You say that now... but the endgame is usually the same. Women just want it all.
You want a rich man, but want him to still have time to spend with you... i mean.. how do you think he got rich... but spending all his time for the money that made him rich. Gotta pick one.

Now to talk about meself... I've learned not to try to impress no woman... a woman will be impressed by what she wants to be impressed by regardless... and if its me? fine.. if it ain't.. its what it is.

[Tdieseler]

see hw the men understood... and the selfish as BITCHES who i just said want it all.. down voted me. cuz they think its possible to do both. it is... but its very rare. you pick one... if you want super rich... unless they are trust fund babies... you won't get to spend time. but women know almost nothing about how to pick a mid-ground. its extremities with them

[ranger32]

Unfortunately i am going to die alone since you pretty much described me.

I love talking about space, science, philosophy and stuff but i have zero personality education and skills.

I'm pretty pathetic and i feel worthless. I have no fucking clue how to fix any of it and its driving me deeper into despair.

[smg99]

Take some risks and experience it as you would logically.

It will hurt less but you emerge with insight.
In the process you might find it. Never know;) trying if you feel you will end up in despair is often the solution to overcome it.

[ranger32]

What do you mean?

[smg99]

There is an audio book but it can be taken in any context, ‘unbecome yourself’ it’s called.

Just go and do what you wouldn’t do. Is what I meant.

[dalibara]

Everyone have different tastes. Some girls are impressed by money while others are not. There is also sapiosexuality that make you attracted to intelligent peoples. Everyone seek different things In partners.