That's great. I don't think I could do it personally, but if that's what people like, then all power to them. I can understand how he feels about it at times like you mentioned, and it isn't really that easy since things like that can often be pretty uncomfortable to talk about. I mean, who wants to hear that they're making their partner feel "undervalued" or "emasculated" without meaning to?
See in 10 years, you guys will be divorced. Women are supposed to be the nurturers and men, the providers. The woman in this relationship is more likely to look elsewhere. Traditional gender roles have been existing for a very long time so this sudden change to gender roles is never going to suffice, good luck.
Well done you two for finding a way that works for both of you. Me personally I can never be with a man like that, I would have 0 respect for him. A man’s gotta be masculine for me to look at him in a romantic way. But I’m glad there’re strong women like you out there.
I'm glad it works for y'all. But in my head i just could never respect a man who got himself into that kind of a mess. Just seems super humiliating. I would be super worried you would cheat too because irl most couples who are more like this the women have cheated with very masculine men.
If it works for you, then who are the readers to tell you otherwise? there will be shaming, stigma, judgments and meanness and whatnot but none of that matters as long as you both are happy. And Don't let anybody tell you otherwise.
This was beautiful to read. The important thing is that you both love each other. A couple with children pretty much has the same responsibilities that you both do. Its just a swap in the gender roles and there's nothing wrong.
If it works for you guys, fuck what other's say or think. You guys have a great situation, kids with both loving parents and a home where any kid ( or adult) would love to have. Will you adopt me?
Poor guy A man needs to work I would go crazy being a stay at home dad He made it worse for himself allowing you to do the handy work too Hopefully he can resume work when those kids get a little older
Women want alimony, women want easy jobs and women want men to work at home and help women's house works. This shows feminism is an ilness that sees men as slaves. Alimony should be removed and women should start to work all kind of jobs that men do. And women should go to military as men. Then you have a right to say men should help us at work.
Now you women are just hypocrites. And nothing more!
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That's great. I don't think I could do it personally, but if that's what people like, then all power to them. I can understand how he feels about it at times like you mentioned, and it isn't really that easy since things like that can often be pretty uncomfortable to talk about. I mean, who wants to hear that they're making their partner feel "undervalued" or "emasculated" without meaning to?
See in 10 years, you guys will be divorced. Women are supposed to be the nurturers and men, the providers. The woman in this relationship is more likely to look elsewhere. Traditional gender roles have been existing for a very long time so this sudden change to gender roles is never going to suffice, good luck.
Well done you two for finding a way that works for both of you.
Me personally I can never be with a man like that, I would have 0 respect for him. A man’s gotta be masculine for me to look at him in a romantic way. But I’m glad there’re strong women like you out there.
That actually sounds like a dream. I would love to be a stay at home dad and raise my kids full time. He is a lucky man.
Give it a few more years of this kind of arrangement. It's not exactly a secret in therapy that these arrangements will backfire after some time.
If it then still works, you can call yourself and your partner the odd ones out. Chances are it will not.
I absolutely love this.
There is so much more to the conventional roles that society demands of us, and you and your partner execute it effortlessly
They dont execute it perfectly. He doesn't enjoy his position at all.
I'm glad it works for y'all. But in my head i just could never respect a man who got himself into that kind of a mess. Just seems super humiliating. I would be super worried you would cheat too because irl most couples who are more like this the women have cheated with very masculine men.
If it works for you, then who are the readers to tell you otherwise?
there will be shaming, stigma, judgments and meanness and whatnot but none of that matters as long as you both are happy. And Don't let anybody tell you otherwise.
This was beautiful to read. The important thing is that you both love each other. A couple with children pretty much has the same responsibilities that you both do. Its just a swap in the gender roles and there's nothing wrong.
The difference exists in the mind of people, it's not 'gender roles' (for the most parts).
There's no such thing as gender roles. Just current society trends.
This role is very offensive.
@SubhaDhar your small white penis is very offensive.
This made my night. I'm so glad y'all are happy together <3 What a beautiful relationship
This is such a cute my take! I love it and so happy for you guys <3
If it works for you guys, fuck what other's say or think. You guys have a great situation, kids with both loving parents and a home where any kid ( or adult) would love to have. Will you adopt me?
Hey Mac, can you change my oil for me!!
Poor guy
A man needs to work
I would go crazy being a stay at home dad
He made it worse for himself allowing you to do the handy work too
Hopefully he can resume work when those kids get a little older
The only thing that matters is that you and your husband are happy with how things are. Good for you! :)
Women want alimony, women want easy jobs and women want men to work at home and help women's house works. This shows feminism is an ilness that sees men as slaves. Alimony should be removed and women should start to work all kind of jobs that men do. And women should go to military as men. Then you have a right to say men should help us at work.
Now you women are just hypocrites. And nothing more!
I'm glad you guys are happy! Whatever works for your family is all that matters.
You became a mom at a very young age? It's nice to see role reversals
I became a mother 45 min before my 21st birthday.
Glad it works for you. Life is too short to beclijited by other people's rules. Unless they are felonies. You should follow those rules.
How long has this worked for your family?