Why can't I stop missing you?

[Paolaa988]

It seems no matter what i say, no matter what i do, i can't take my mind off you. I feel trapped, crazy, helpless, and hopeless. Its been nearly 7 years since i seen your face. I dont wanna feel stupid and keep showing up at your door and you don't even wanna see me. Please tell me you don't hate me and everything we did was right. Im sorry maybe i am an annoying girl for still not being able to move on completely from you. We didn't go all the way but you seen beneath my skin and left a part of yourself inside my heart and memory. I wish i can talk to you, i wish i can see your face one more time. Maybe i am losing my mind and what sucks more is i have to keep it all inside because nobody will understand how our hearts intertwined.

[Some-girl]

I’m going through this right now and it sucks because no one understands the pain and how bad you wanna message them and scared how they will react and no matter what they did to you that’s not a big concern because you care so much about them and you start seeing things that remind you of them and all you hear is people tell you to move on if only it was that easy and even if you wanted to move on you wanna keep those memories because of all the good times you had and when then you have to lie when people ask if your past them because you’re afraid of how they would react because in reality no one will ever really know how much that person meant and staying up late depending whether or not you should add them back or contact them.

[Man_with_a_plan]

Hey, I feel the same way as you do with my first love. I don't think she even cares about me. The worst part is I don't know the way she felt or at least she loved me or not. It ended all of a sudden by her as she stopped speaking to me. It sucks. It hit my self esteem so hard that I didn't have any friends anymore and was all alone. Hey, work on your self esteem. Surround yourself with friends and family though you want to be alone. Trust me it will fade away. Look you gotta take care of yourself. Your love will find you when you are least expecting.

[Anonymous]

Same here but for two and a half years for a relationship that lasted about a year. She was the only girl at the time who has ever been a decent human being to me at a time when I actually thought they all hate me (it’s a bit of a long story). Now I don’t see the point of dating because you can do everything right and your partner can still leave you anyway but I occasionally dream about her and fantasize cuddling and kissing her. Without exaggeration, she gave me the best year of my life and a year I won’t want to forget.

[filjongrif]

Wow , 7 years hey... I'll be honest and say I'm surprised there's no restraining order involved.. there's nothing right about anything in your post.. you seem to have a compulsion for obsession , what you don't need is him , infact leave him alone , just cos you can't let go , doesn't mean he can't move on... really 7 years... What you definitely do need is professional help.. and I mean that in the most genuine way possible, It must be groundhog Day every day.. but there's a massive world out there , with billions of people who all have different stories, different attributes, so its not good sticking in your little world , where your only aspiration is to get him back , when it didn't work out in the first place anyway

[triff]

Wow that is so full of warmth It could melt the coldest heart what an idiot to let you go I can feel the pain and hur you are feeling Not knowing the circumstances that led to you parting its hard to make a definitive answer I certainly would like to discuss this with you and try to build a path forward I think you would be so surprised how many people would completely understand Your definitely not a lone x

[Levin]

I know how you feel. But if they don't want to see you, then you have to take that as the ultimate sign you have to move on. You should always respect yourself wholly. Find someone that wants to be with you. It's not that you can't have feelings for that person. But the universe is not conspiring to keep you together. Everything that is meant to be will come naturally.

[Levin]

Maybe you should ask yourself what is stopping you from moving on. There are always deeper themes to this.

[MysteriousDarkness]

It has been 7 years since you have seen them. In 7 years a person can change drastically for the better or for the worse. If they do not want to see you then you need to try to get over them or it will continue to eat away at you which will make you depressed.

[Anonymous]

i'm sorry for your heartbreak and loss. it hurts when you give someone your heart and your love and they go/they leave. i'm sorry you're going through that

[scooogy]

You're not the first though, I'm just irresistable. 😏

[Marcelo90]

dear, it has been 7 yearsand you still did not move on. that means only one thing. there is somthing wrong with you. try to get help

[Don-__-Don]

We all hate not having the things that we want...

[Iron_Man]

Well at least you care for someone

[DaMack999]

Damn you need oil change. Lol

[Anonymous]

You miss the vitiman d he gives you.