@natured please don't give up, there is a lot of damage between the sexes which is depressing I have mostly had female company from previous generation they are always complimentary of my behaviour and humour but it's my generation and younger that I struggle to be around for me and a few other guys here appreciate when females are kind, helpful and care about males. I don't blame the other guys as I been there but come through it.
Thank you for that. I really waited some time for it because I read your comment under 12 Things never tell you. Though not everything seems new I really appreciate the effort you put into it.
Exactly there is nothing new, this is it, there is nothing more or new to our thoughts in general. In other words, it's simple if a couple is open with each other, comunicates freely, this is the only way to unlock different levels to a relationship especially if they are fresh. Thank you for reading though I appreciate it
Appreciated but not my stuff coz we have many kinda girl to get most are hotties so why waste time in one like this she should come to societal stage but if she doesn't and realise later on she will get frustable easily which will translate into her marriage whereas the dream remained unfufilled at the back of the mind and then after marriage it shatters hope she handles marriage well
Great list! Although it doesn't exactly deter us guys from the impression of women rarely meaning what they say 😂. Like, I love y'all, but training a woman to say exactly how she's feeling is like teaching a dog to do calculus 🤣
Also, here in the UK, "chasing" a girl after she rejects the guy can get him sent to prison for sexual harassment. I'm not even joking. But guys have to walk on needles trying to judge whether it's a "fake" rejection or a "real" rejection. We can literally go to prison all because the woman refuses to give clear "stop" or "go" signals. We need a green light /red light common understanding at least, because in current decade this shit can cause massive downside for guys with zero accountability for the girls
See it's not about TRAINING, it's honestly all about how you come forward to her, you should not train ANYONE besides your dog... I mean just this comparison intself is kind of disturbing but anyhow... Like I said, communication is always the key, and it should come from both not only from one.
When taking the red pill you learn a lot about female nature. And these negative traits you mention. A lot of the women they talk about take these to extremes.
Sadly they do, and I admit it's very challanging for some Men, And i feel sorry for those who have to deal with extremism. I just hope that some women take a chill pill in these cases and try to focus more on how to resolve issues rather than cause them indirectly. Thank you for commenting I appreciate it
"When we say this, we ACTUALLY mean this, except when we don't." Man, you women certainly make life difficult at times. But we love you so it's worth it.
YOU GOT THE POINT, thank you. I admit that we are difficult, sadly not all women agree with me here *shrugs* I think there is nothing wrong in admiting your own flaws
Thanks for the tips but something I wanted to bring up in part 10, so you said try harder to learn us but yet girls know nothing about men and how we work. In my opinion men know more about women than women know about men. Why you think that is 👀
What was missing? I did not give advice here, i just stated some little things that might or might not be true for some women in general. I'm sure that I reflected myself mostly, but Hey we're not all the same. Yet, i'd like to know what was missing... advice should be taken from every gender not just from one.
I kind I’d disagree with this, most men that are good with women don’t realise it’s 85 percent because of the way they look. When a woman has the hots for a man, he can be an asshole or say anything and she will still want him. I have noticed a lot of men taking advice from their mates or coaches or people convinced they get women. But don’t take into account height and other factors is what is getting then women. A man 6-3 just needs to look at a woman and he will get laid, taking advice from men like this doesn’t work if your 5 8.
Playing hard to get? Good luck with that. You know you filter out the good guys & then wonder why all men X.. Mind reading about what a women thinks / wants is a waste of time, most don't even know themselves. Don't put makeup on for men? seriously? Yeah, you just do it for you.
First instinct is to reject you. How do women handle rejection? They're scared to death of it & love to dish it out. There's not a woman alive who's been able to reject me twice & there never will be, they always seem so bewildered then get hateful.
The good old "are you gay"? comes to mind (manipulative shaming tactic). They try to make you a black sheep in the eyes of others. get you fired etc.. You got one thing right though, the mysterious part.
Boys / men would be drawn by the headline thinking they will get insight into women & all they get is vagary. I did not mean to criticize so harshly & wouldn't have but you asked.
These 12 are not a mystery to men. I will note that number 9 is double edged. Sure, some women might see wedding bells. Other may feel, “RUN!” It can cut either way.
It's a good take. You've written it well. But I wanna know if #10 is how girls actually work. If I got rejected once then more often I'd move on rather than trying hard to get that person.
I think nr. 10 is very tricky, because like one of the readers said, it can be dangerous, because if it's a real NO some people might not understand and yet PRESSURE... so let's say that nr.10 is very tricky, unless you get some obvious signal.
Our first instinct is to attract “the best”. When we see you and we don’t feel an instant attraction, you’ll get rejected, OR (the charismatic and charming guys) will sometimes charm us into giving out our number to you because you’ve (practically) demonstrated confidence and that shit is attractive.
Nothing better than big man with 20% boyfat than a shredded, tired and weak boy. I was shredded all my life and had to eat like borderline puking to have a more bulky look. I say it's worth it.
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Men are not into mind games. Who is? If you play hard to get and reject on purpose, then you risk losing the person interested in you.
Nothing new for me here, but damn if it isn't nice to read some honesty on this site.
Sadly this honesty wasn't well appreciated, but thank you so much for reading, oh and I KNOW THAT YOU KNOW i stated the obvious. lol
Thanks
@natured please don't give up, there is a lot of damage between the sexes which is depressing I have mostly had female company from previous generation they are always complimentary of my behaviour and humour but it's my generation and younger that I struggle to be around for me and a few other guys here appreciate when females are kind, helpful and care about males. I don't blame the other guys as I been there but come through it.
Thank you for that. I really waited some time for it because I read your comment under 12 Things never tell you.
Though not everything seems new I really appreciate the effort you put into it.
Exactly there is nothing new, this is it, there is nothing more or new to our thoughts in general. In other words, it's simple if a couple is open with each other, comunicates freely, this is the only way to unlock different levels to a relationship especially if they are fresh.
Thank you for reading though I appreciate it
Remember everyone, this is an opinion by one person
IT IS NOT FACT
Exactly, thank you for your comment
No prob.
The translation is basically "All (most) women are liars and manipulative." LOL.
I'm sorry if you've been through something, I really am :) But hey it will get better
Appreciated but not my stuff coz we have many kinda girl to get most are hotties so why waste time in one like this she should come to societal stage but if she doesn't and realise later on she will get frustable easily which will translate into her marriage whereas the dream remained unfufilled at the back of the mind and then after marriage it shatters hope she handles marriage well
Great list! Although it doesn't exactly deter us guys from the impression of women rarely meaning what they say 😂. Like, I love y'all, but training a woman to say exactly how she's feeling is like teaching a dog to do calculus 🤣
Also, here in the UK, "chasing" a girl after she rejects the guy can get him sent to prison for sexual harassment. I'm not even joking. But guys have to walk on needles trying to judge whether it's a "fake" rejection or a "real" rejection. We can literally go to prison all because the woman refuses to give clear "stop" or "go" signals. We need a green light /red light common understanding at least, because in current decade this shit can cause massive downside for guys with zero accountability for the girls
See it's not about TRAINING, it's honestly all about how you come forward to her, you should not train ANYONE besides your dog... I mean just this comparison intself is kind of disturbing but anyhow...
Like I said, communication is always the key, and it should come from both not only from one.
Well, happy go say i know all of them, still nice take. thanks
To say*
That's great then :) thank you for reading
#6 and #8 have always confused me. And I never knew girls like our messy hair. Thank you for writing this! Well written and enjoyed it 😊.
Absolutely love this take 👌👏.
Amazing creature 😂... Ya'all so cute 😖 lol.
But I have one question if I may... And it's my observation...
Why do you pour your attention on us when we are holding the hand of one of you?
I am okay with all this...
Problem is what women want has no defined borders..
While when it comes to men..
You have defined lines.. And one word explanation.
Men want FOOD, PUSSY, TITS, ASS, SPORTS, ALCOHOL.
TL/DR summary:
Don't believe anything a woman says.
Never introduce a woman to your family or friends.
Got it.
😂😂😂
I don't believe you got the chance to fully understand but it's okay.
I still appreciate your comment
When taking the red pill you learn a lot about female nature. And these negative traits you mention. A lot of the women they talk about take these to extremes.
Sadly they do, and I admit it's very challanging for some Men, And i feel sorry for those who have to deal with extremism. I just hope that some women take a chill pill in these cases and try to focus more on how to resolve issues rather than cause them indirectly.
Thank you for commenting I appreciate it
@natured. At age 18, all men should be issued tranquilizer guns for when girls act this way.
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"When we say this, we ACTUALLY mean this, except when we don't."
Man, you women certainly make life difficult at times. But we love you so it's worth it.
YOU GOT THE POINT, thank you.
I admit that we are difficult, sadly not all women agree with me here *shrugs*
I think there is nothing wrong in admiting your own flaws
Thanks for the tips but something I wanted to bring up in part 10, so you said try harder to learn us but yet girls know nothing about men and how we work. In my opinion men know more about women than women know about men. Why you think that is 👀
I mean if you are so sure about it then I don't mind, I won't fight against it, it's your opinion and I respect it.
Thank you for reading
I will urge boys / men to take advice from guys that are good with women rather than asking women.
What was missing? I did not give advice here, i just stated some little things that might or might not be true for some women in general. I'm sure that I reflected myself mostly, but Hey we're not all the same.
Yet, i'd like to know what was missing... advice should be taken from every gender not just from one.
I kind I’d disagree with this, most men that are good with women don’t realise it’s 85 percent because of the way they look. When a woman has the hots for a man, he can be an asshole or say anything and she will still want him. I have noticed a lot of men taking advice from their mates or coaches or people convinced they get women. But don’t take into account height and other factors is what is getting then women. A man 6-3 just needs to look at a woman and he will get laid, taking advice from men like this doesn’t work if your 5 8.
Playing hard to get? Good luck with that. You know you filter out the good guys & then wonder why all men X.. Mind reading about what a women thinks / wants is a waste of time, most don't even know themselves. Don't put makeup on for men? seriously? Yeah, you just do it for you.
First instinct is to reject you. How do women handle rejection? They're scared to death of it & love to dish it out. There's not a woman alive who's been able to reject me twice & there never will be, they always seem so bewildered then get hateful.
The good old "are you gay"? comes to mind (manipulative shaming tactic). They try to make you a black sheep in the eyes of others. get you fired etc.. You got one thing right though, the mysterious part.
Boys / men would be drawn by the headline thinking they will get insight into women & all they get is vagary. I did not mean to criticize so harshly & wouldn't have but you asked.
A lot of dudes will buy into that stupid list, you are on point. 👍
These 12 are not a mystery to men. I will note that number 9 is double edged. Sure, some women might see wedding bells. Other may feel, “RUN!” It can cut either way.
Yes, depending on their interest, thank you so much for reading,
It's a good take. You've written it well. But I wanna know if #10 is how girls actually work. If I got rejected once then more often I'd move on rather than trying hard to get that person.
I think nr. 10 is very tricky, because like one of the readers said, it can be dangerous, because if it's a real NO some people might not understand and yet PRESSURE... so let's say that nr.10 is very tricky, unless you get some obvious signal.
Well it’s a yes and no answer.
Our first instinct is to attract “the best”. When we see you and we don’t feel an instant attraction, you’ll get rejected, OR (the charismatic and charming guys) will sometimes charm us into giving out our number to you because you’ve (practically) demonstrated confidence and that shit is attractive.
Nothing better than big man with 20% boyfat than a shredded, tired and weak boy.
I was shredded all my life and had to eat like borderline puking to have a more bulky look.
I say it's worth it.