What a waste of a take. The simple answer to this is YOU DONT! Period! There are plenty of other people out there. Besides, even if you successfully took someone who was in a relationship what makes you think he or she won't do it to you.
You could say, "so how come you're single/don't have a boyfriend/girlfriend?". You could check their online profile. You could check to see if they have regular flirtatious/loved up contact with one person online. You could ask them directly. You could ask their friends. There's many ways to get around it.
I'm talking about physically how can one tell if someoone is single, I've seen plenty of hot nice girls on the street and they are walking alone, how can i know if they're single,
You wouldn't. Strike up a conversation, ask if they would like to meet up again or ask for their number and they may say no because they're in a relationship/not interested or they may say yes and be totally up for it which would suggest they're single. If they tell you they're single or they're really eager to meet up with you, but you find out they're in a relationship, then it's not entirely your fault because you weren't told. You can't possibly believe that people who are in relationships suddenly change in appearance.
There are many women that ONLY chase after taken guys... that's both attempted or actual cheating & is a downer for the guys that do want a girlfriend.
And I'm sure there are an equal number of men who do the same. Obviously, they're not decent, respectful people who appreciate the monogamy of a relationship.
No one can leave another if they aren't truly with them. If you meet someone and want them and they want you back then that's all good in my opinion unless they are married. It's just my opinion. Life is too short to not get what you want.
Yes, but I still had these beliefs before I was cheated on. I've always prized relationships and monogamy and I've never cheated. I don't appreciate it when girls start flirting with my partner and are clearly trying to lead him away from me. I don't think anyone would appreciate that. I've never tried flirting with a taken man so I don't know why others can't refrain from it.
Yeah I agree. Unfortunately its something that's always going to happen. I've never cheated, but I know plenty of friends that have. One just needs to have a no-nonsense policy when it comes to cheating, once a cheater - it becomes much easier to cheat again. I've seen my friends do it again and again to the point where they feel no guilt and then make up some BS justification.
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That's way too messy for me... I'm too egotistical and greedy to share a woman with any other guy or gal. :-P
The most flawless answer. You don't. 2 simple wise words. If you read the whole text I think you are A trouble or wasting your time.
i agree, i honestly try to loose interest when i see a girls with someone, i dont get y other guys are like that, except the guys looking for a fling.
so accurate.
sucks that I've been cursed to continuously feel intrigued by taken men but so true.
That's because you want what you can't have, but you should still take a step back and respect the couple's relationship.
i do honestly its not my relationship to involve myself in. itd be extremely out of place to even flirt or mention my feelings.
What a waste of a take. The simple answer to this is YOU DONT! Period! There are plenty of other people out there. Besides, even if you successfully took someone who was in a relationship what makes you think he or she won't do it to you.
Smart girl, right answer, very simple you don't, it's disreapectful and wrong.
nice take, but sometimes it's hard to tell or know if someone is taken or single, how to know these things?
Asking?
You could say, "so how come you're single/don't have a boyfriend/girlfriend?". You could check their online profile. You could check to see if they have regular flirtatious/loved up contact with one person online. You could ask them directly. You could ask their friends. There's many ways to get around it.
I'm talking about physically how can one tell if someoone is single, I've seen plenty of hot nice girls on the street and they are walking alone, how can i know if they're single,
You can't tell by physical appearance. You'd have to ask.
and make yourself look like a fool?
You wouldn't. Strike up a conversation, ask if they would like to meet up again or ask for their number and they may say no because they're in a relationship/not interested or they may say yes and be totally up for it which would suggest they're single. If they tell you they're single or they're really eager to meet up with you, but you find out they're in a relationship, then it's not entirely your fault because you weren't told. You can't possibly believe that people who are in relationships suddenly change in appearance.
There are many women that ONLY chase after taken guys... that's both attempted or actual cheating & is a downer for the guys that do want a girlfriend.
And I'm sure there are an equal number of men who do the same. Obviously, they're not decent, respectful people who appreciate the monogamy of a relationship.
No one can leave another if they aren't truly with them. If you meet someone and want them and they want you back then that's all good in my opinion unless they are married. It's just my opinion. Life is too short to not get what you want.
we as a people don't even condemn no-fault divorce... marriage vows are promises you can break on a whim without penalty.
so why would we honor dating relationships as important?
'You don't.' End of take.
Great title... you got me!
Agreed. I find it sickening that people even try.
You don't simple as that.
Had me scared at first lol
Good take. I wish everyone felt the way you do
Someone's been cheated on...
Yes, but I still had these beliefs before I was cheated on. I've always prized relationships and monogamy and I've never cheated. I don't appreciate it when girls start flirting with my partner and are clearly trying to lead him away from me. I don't think anyone would appreciate that. I've never tried flirting with a taken man so I don't know why others can't refrain from it.
Yeah I agree. Unfortunately its something that's always going to happen. I've never cheated, but I know plenty of friends that have. One just needs to have a no-nonsense policy when it comes to cheating, once a cheater - it becomes much easier to cheat again. I've seen my friends do it again and again to the point where they feel no guilt and then make up some BS justification.
Misleading title but I like the take
Unless you want a polyamorous relationship.
This is clearly about monogamous relationships only.
Clearly. But looking at things from another point of view sometimes helps us understand.
Agree 100%.