I recently just returned from a trip to Spain. I go every year for three weeks and every year I go to the same bar after I've had a meal or i was out for the day or whatever it may be but I always go to that one bar. This year though a new guy was working there and as soon as I saw him it sent shivers down my spine and I got butterflies. It wasn't because I was attracted to him psychically although he is very attractive that's not what caused me to feel that way. It was like an emotional pull, like no matter how hard I tried I couldn't take my eyes off him. I don't even know how to explain it. He would stare at me too though, we always caught each other staring. When he spoke to me, although as far as our conversations went was ordering a drink or small talk about the World Cup as that was going on at the time, his voice made my knees weak. I would go to the bathroom a lot in the hopes of running into him but always missed him by just a few seconds. When we were leaving on the last night there and we told him we were going home and we said goodbye he said to please stay, to come out with him tomorrow, he said it in a jokingly way and everyone else was just joking around saying goodbye and thought he was saying to it to everyone but when he said that he was looking right into my eyes although no one else seemed to notice and when we had that moment it didn't seem like a joke, my heart leaped and it felt like we were the only people there and ever since I got home I cannot get him off my brain. I feel an emotional connection and it's so strong. I barely know him! All I know about him is him name, he's Spanish, loves football and that's he loves to whistle (every night while he wandered around tables he whistled). It's not a crush, I've had many crushes and this is not a crush so what is it? Has anyone else ever felt this way? Help me!
I feel a strong connection someone I barely know? HELP?
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