For many perhaps, your question is too much to ask of them. Paradoxically, you desperately want to find an effective solution to let go of the very person you desperately desire to hold on to. Therefor, something, somehow, soon, has to give.
Having said that, my advice, start accepting the reality of the matter. At this juncture, you guys are not compatible enough to fulfill each others needs and wants as a partner. You are not the right fit for each other.
Secondly, and perhaps more importantly, in an effort to stop relying upon him emotionally, get out of the house, socialize, call up old friends if possible, and make new ones. Expand your social circle. For the less you are emotionally dependent upon him, the less you will dwell, the quicker you will recover.
Also, treat him as a platonic friend and nothing more. No flirting, no cuddling, no dates or the like, no change in behavior if he mentions another women. No getting jealous over his romantic life. End of story. If, for some reason, you cannot adhere to such, then you may need to cut or limit ties with him for some time to get over him.
In any case, if you remain in contact with him, you likely have a long road ahead of you before you come out on the side.
GL,
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