Younger guys interested in older women.....

[Anonymous]

So, I look younger than my age (finally it is working in my favor to look younger), I am fit and just overall friendly and nice, and I have a lot of guys in their 20's who ask me out or pay attention to me. They know I am in my 40's, and the few who really are sincere, well spoken, intelligent and express a believable reason for why they would date someone older, well I have accepted dates with them.

My question is this, though many have said that they like the low-drama of dating someone older as long as they are attracted to them, I have a theory that many think it is going to be a free ticket to a jump in the hay, lol.

If you have dated or wanted to date an older woman, or have friends who have, tell me, is there an urban legend attached that older women are sex-starved and a good shot at having sex? Or is it really just a wide variety of reasons that younger guys ask out older women?

Just curious, no big thing, but I love to understand human nature and what motivates people.

[shewonderswhy]

I have been told by quite a few younger men that older woman are a fantasy...Just the thought of being with an older woman for them...They never went into detail and I didn't ask, so like you I am curious to see what men have to say for themselves...

[Asker]

I can say I dated 2 guys, both 25, that totally wanted a relationship and I had to break it off with both of them for the reason most relationships break-up, it just wasn't going to work out. But I have also dated others that clearly want something casual, and I get that, they are in their 20's and I don't fault them for not wanting a relationship. But there are others that have approached me online to the point that I cannot help but think there is some sort of silly idea they have...

[curiousguy2]

The fantasy thing is very true. At least it is with me it is.

[coolguy93939]

there was this woman today at a gas station

she looked older but was soo fine

idk what it is but I would have loved to jump in the "hay" with her

its probably because your fit and look younger

[JamieLoves]

Not sex starved, more experienced , which is usually true. I dated a women 52 over 20 years older. She was a lot of fun and we had a lot in common. When you find love, age doesn’t matter.

[EyeKnowMeNahYou]

I don't think it's so much of a big deal. A young man sees an attractive woman whether she is in her thirties forties but older than he is. Now if it is on your mind to think for him and think he's probably young I remember when I was young so therefore you just want so could run in the hay, then I will say you're denying the privilege of getting to know another woman an experiencing all the woman so that he just knows that the fact is that all older women are not similar to younger women and you're just not going to get me in the sack.

When I was younger typically when I was 23 that was a 33-year-old that I was interested in and I made it known and yes I was physically attracted to him but also just enjoyed it because she was friendly we talked we were literally co-workers so it's not like we could avoid each other but genuinely that's how I came to her she thought I was cute and she wanted to give me the time of day but at the same time she was just like you're young so I could just give you some and we can just enjoy something but we couldn't spawn a relationship. Some parts of me was cool that other parts was just like why you denying me so then I figured out I was like well seems like older and younger or just the same both can play games on both can be mature at one time or another. So moral of the story is usually on discretion but don't necessarily overthink the situation if that genuinely interested in you and you can tell intuitively and intelligently then give them a chance. If you think they're just trying to get a role in the hay send them on their way and don't even entertain them.