What do you think of waiting until marriage for sex? (Page 2)

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I have heard that some people that this whole idea is impractical but I think that if its the right person, they would be willing to wait. What do you guys think?

MyBabyAngels · Answer

I am not a virgin, but since i gaved my heart to God i decided to wait for someone that really loves me. Basically yes, they gotta put a ring on it lol. It all makes sence daddy just looking out for he's bbgirl :)

MFoey · Answer

If you're in a dedicated, loving relationship and your gut tells you it's the right time, then you're ready. But, if you love the person and aren't feeling like its the right time, you should wait until you do.

SweetNectarine · Answer

I plan on saving it till marriage, but I am only human and cannot completely guarantee that I won't get caught up in "the heat of the moment."😞I would be disappointed in myself for my lack of self control, but I would not beat myself up over it. My mother and sister most definitely would, they have been drilling it into my brain since I was a kid to remain abstinent.

ArabianPwincess197 · Answer

I think its a great idea. Shows you're loyal to each other, makes it special

JackKerouac77 · Answer

People are free to do as they please. #TooLateForMeGuessIHaveToDrinkGreenTea

fearful · Answer

At 15 it was very practical, I'm 24 and still not married and won't be getting married anytime soon, so now its not practical

Anonymous · Answer

I personally couldn't wait till marriage I just wanted to have fun however I respect people who want to wait till marriage and if I met a girl who wanted to wait till marriage I would wait for her if I thought she was the one :)

sawno · Answer

I would be willing to wait if she wants to. Personally i don't believe so much in waiting until marriage. What i do believe in is waiting until true love has been developed.

Lena19 · Answer

If they want to have sex after marriage, that is great. If not, that is great as well. No one has the right to tell someone how to live their own life.

stuffhappens85 · Answer

I think it's important to get to know someone sexually before you marry them. Sex is a big part of marriage and if you aren't compatible in bed then you are going to have problems.

Anonymous · Answer

Saving yourself is healthy emotionally, physically, and spiritually. It's more traditional and plus contreceptives are pricy, so it's cheaper too!

su0myn0na · Answer

I actually don't care. It's all up to you. It's your body, it's your life, you rule everything about you. Have sex, enjoy and do whatever you want, just take note of the consequences. Better learn the downfall of your actions. If you decide to keep it until marriage, then good for you and the love of your life. But let no one stop you, not because of tradition, religion, culture or whatsoever. It's your choice. You know what's best for you.

madlyinlovewithhim · Answer

Virginity is the greatest gift can woman give to his man.

MrExplorer · Answer

I think it really doesn't matter these days, as long as you are ready to accept any consequences that may arise from it.

janaina · Answer

I would save myself until being in a serious relationship/when I feel the time is right. It doesn't seem to be much point in just waiting if I feel 100% ready and comfortable.

lkjhg69cum · Answer

Honestly, I think it is very honorable and respectable, and that is coming from a very slutty man. Honestly if you want to wait, don't let anyone shame or talk you out of it. That's cool.

Little_Mystery18 · Answer

how is it impractical? people do it all the time. Im 18 and a virgin waiting for marriage. the right guy will respect that and wait.

Anno_Domini · Answer

My fiancée and I are waiting for marriage, but we are Catholic and on the conservative, traditional end of the Catholic faith.

slatyb · Answer

It's a silly idea. Sexual compatibility is much too important.

Anonymous · Answer

I think it's a good idea, provided your patient. I did wait (till 27) and have no regrets whatsoever... I'm less tempted by 'cheating' after marriage.

CherriesBlossom · Answer

Before I marry any guy I would like to look at his goods and see what he has to offer in bed. No way I'm marrying any dude blindfolded.

cluelessforlove · Answer

When you restrain from sex you know the other person is with you for who you are. With sex it most of the time to satisfy their sexual drive.

BelleGirl21 · Answer

I think it's something that should be respected not looked down on. Do what makes you happy and proud.

Janett21 · Answer

I voted : "I will have sex when I want". Ok I respect people who want to wait till marriage, but I prefer having sex whenever I want.

Vesuvius87 · Answer

Do what you find comfortable with and find a guy that thinks like that too. Personally, I believe in waiting for a relationship, not marriage.

snuggle_bunny88 · Answer

Does waiting until he proposes count? Whatever, I really don't care lol. It's done can't take it back even if I wanted to.

_stella · Answer

I used to believe that you should wait until marriage but I don't really know how i feel about it now. I don't really see the reasoning behind it other than the fact that its religiously wrong

Marstalk · Answer

If you this is your plan then go for it. To be honest I wish I had.

sarahtui · Answer

SHOUTOUT to the men who said this was a bullshit theory. Shove your opinion up your ass cause you're a bullshit theory... world peace :)

Anonymous · Answer

If my boyfriend would have wanted to wait I'd wait for him, but for me the only thing that matters is that I truly love the person I sleep with (which I do).

RationalMale · Answer

waiting for marriage is a smart move for a girl, assuming she marries young. for a man, today, waiting untill marriage is dumb, especially since marriage is no guarantee you'll get steady sex.

Anonymous · Answer

Let people think what they want, never force your ideas upon others nor let others force their on you.
Not everyone will agree with you, but it's your call not theirs. And you won't agree with everybody.

This_guy_here · Answer

Sex is a very important part in a relationship. Waiting until marriage to find out you're sexually incompatible sounds painful at many levels.

MaisGem21 · Answer

Yea but how do you know if he/she is the right one if you don't have sex with them first?

katie315 · Answer

i will wait to have sex till after marriage but that doesn't mean i will do other sexual things in the relationship

musicbrain5 · Answer

Commendable, but it wasn't for me so I didn't wait.

xPoison · Answer

Personally i find the idea stupid.. but to each their own

meg2015 · Answer

it is worth waiting until marriage if its the right person.

unachicamuyalta · Answer

If I had to do it all over again I would wait till I got married.

Anonymous · Answer

What if there horrible at having sex that will suck

Anonymous · Answer

I'd wait till marriage. The v card is a pretty huge deal, and you never know if the person who you think is 'the one' will leave you or not.

Trucksmash · Answer

Get in the sack ASAP, what if it's no good then you find yourself married to someone who dosent do it for you? What a disaster.
Easily averted by a good year or so of shagging before you do anything daft like getting married.

Hulksdaddy · Answer

If the guys experienced he might be upset on how bad the sex is because if she's a virgin she won't be able to take it not only that she'l be begging him to stop & lack of experience

Thrifty · Answer

It's probably better to wait until marriage that way you marry for the right reasons.

Calex · Answer

How about waiting until sex for marriage? Makes sense for some people :D

tina15xox · Answer

I tried to wait but couldn't so I let my bf have it

MrZylister · Answer

If you're ready for sex, go ahead but if you're not and you still go for it then you pay the consquences.

Anonymous · Answer

No I want to enjoy as much hot sex as I can and have a blast.

Anonymous · Answer

I couldn't wait until marriage. I need to have sex early. Its too much to wait :)

Anonymous · Answer

I can't vote. On one hand, I applaud people who do that for their restraint and control, but me personally? Not sure I can do that. :/

AllThatSweetJazz · Answer

Impractical, in the modern era.

innocentlee88 · Answer

Once you realize how complicated things can get, you many times wish you would've waited. I wish I would have waited.

Anonymous · Answer

Wait till Marriage then you'll have more fun. Especially on the honeymoon.

Anonymous · Answer

The question i had a lot is  How to have the best sex ever? Answer is wait Meaning wait till you married and also believe you have a successful marriage if both of you wait :)

Anonymous · Answer

Theoretically, it is a very nice idea. But many people cannot control themselves when they want to have sex, including me.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't know how people can even try to do that these days. Unless you get Married supper early or something. The drive is too strong...

Anonymous · Answer

Sex helps your relationship with that person It makes it stronger and y'all closer I say sex before marriage

gotnothing2do · Answer

True a person can wait if they really love u

Roast_Beef · Answer

I meant to say i dont care, but who cares.

Ophidia · Answer

I find it laughable and worthy of condescension.

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