First I want to say, I'm sorry you're in this situation, I know it must be an incredibly difficult time. You already know that sleeping with a married man is wrong and what's done is done so there's no point in anyone making you feel worse when you're asking for help, your situation is punishment enough.
You can't trust a man who cheated on his wife to be faithful to you even if he does leave her. You also need to consider the fact that she and her baby will forever be a part of his life; this could vary from limited contact in the form of alimony and child support payments, to active coparenting. She's going to be really mad at both of you (and rightfully so), you need to consider whether you can handle the drama (it will affect your child too)- this extends to his family who will be sympathetic to her and her baby (who will be their blood relative and thus above you in family priorities). Even if he leaves her for you, if he doesn't want an active role in her baby's life that reflects on him as a father i. e. the father of your child.
You really do need to plan as though you will be alone in this. You could always consider adoption or an abortion if you don't want to raise the baby on your own.
Can you raise the kid on your own? Big responsibility.
And he is saying he can leave her for you to. What of he will do the same to you? How you can trust him now
He is a married man. Let them deal their problems. If they gonna divorce, it shouldn't be because of you.
Stay away. Find another job. Move to another city.
He's not gonna leave her but say congratulations you have twins... Wow like it was all her fault people. It's mostly his fault too bc he sounds like an asshole that can't keep his fuckin dick in his pants. Granted you should've said no. However two women pregnant at the same time he's a guy with a complex.
Your boss is a dick and now has to pay the price lol. Unprotected sex especially (go read how many women have been infected with HIV due their cheating husbands) You fell for it hook, line and sinker. People make mistakes, it proves you human, but now you have to take responsibility. If you want the baby, you have to consider the reality that you will raise it by yourself. If he leaves his wife for you, then you have a man with other kids, baggage and I wouldn't trust him out alone.
Let's assume this isn't a troll question.
I only feel sorry for those kids being born into broken families. Unfortunately people can have sex even at the emotional level of a moth. There isn't much you can do now, either you get an abortion or raise the kid on your own. He is only going to stick around until his next conquest arrives.
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Tell him your pregnant. You are all adults so behave like adults. You knew he was married, he knew he was married. You knew pregnancy was a risk. Now suck it up and deal with it.
Congratulations to the new parents by the way.
This 'boss' is gonna be in REAL trouble. You just focus on raising your kid the right way, so that he/she doesn't grow up to be like you and have sex with a married man/woman.
Damn... I feel sorry for you. I don't know why. Cause what you did was low and chances are if he does leave his wife he might not have much due to alimony and child support payments and you'll always be known as a home wrecker. And if he stays with his wife which he probably will you'll be a single mother and then you're child will ask mommy how'd you meet my daddy and you'll have to tell him the embarrassing story of how you effed your boss.
So the part where you fucked up is when you thought it'd be a good idea to get plastered with your boss. You'll probably end up raising the kid alone.
well you made your bed you can lay in it , p. s. you'll be on back burner while the wife will still think she has the perfect husband do you know how many say they'll leave their wives/husband and never do.
i think you are mature enough to have safe sex.
he can cheat on his wife to sleep with you so there is a chance to do the same later.
better ask him to keep with his wife, and you are with your child.
Well, the only thing you can do is continue to be a immoral skank, because I see no changing in you! Millions of guys out there and you have to pick one that is married! You're such a loser!
His wife deserves the truth. And you do not to be in a relationship with a man like him. Yes, you're pregnant with his child but thats where the relationship needs be for now. Don't rush into being with him. (Loyalty is obviously lacking) Take care of yourself. No more drinking. No partying. Take care.
I think you should get an abortion and get another job somewhere else and stay away from married men in the future and stop trying to sleep your way to the top
Have an abortion and move on from this stage of your life where you felt it was okay to fuck a married man. #WTF
Make better decisions in the future?
Oh how society is crumbling little by little.
Well did you at least get the raise? lol
slut smh hate girls like you.
el, oh, el. Could this be any funnier
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