You have reason to be worried. He apparently thinks her number is more important, to maintaining a strong relationship with you, after he was already caught cheating. He has been flirting with a girl, and even contacting her after he agreed not to. That may not be the same as having sex with her, but it is a form of cheating and you need to see it for what it is.
It takes both people to make a relationship work, and he can't even be bothered not to go out of his way to flirt with another girl. Clearly he isn't willing to do his part to make the relationship work, and you can't force him. The excuse of "we are just friends" is a common excuse used by cheaters. It makes you look unreasonable for reacting to obvious red flags. I think you need to think about if you want to remain in a relationship with a guy that cares so little about the relationship that he won't even delete her number.
if this does tell you to walk away before you kill him him nothing does, he is playing your heart strings and if you know this girl can be trusted with stuff i would just go let him text his heart out and you find a guy who will loose his little black book when he has a girl.
Either they are both lying or she is trying to break y'all apart if she wants him and there may be nothing going on between them but some flirting but yeah as I really think about it, you did say he admitted it and can't stop talking to her. So he doesn't like you nor respect you enough to stop contacting her.
There's no need to be someone else's doormat. Why are you letting him take you for a free ride? What do you owe him?
Leave him for another guy who respects you. You're still young - there are so many other boys out there you have so much time to try out!
It's a simple couple clicks and she's deleted, clearly he's putting it off for some reason. However if he has been texting her chances of he probably knows her phone number sort of in his head. Can't stop her from texting him but he can- not reply back.
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GET OUT OF IT RIGHT NOW. He sounds like a dick and you'll only get more attached if you stay with him. which will cause more heart break in the end. don't stay with a guy who does shady things. nobody deserves to be treated like a side bitch. if he really cared about you he would delete her number in a heartbeat and erase her from his memory. And he wouldn't have ever gotten involved with that girl in the first place.
Its never a good sign when your boyfriend is flirting with someone else especially if you know and he won't stop. I think you need to have a talk with him and if he isn't going to stop flirting you may want to end it. Why flirt when you have someone?
I feel like if SHE is telling you about it, it's definitely something worthy of concern. Tell him you're really not comfortable with it, and you know that they talk pretty often. Ask him to see the messages and see if he gets defensive.
"This guy I'm seeing"
You didn't say "boyfriend ", as in you two aren't monogamous.
Therefore he can still talk to other girls. Have u two talked about being seriously committed?
Red flag. Ditch him. he lied and he admitted he's flirting with her, why get in the middle of that.
You're not overreacting. He obviously has a thing for this girl and it's not ok.
Break it off before he breaks your heart. he's into this girl and won't let go
People feel jealous because they don't feel secure in their relationship. Maybe bring that up with him before you get too far down the green path of no return.
He wants her and is willing to risk you to get her. Dump him.
He's trying to keep her as a spare tire. It's always good to have a spare
Girls aren't just friends to guys. She's definitely a backup plan.
what is the content of his texts to her?
He obviously has a thing for her
Drop that guy
Chill they are just friends
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