This guy has this ex who won't leave him alone; he has told her to stop contacting him and to leave him alone, and he has even told her how he wants nothing to do with her. Despite him saying he wants nothing to do with her, he refuses to delete her number. Why? Why would he keep her number in his phone if he wants nothing to do with her?
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Update. I care about this because he and I family and I care about him but I also do not understand a lot of things he does. The reason I know he hasn't deleted her number is because I am with him right now getting lunch I asked him why he won't delete her number but he wouldn't tell me. I even told him to go to the police and get a restraining order since she is harassing him but he won't do this either.
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I told him to look into changing his number as i can see it affecting him when she contacts him but he won't do this either. I've seen it with my own eyes his ex harassing him and stalking him online but he won't delete her number and he refuses to get a restraining order. I just came here to ask for some advice since my cousin won't tell me why he won't do any of things anyone advices him to do that could help him
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He wants to hang on
The guy is single and when this girl told him she missed the sex and missed going down on him he didn't respond other then with frustration before blocking her everywhere yet he still won't delete her number. She has basically stalked him online and harassed him via text messages and emails but he still won't delete her number
I don't delete people's numbers from my phone. Especially ex's because they will do some crazy shit banking on you not having their number anymore.
Probably wants her as a backup plan in case he’s bored one night and no one else is around
I thought about that but he is a single guy and she did disclose she missed the sex and she missed going down on him but he didn't respond and his reaction was total frustration before blocking her but yet he won't delete her number
How you know for sure he didn’t delete her number by now?
Because I saw with my own eyes he hasn't deleted her number as I am sitting next to him. I even asked him why he won't delete her number but he wouldn't answer
Ohhhhh. Her number. Not yours. You’re that same crazy girl. Nvm.
This is my blood related cousin from my dad's side who I am talking about not some guy I am dating or seeing. Pretty gross to be interested in dating your cousin who is blood related to you
Then why do you care so much? And why didn’t you say that the other three times we talked about this?
Are cousins not allowed to go to lunch? Are cousins not allowed to wonder why he won't delete his ex's number when he is sitting here miserable and frustrated and I can see it bothering and affecting him that she won't leave him alone. His the one telling me she is making him feel suicidal but everything myself and his friends and my dad his uncle have told him to do to get rid of the girl he won't do it. But hey you are seeing me as the crazy one when all I am doing is looking out for him and trying to understand why he won't delete her number
I provided an update but I guess you didn't read the update and maybe it's lesson for you to not automatically assume it's a new girl he is seeing wanting him to delete someone's number because your assumptions can be way off and completely wrong. Why do I care. Oh my goodness am I supposed to heartless and not give a damn about my cousin who is my Dad's nephew I'm trying to understand things so I can maybe approach things differently since he claims she is making him feel suicidal but he won't do anything we have suggested
But all i get from people like you is is interrogation and questioning why I care. Geez maybe I'll let my cousin go kill himself since you all think I shouldn't care
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Just give it up already.