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I like a guy at work, but he has a girlfriend. Do I stand a chance? (Page 2)
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No don't do it! Karma always come back. Do not do anything. If it was meant to be it will be
and why do you plan to fuck their relationship over? there are so many millions single men in the world. be careful cause karma is a bitch and very unjust action you make will fall on you and your children... .
Her children? whoa thats a pretty serious curse you're putting on her.
I don't. I just want to know if I stand a chance, maybe he's interested. He doesn't stop me flirting with him.
@HulkkSmash its a pattern i've noticed in life. not a curse. i dont give two shits about her fling. BUT i've noticed those who make couples break up etc get far worse tragedies in their childrens' marriages, relationships etc... .
That's some evil right there that you're saying.
oh and by the way "you dont try" but you daily try to flirt with him. and then we bitch when men call us inconsistent and crazy... .
@HulkkSmash whatever dude. we speak different languages as it seems... .
It's only flirting. It's not liked I'd make a move on him.
but if he reciprocated you'd move on, wouldn't you? anyway, do as your consciousness dictates to you. none of our business.
oh and because he laughs at some jokes of yours at work it doesn't mean he secretely fancies you. geez, jesus christ. some women have shit for brains. i'm embarassed for my gender.
I don't think there is any need to be rude. I was only asking a question, nobody made you answer it. What is it with people, they're either rude or patronising.
Look, I'm sorry you found my opinion patronising, but you can't keep telling people they're rude for disagreeing with you. You're right, nobody made anybody answer this question, but nobody made you post it either. You're opening yourself up to people's opinion's by doing that.
Multiple accounts? lol
@HulkkSmash What do you mean?
@Pixxiie nvm i thought you were the opinion owner of this one. I didn't notice you had another opinion.
@HulkkSmash haha no problem ☺️☺️ I was just reading through is all.
@Pixxiie OP is definitely a trip. She's obviously lacking some morals.
@HulkkSmash The opinion owner or the asker? I thought the asker was a troll at first I won't lie but I think she's being genuine.
@Pixxiie they asker. She seems pretty genuine. I've seen it many times before so its not completely out there.
The asker*
@HulkkSmash I'm not going to lie, I feel for her a little bit. She's developed feelings for someone who sounds to me like a decent guy. She's most likely inexperienced in these things and is going about things all wrong. Him having a girlfriend is most likely driving her insane with jealousy and she's acting out. But it's rare that a couple can be as happy as they sound, so why mess with that?
No, don't bother.
You will either incur the wrath of the other chick
Or be a sidechick, and NEVER the main one.
Or be the rebound chick he will leave eventually.
Leave it alone.
Leave them
If you really care about him, don't be a dick and be happy for him, because he is clearly very happy with his current relationship
you sound just like me. lol. and these are the responses i get. you know the situation better then any of us, go with your gut. why get reassurance from strangers who don't even give a damn. do what you feel is right, whether it is or not.
My rule is that a relationship usually means off limits for the moment. If they're happy then it's best to let them be happy.
I don't see any chance at all, if anything it sounds like you're going to far and you're going to get him mad or in trouble at work, just keep friendly at work and stop trying to break them up
The last think I want to do is make him mad. It would be nice to have him in my life, even as a friend (ideally as more but whatever) but I get the vibe his girlfriend won't let him.
Well if she even knows about you she would keep him from talking to you but I doubt she knows, I'm sure he is quite happy with her so just keep it professional at work
She knows about me, because she waits for him outside of work and I've walked out with him before, but all she did was smile at me, she didn't say hello or anything and he said bye to me before they walked off. I think she was quite rude not saying anything.
Well that is her man, you're lucky you got at smile , she knows he has to work with you so she is going to act civil
well duh... the only reason you want to befriend him is because you want more. him and his girlfriend probably laugh at you together.
@orphan No need to be rude
Wow wtf? Are you one of those people that want all people to run after them and once you see somebody that is happy with another person you get jealous?
A whole lot of text. You stand a chance if they break up
you should back off. he has a girlfriend that he really love.
He's clearly not interested. When you asked this question I instantly thought of the crazy white chick from that movie Obsessed.
You could make a fake profile and send something to his girlfriend then cause them to fight, they may break up. Guess who then comes out smelling like a white mushroom? You've already shown interest, so the you've already laid the ground Work haha
If he's willing to cheat on her with you, then he's willing to cheat on you with another girl.
I don't want to sound rude but stop it. You don't have a chance with him he is clearly happy with his relationship and he doesn't want a new one. Have some respect for yourself and stop this
You women are insane. He's obviously not interested and content without you in his life. Move on woman.
But he has a laugh with me in work. He wouldn't do that if he weren't interested right? Plus he doesn't stop me flirting with him, so he can't care about his girlfriend that much or he'd tell me to stop right? So he must enjoy it.
Whatever your little brain wants to believe.
@asker it's common for people to laugh out of politeness
No need to be rude. I didn't make you answer my question. Everyone answering is either rude or patronising.
It's pretty simple. This may be distasteful advice but i think you should wait on the wings and Continue flirting. Majority of couples that move in together before marriage split up so your chance will come
Dating a coworker is always bad news esp if he's taken, just move on
You sound kinda crazy lol
Lol 😜
Time to just lay your cards on the table. Tell him you are DTF any time he wants. Or if he just wants a bj, you would love to.
whether you stand a change or not, he has a girlfriend...
Homewrecker...
Those two girls who downvoted you are home wreckers too LOL Lol
No, most guys aren't interested in trolls.
Uh-oh, the work relationship... :P
tell his girl to shove it and share him if need be
Stop trying to ruin ppls relationships
I have no girlfriend now.
Stop and leave them alone pls lol
Leave them alone!!
No, no you don't.
Move on. Don't be the other woman
kill his girlfriend!!!
Buff f yuvf
Are you trying to communicate?
Stay away
No u dont