What is the method to go from fuckbuddies to bf/gf for a woman?

[Anonymous]

:)

[taylor_NJ]

This is something you cannot push on him! If he has clearly stated that he isn't looking for a relationship, you need to believe him. Continue being his good friend... but don't picture yourself being in a relationship with him if that isn't what he wants. You seem like you have a big heart, and you shouldn't waste your time with someone who only wants to be "your friend, with benefits". Find a man who IS ready to start something with you. It takes most men, many many years of maturing before they really realize what they want. Don't put yourself through the heartache of giving yourself to someone who doesn't want you. I know it will be tough, because you really like him... but do it for yourself. :)

[MusicMayhem]

"... you shouldn't waste your time with someone that only wants to be "your friend, with benefits"".

What's to say she was wasting time? You say this like the guy is an arsehole who was using her. Here's a thought, maybe they both mutually agreed to this friends with benefits situation but with time she grew feelings for him? Doesn't make him a bad person if he wants what they both started out as desiring from each other.

[miamigirl1970]

Can't say there is a method... if you start out as just buddies, if he wanted more, it would probably have already started to become more... guys want what they want! You can't change that fact, the only thing you can change is if you keep coming back for the sex or not... best of luck

[Somechick119]

well, most of the times it starts off as just fucking around and we really dont care about the guy then the more we hang around the more we catch feelings that's only if the guy shows some sort of affection other than sexual affection like he shows that he cares or some shit

[Dudeman1234]

Despite what the cynics say not only is going from friends with benefits to BF/GF possible it happens all the time. But the thing is it has nothing to do with strategy just emotions.

Either your time together has developed an emotional connection between you two or it didn't. As simple as that.

One day the two you sit down and talk about the future of your relationship honestly. And either you take the next step or move on.

The important thing to do is not to cling on to delusions if he/she is not into you there not going to be later. So cut the cord and move on.

[DonaldTrump]

You don't You grab them by the pussy.

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[rjroy3]

You don't.

Unless fuckbuddies was your choosing and not his original goal. Otherwise, he's likely not interested

[JohnDoe3000]

There isn't a method. He has to fall in love with you and you can't force that anymore by acting a certain way than a "nice guy" can force you to fall in love by buying you presents.

Also remember women increase their physical standards for casual sex while men lower them.

[Anonymous]

Well not really a method (there is none) but to just be honest with him and tell him how you feel. That you've developed feelings for him and would like to become more serious and how does he feel about that? He may feel the same and be happy or he might decide that it's best you end your relationship but it's the risk you'll have to take. That's the only "method".

[Wonderer89]

I don't think is a "method" just have a chat about being exclusive and see if he'd like to go out on a date (take sex out of the equation for the date). Sadly if he doesn't want to there isn't a lot you can do sorry 😕

[Anonymous]

There is no method. It either will happen or it won't, but most of the time if it starts off as fuck buddies or one person wants something casual with no intent of getting serious and the other does, the person who wants something casual might back off and end it once the other party catches feelings and wants something more than that.

Might be better off looking for someone else for your own sake.

[PinkMichae]

There is no method. It just happens. Someone's gotta step up and take the chance to express what you're feeling. It's always a risk like with anyone you open up too.

[Silvia89]

Don't think there is a real method. I think it will happen if you both really like each other. Just be 100% yourself and if he realizes that you're one in a million and really likes you, then he will commit.
Otherwise let him go and find someone else, even if it could hurt a little. :)

[MargaritaPeach]

You don't. Generally, things are the way they are for a reason.

[Djaaaaaay]

By saying there's (no method ) , condones the fact that it's ok to have as many partners, then settle with one in a relationship if so desired. Most men are NOT in favor of this. Women on the other hand feel this is.. ok

[Prof_Don]

This is usually up to if the guy:
1) feels long term compatibility with the woman
2) wants to be in a monogamous relationship

[MelG23]

I don't do 'fuckbuddies' - never have. This seems like an unhealthy way to start any relationship.

[WildButterfly]

I doubt there's a "method". Both parties have to want to take it to that level.

[Anonymous]

Communication at the right time or just letting things happen naturally and enjoying the moment and being happy despite the outcome. There is no "method."

[dudeman]

step one don't be a ho.
step too, o shit you fucked up step one.

[Prof_Don]

... but she's not a ho.

[dudeman]

@Prof_Don she has a fuck buddy

[Asker]

He told me he was wanting long term, I literally asked him what he wanted and he said that. Then he began treating me otherwise and basically that's all we've been it was never stated being a fuck buddy was the label

[Intraluminal]

There is no method. some guys want a girlfriend, and some don't.

[disgustingweebtrash]

I highly doubt this will happen, he'll bail as soon as you show any signs of romantic feelings.

[bcromartie]

You'd have to be extremely useful and meaningful. And you likely aren't.

[3336PS]

End it and find a real partner to be bf/gf. :)

[Anonymous]

You don't go from fuckbuddies to a relationship. Its like that for a reason.

[Anonymous]

Tell him you don't want any other girl tasting his dick

[AleDeEurope]

You don't go from fuckbuddies to girlfriend.

[rgb008]

I don't think thats possible.

[MaximisPryme]

He might leave when you start to show feelings.

[MusicMayhem]

Hahaha 😂😂😂

[TonyRyanAgain]

Bust inside :-O