Should my boyfriend pay for my friend's drink if we all go out together? (Page 2)
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Now that women have equal rights, we also have equal responsibilities. Your boyfriend may buy you a drink out of the kindness of his heart, but he is definitely not obligated to buy drinks for anyone else. And he's not being stingy.
He is under no obligation to pay for anyone's drink but his.
You should be thankful he's paying for YOURS.
He is especially not obligated to pay for her drink. She's not his romantic partner.
So, you're asking him out, but not only do you not cover the bill, you let him pay for you? And not only that, you also expect him to pay for your friend? And you are questioning HIS character and HIS generosity now instead of your own?
Wow. Just wow.
because girls like free booze and shows😂😂
splitting is healthy n if you and your friends think they should not split but it's on boys ask her to why don't you pay for all of us... covering you is one and your friends is different
as a girl and your other girl friends will you guys take his gang to a cheap bar and say them it's girls night guys have your time we will pay..
sounds wearer weird even to Hear... you know why 😂😂
Your boyfriend paid for all of the tickets and you think he's cheap because when your friend offered a couple dollars to cover her drinks he accepted? Why should your boyfriend pay for your friend at all?
No, maybe he should've declined to seem polite but she did offer.
If this is really something to question his character about then maybe you should leave him. It is his duty to take care of YOU. Not your friends. He can support them if you ask under certain circumstances, but they aren't his priority because you are.
It's not "his duty" to take care of her. At all. WTF?
@jessica5d as her boyfriend he should, just as she should care for him too, wtf kind of relationships are y'all in?
i see what you mean but in my opinion that seems too petty to get worked up over. I mean, it was your friend that he didn't foot the bill for, not you- his girlfriend. sure, he could've been more generous, but some guys are just clueless lol. i'd only start to worry if he started doing that on dates or nights out with you. but if it's really bugging you, just talk to him about it.
No. What are you, a gold digger? He doesn't even HAVE TO pay for you. Buy your own shit
Spoken by a True Woman.
Lmfao I would put my friend in her place SO fast if she's expecting my boyfriend to pay her way. And if I was a guy, and my girl expected me to pay her friends way... she'd get put in her place so fuckin fast too
Why are you embarrassed? because he doesn't bow down to you and put you on a high horse because you have a vagina.
The only character that should be being questioned here is your friend. She sounds like a gold digger to me
how much were the drinks? 2/3 dollars. Only a petty person would complain about stuff like that.
his job was to come out and hangout and meet your friends I would say that's fine. every time you take him to meet a new friend he shouldn't have to pay for anything in my mind for them but if he does that's nice of him. they are friends he's not on a date with them.
LOL.
I'm sorry but is your friend a child? Homeless? Broke?
Then why the hell should he pay? Better yet, YOU invited her, so doesn't that put the obligation of paying on your shoulders given that logic? Penis doesn't = footing the bill.
WTF?
He's not fucking your friend. Why should he pay for her, it wasn't even his idea to do this to begin with! He was gentleman enough not asking her to pay, but since she offered, it's fair. If anything, you should have covered the whole night because you wanted your boyfriend to meet your friend.
Ew what? She's your friend not his what the hell is wrong with you? It's not that serious and your friend is a grown woman. She can pay for her own stuff, he's your boyfriend not hers.
😲 NO ONE SHOULD BE BUYING ANYONE DRINKS HERE, BUY YOUR OWN GOT DAMN DRINKS!!!
technically it would've been nice if he paid for her but he's not obligated to her but i can see your disappointment in him... remember she's not his date
he's not obliged to buy you or your friends drinks. This is just another case of girls wanting special treatment, yet constantly crying for equality.
and you have the nerve to call him stingy? grow up.
Would you pay for drinks for his frends if you all when out?
No! I don't think that it is stingy at all. Just coz he is a guy doesn't mean that he should have to cover everything and you're friend freely offered it. It's not like he asked her for it or something.
It's only one time so far, I wouldn't jump to conclusions yet. If he's always taking money from someone else for granted, only take and not give or pitch in for his part, such as never cover the costs or the bill then I would think he could be really stingy. He is working and have a job right?
But he paid for all the tickets, his drinks AND his girlfriends drink... This person was a complete stranger who was ONLY paying for her drinks... It's not like he didn't "pitch in" here ha