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Should my boyfriend pay for my friend's drink if we all go out together? (Page 3)
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Jesus, sounds like your boyfriend is in for a nightmare ride. Why should he be expected to pay for his gf's friends stuff. He didn't invite her out, you did
no why would he be responsible for that? He isn't even obligated to buy you drinks. Stop being sexist.
No, there's no reason why your boyfriend should treat her. In any case, you're the one who should have paid for your friend's drinks if you invited her.
are you guys buying rounds? if yes then your boyfriend should chip in
are you guys not doing rounds and buying your own drinks? if yes then no your boyfriend should not pay fir your mates drink your boyfriend does not have form of logical obligation to pay for your buddies drinks simply due to their relation to you
Why not invite your whole extended family and all their friends and their friends' families too, and make him pay OR ELSE.
Lol exactly. The brattyness and entitlement is strong with this one...
In Thailand, this is actually what happens if you as a white guy date a local Thai girl from a village.
@TheDevilInside I worked with a guy who went to Thailand on vacation and ended up dating (and marrying) a local girl. That is exactly what happened to him.
There's a good chance that she will clean up his bank account. Especially if he found her working in a bar or similar places.
@TheDevilInside That is where he found her... but it's been the best part of a decade and she hasn't cleaned him out yet.
oh then it's only a matter of time. Maybe she's waiting for a luittle mixed baby. Believe me, there are no good girls in bars. The stories are endless. If you fall in love with a girl from a thai bar, you're fucked. And dumb.
Oh come on, she offered, he took it.
Who cares?
He still paid for tickets for all of you!
What? No. Why can't you pay for it? It's YOUR friend. Aren't women equal? Nothing wrong with living frugal. That's how people become millionaires.
I'd be embarrassed to take your friend's money and would have just paid for the both of you but that's just how I was raised.
Where do you draw the line? What if she brings 20 friends and they all want the most expensive drinks, would you be embarrassed to take their money then?
Agree with @Kkaos. Don't want to bash on @myusernamerocks, maybe he just happen to have a ton of money, whether that's the case or not, you are not force to pay.
@Kkaos No, I'm not rich. And yes, I'd still pay for the 20 friends and my girlfriend. I was just raised to not take money from others ESPECIALLY not from your girlfriend or women who accompany you.
@lualesca I understand you aren't bashing, I wasn't either! :)
Hey, if that makes you happy, man. I just find it difficult to understand how you would be embarrassed to allow someone to pay for them self, I don't know what's so embarrassing about it. You'll just get used if you have that mentality, but like I said, if it makes you happy.
Its not stingy that he didn't pay for her drink, she isn't his girlfriend, you are. Does he pay for you? If so he isn't stingy. Have you thought about maybe your boyfriend can't afford to treat everyone?
I would def keep that friend at a distance, I certainly wouldn't trust a friend who expects my boyfriend to pay for her. I would watch out that she isn't trying to fill your head w/doubts, so that you break up.
Since you invited her, you should have covered her drinks.
You find problems in such trivial things. Oh dear...
Nothing wrong with it... It's a good trait actually... He knows how to handle funds...
No way. He got tickets for you and your friend, that was lovely of him, if I was your friend I would have bought him a drink, and I wouldn't of expected him to buy me anything at all.
He shouldn't even be paying for your drink. He isn't a bank account.
You shouldn't be questioning HIS character, he should be questioning YOURS.
If you believe that you should not have to pay for yourself because you have a man, you are what is wrong with our world.
I don't see how he's in the wrong here at all. Sorry
Asker, just curious... are you down voting everyone that doesn't agree with you?
If so, cool... but why bother to ask in the first place?
You are walking talking reason 124,738 why I don't even date anymore.
I'm questioning his character too. Why is he into bitches? Doesn't he know bitches love cake?
She is not making him cum so he doesn't even have to pay For her. She is her own person if you go out somewhere you make sure you have money he is not her dad.
You described women as prostitutes
@amphet11 girlfriend aren't cheap you pretty much not going to get a girlfriend if you're broke. Gifts, dates I'm just saying
So women are whores/prostitutes, got you.
@amphet11 no you obviously don't get what I'm saying
@amphet11 you clearly have issues with women did some girl only use you for money or something?
It baffles me how women can be so sexist in these times.
If a guy paying for dates is a prerequisite for you to date him, then yes you are a prostitute.
@amphet11 if the girls pats too then it's not a problem this issue with materialistic things are ridiculous. It should be 50/50 no matter what but I'm saying you're not going to pay for another adult if they didn't do anything for you in return. Unless they are family or homeless.
"but I'm saying you're not going to pay for another adult if they didn't do anything for you in return" the prostitution i speak of.
@amphet11 what so u would pay for a person u didn't know that wasn't homeless if they weren't going to pay you back? Unless you're making good money
It's not his responsibility to pay for your friend. He's not dating her, he's dating you.
I would not expect my boyfriend to pay for my friends drinks. He got her cheap tickets in the first place, if she wants to drink then that's on her.
Oops re-read the question and saw that he actually got her the tickets... regardless if they were cheap or not, he bought your friend and you tickets... he isn't expected to pay her way in drinking