My boyfriend says I don't show him enough love and attention wtf?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend says I don't show him enough love and attention, but I'm really confused why does he want love and attention. I feel like I'm the perfect girlfriend, I don't talk about my feelings I don't make him spend money on me, I don't bitch at him or nag him. All we really do is have sex I'm not the kind of girl who only has sex because their boyfriend wants them to but I actually enjoy it. I even told him he could have sex with other people if he wanted to. I dont rush him into saying he loves me, I don't make him hang out with my friends, and I don't try to hang out with his same goes for families. So what the hell could he possibly be upset about.

[Aizou]

Could be these exact things you don't do. If he instead feels like it's because you don't care. Relationships requires some compromise, but it's also about two equals being able to share their thoughts with each other, without holding anything back. For all I know, he could want you to "nag" a bit more.

[reale]

some people what affection. Judging from what you've said, it doesn't seem like you show it, or at least nowhere near enough of it. Sounds like you don't care about him at all.

[kaylaS91]

What could he be upset about?
Well.. he stated it pretty clearly. He'd appreciate it if you acted on and actually showed him that you care for him in more ways than just opening your legs and expecting him to read your mind.

[thenamesdesiree]

that's not no relationship. lmao. what girlfriend is okay with her boyfriend sleeping with other girls?

[nothinq]

Same as you minus allowing him to have sex with another girl, too far haha

[nothinq]

Basically telling him he can have sex with other people automatically would make him assume you dont love him. If my boyfriend said that to me, relationship clearly isn't working...

[Asker]

I thought guys wanted sex, what dude actually want love?

[nothinq]

Oh you're joking aren't you 😂

[Asker]

No I'm really not, I've never met a guy who wanted to be loved, only ever just sex. I don't know why to do.

[nothinq]

Guys want to be loved, like girls... do you love him? Lol or is it just sex

[writing_essays]

He doesn't like you because you don't respect yourself - you are having sex with him outside of marriage and you are telling him its okay to cheat on you with other girls.

[nothinq]

'You are having sex with him outside of marriage' give me a break

[AleDeEurope]

I don't know if you're trolling, but you sound like the worst girlfriend ever...

[Asker]

How though?

[AleDeEurope]

Because the relationship seems to only be focused on sex, and that's not how a relationship should be, unless you're in a friends with benefit relationship.

[bg1987]

Sounds like you two are pretty much just f*ck buddies.