unfortunately sometimes after living together the hunnymoon phase fades.
to me the Facebook thing wouldn't be a big deal because some people simply don't use Facebook much (like myself).
if he hasn't been giving you compliments in person however this is a problem that you two can work on.
It's important to try and find a way to relight the spark. This man really does love you and so you two should sit down and talk about the things you want and are willing g to give in a relationship. also maybe you two could plan a date night a week to keep things interesting.
My stepdad isn't very romantic and so sometimes my mom comes right out and says I haven't received any compliments yet today...
I also have a really corny idea that might help out.
My girlfriend made me this amazing jar full of things that she loves about me... Maybe you two could get a little mason jar and put pink a blue papers by the jar. that way whenever you guys think of something you love about eachother you could say it and write it down and put it in the jar. every night I read something that my girl loves about me and it's amazing :)
I know it seems kind of foolish but those little things can really help remind you two to put effort into the relationship and keep things fun.
I wish you two the best of luck :)
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Give him a reason to compliment you. Go out to dinner together, make sure you look stunning, and be optimistic. If he doesn't compliment you within 5 minutes, start acting disappointed, don't tell him why, and get in a mood with him. If he cares enough, he won't stop trying to solve the problem
Not liking pic on fb, no more compliments these things happens in all relationships after some time. But if u send him pic personally and he changing topic instead appreciating u then thts a prblm. You both live together and he taking u granted. exe's giving u compliments bcoz they dnt ve u at this moment. This is human nature... People dnt appreciate things which they already have. You crave for a new phn which launched recently in market but when u ve tht u dnt care much as time passes by. He has to appreciate u bcoz u not a phn but a living human. He shuld value u and ur feelings and appreciate ur efforts
The dynamics of a relationship can change over time! My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 years now. Things are definitely different. He doesn't compliment me as much either, and it used to really upset me... but then I realized "Damn we live together now, if he were to compliment me every single day, the compliments wouldn't seem very genuine anymore."
I doubt it's because he doesn't love you!! If it's really getting you down you can always bring it up to him. No guy wants to make his girlfriend cry!
My ex seldom complimented too. I just. figured that's his way.
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Talk to the man. Don't be pissy about it and accusatory tho cause that can escalate into a fight quickly. Just be polite and calmly ask why this is the case.
You said you two have been dating for a year and live together; maybe the honeymoon phase is over. When we start dating someone we show the best of us. Moving together with someone is a very big deal, because it shows how the other person truly is. Every couple goes through that even before moving together. I also wouldn't be very sceptical just because he hasn't liked your pictures on facebook; there's no way to know if he even saw them. If you really think there's something up with him, talk to him; open communication is the only way to solve these things.
you can dump anytime if you're not happy. just talk to him.
he sees you most days since y'all live together, its normal that y'all take each other for granted now. but if you want his attention again. give him the best sex he has ever had. that will make any guy fall inlove with a girl all over again
Do you want him to shower you with genuine compliments or fake compliments? Raising the issue with him may lead him to start complimenting just for the sake of it or just because it makes you happy.
Talk to him about it. Just don't ever compare him to your ex again... that is a bit below you
How often did you compliment him? How often do you compliment him now? Is this your primary love language? If so, does he know that?
Do you expect to be 'courted" until the day you die?Ah, you're basing the value of your relationship on what gets posted on FB. F'ing brilliant.
GAAH!!!its a common problem for the boys. Just talk to him
it depends. sweety some guy's. are not really good. at that department so they might change the. conversation. but I'm. 1 of the guy's and i would. at least say your dress looked nice or something but men are weird
Oh come on give the guy a break just because he doesn't likes your pictures or compliments you every now and then, that is not a thing to worry about.
Hey... Post some SHOE DANGLING PICS of Yourself on Facebook, and I'LL LIKE THEM.
Play a little more hard to get and he will start noticing your beauty.
girl because guys doesn't always compliment they get their time of a year when theyvare over it stip complimenting him then he wil start to do it
I think you are being too sensitive.
have you "let yourself go", recently?
Compliments need to be earned.
Talk to HIM not US.
HE knows not US.so find another one ho will love u more
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