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My guy told me that I'm "pretty but not the prettiest girl I've ever seen". Should I just end things? (Page 2)
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The problem is people think not telling the truth is the same as lying. I think some things we just don't need to know and shouldn't ever find out. TBH you're probably not the most beautiful woman he's ever seen but you also shouldn't have to hear that. I don't understand why someone is with someone if they don't get fucking heart eyes every time they look at them. I just don't. But that's just me anyway.
I agree. I don't want to be what someone is settling for. I don't actually believe that I am the prettiest. I don't think anyone is but I do think in his eyes I should be :)
Thinking you're the prettiest girl in the world and getting heart eyes for you are two different things though. I mean I loved my ex and I ALWAYS got heart eyes when I saw him but he also wasn't the best looking man on the planet. You gotta be real with it. I would never have told him that though.
You are so beautiful. I'm jealous. It's okay, if he loves you, he'll stay with you. At least you know that he likes you for you. If he liked you just for looks, he would've dumped you for the 'prettier' girl. Seriously, though, YOU ARE SO PRETTY. I can't.
Well you're a condescending smart ass. I'd rather him dump me for the "prettier" girl instead of being a consolation prize. I want a man that likes me for my looks
Hey, I was being honest. But fine, be snarky. You still are very pretty, just with not a very nice personality.
She wasn't being condescending at all @asker
@Toad-1 Thanks :) <3
I apologize. Came off as condescending, laying it on a little thick with the 'compliments'. I'm just upset. It's really not personal. it was just how I initially read it. Sorry
It's okay. I understand, you must be feeling really confused now. It'll get better :)
You should totally end things! Tell him he's a little doofus with a dinky little weiner and that you're the prettiest girl in the whole wide world. Then throw a bucket of water at him and run away flailing your arms. No one is fairer than you! You're the fairest one of them all, princess. Ain't nobody hawtr.
😂😂😂😂 I love this question, I get to see opinions like this and it just cracks me up inside.
@Jonestaylor16 glad to give you a little chuckle at someone else's expense
Lol thanks for being such a good sport about it 😂
Maybe he's just weirdly honest. Let's be real, hardly anyone is the prettiest/hottest person in the world. You're attractive enough, why insist on being #1 ever.
As you get older, there's a chance both of you will have been with someone "better" in one particular way, like looks, wealth, sexual chemistry, humor, etc. It's about how the whole package fits together with each other, not being best in individual categories.
You have to put it in context of his overall behavior.
You probably should. You honestly just sound salty af for no reason. Of course there's gonna be girls prettier than you - you expect him to just lie to you and keep on lying to you? He obviously is with you for something other than just your looks. If you can't accept the fact that some people place different values on different aspects of a person, then maybe you should go find someone who shares the same values as you.
I wouldn't be so quick to end things with someone who was just telling you the truth. You are never going to be the most beautiful woman in the world and everyone has different taste. Just because you're not the prettiest doesn't mean he is looking for 'better'. Maybe he is not interested in only your looks but rather your personality, but it seems by your question that you value your looks over everything else you have to offer.
No, he is being honest. If my girl asked me a question if i think she is the prettiest girl alive i'd answer the same. Its far better to have a guy look at you in a realistic fashion and still love you the way you are then have him be love blind and actually believe your the prettiest girl alive.
Tell him, you've seen bigger penises than his lol
I can see why you are upset.
Thank you & I already have lol :)
Hahaha :)
but has she?
haha omg thats such a fucked up thing to say. To anyone, really. He could have kept it to himself. Were you pestering him?
No lol, we do tend to be very honest with each other. I just asked him what he thought when he first met me. I didn't think it was such a horrible question lol
Ok if that was really how you asked the question and that was his response, then yes, I'd consider breaking up too.
You sound like a drama queen. You're not the prettiest girl in the world.
NEVER ONCE SAID I WAS. If he doesn't feel that way about me though, he shouldn't be with me
Logically there are women who are more attractive than you. That's just reality. You look great but there are stil top tier models out there that do look better than you.
You guy has eyes. He can still be physically attracted to other women. He always will be.
I didn't say any of that!! I know there's prettier women out there. He can be attracted to other people, I don't care, but it's not ok to put them before me. If he really loved me, I would be a 10/10 in his eyes regardless of if I actually am or not
10/10 on the physical attractive scale? You're suggesting that he lies to you. I mean that sounds all sweet and nice on paper but the reality is that he has most likely come across a woman who is more physically attractive than you in his life time. For example, I worked at the playboy mansion doing security and talked the girls first hand. They were top tier in their industry and they were jaw dropping. My girlfriend is absolutley gorgeous as well. Well above average on the scale. But if she were on that level of famous playboy bunny, then she'd be famous and would be making millions off her looks. My girlfriend is so much more than that to me though. Id choose my girlfriend over any of those girls.
@Asker
So you're saying you should break up because for one single time he didn't tell you the exact thing you wanted to hear?
@Wertime
No I'm saying we should break up because he clearly doesn't feel about me the way he should at this point. He also thinks there is better out there, so why should he settle for me?
Why is all your value dependent upon your looks? You need to work on your confidence if you think that. He says you're not the prettiest girl he's ever seen and your default to that is to say he should leave because he can do better and you're holding him back. That's evidence that literally all your value is in your looks.
@ Chico_brah
I see what you're saying but I think when you love someone & see the beauty in them, they do become a 10/10 to you. I don't want to be settled for if he thinks there's better
10/10 as a whole? Yes.. I agree. I think my girlfriend is amazing and. She's more attractive than the super models I've come in contact with on a purely physical perspective though.
He obviously thinks he can do better, despite saying that I'm the prettiest he's BEEN WITH. I've seen his exes, it's true. But he still thinks he's going to upgrade, so he should go try
She's not *
Well you should understand that you have more value in a relationship other than looks. Emotional connection and attachment goes far past that. That's why I'm thinking you're insecure. It's as if the only value you can offer is your looks.
It's not but if he thinks there's better & he's only with me out if emotional connection & attachment, that's called obligation. I don't want that
It's not an obligation. It's called the full package and how everything comes together in harmony. That's reality.
Your boyfriend says you're not the prettiest girl he's ever seen. Therefore you take it as if you're zero to him and want to breakup. That's clear evidence that the only thing you feel you have to offer is your looks.
@Asker
What's your deal, woman? You only seem to care about looks, based on literally ALL of your comments. If you care that much about looks, why not find another boyfriend who only cares about looks as well and doesn't give a flying f about your personality, as it seems that you think the same way of your current BF? I've only seen you talking about "How pretty you are" and "How pretty he is". And if that ain't the case, it's only you just agreeing with the only people here that accept your consideration, as you won't accept what others say about you here.
Well, this question was about looks!! So, yeah I stay on topic!!
Besides, we all know how visual guys are. Guys do want to be with the hottest girl that they can be with
You have to work on your confidence. As a guy who's in the fitness and bodybuilding scene, I can tell you that vanity can eat you up alive. I saw my it happen to my cousin first hand even though she's older now and has come past it. She's famous in LA and got rich off modeling. If you want to know her name three you can DM me. It's hard because everyone praises you to this certain image and you start to think that people only like youfor that reason. You deal with jealousy and fake people all the time. Been there.. done that. Moved past it. Work on yourself dude. This is a ridiculous reason to breakup and it reeks of insecurity.
Thanks for your input. I get what you're saying, I do. I really don't think it's insecurity. I think it takes a secure person to step aside & say "I won't be treated 2nd rate. If you think you can do better, feel free to do it". Difference of opinion I guess :)
This is going to sound cheesy but don't you think you're more than just a pretty face? Why is it that you think you are of zero value to him if he doesn't think you have the prettiest face he's ever seen? As if he's settling.
@Asker
Wow, Miss, well let me tell you something.
Guys don't want to be with the hottest girl they can possibly get. Guys want to be with the girl which is the best combination of whatever they want her to be, mine being attactivness, personality, intelligence and humor. You're basically saying that, if you were to get a chance with another guy RIGHT NOW who was hotter, you would ditch the guy you're with now straight away.
And no, it's not you just staying on topic here by the way. You are literally taking your relationship with him into consideration because he told you something lots of women would love to hear from a guy: the truth. This is pretty much the same as you asking your parents: "What do you guys think my talents are?", they for example saying "You could easily be a doctor" or whatever, and, in case you don't like it, you absolutely not accepting what their answer is and demanding another answer, instead of accepting the fact that that is what your talent is.
@Wertime There's nothing wrong with her wanting to feel beautiful. My boyfriend tells me I'm the most perfect woman in his eyes. Of course other people are attractive but what he said was pretty douchey. Honestly, a white lie is better than my boyfriend telling me there's girls more attractive than I am. Just saying
@angelicsakura I agree tbh. I think that was a douche move but you also recognize that rational logic behind it.
@Wertime
All other factors being equal, a guy would still take the hottest girl. I don't think there is a guy hotter than mine. That's the difference...
@Chico_brah
I know there's more to me than my looks. That's just the only factor he's made me feel bad about. He doesn't insult other qualities of mine
@angelicsakura
That's not a reason to break up right away though. I'm just saying. I know plenty of women as well who rather don't want to hear those ridiculous cheesy lines.
If you feel as if there is more to you than your looks then why would you end the relationship on such a petty note?
@Asker
Well, I cannot tell how your boyfriend looks, but whay bothers me, is that it seems like you think that he only cares about looks. You're saying things like "Why shouldn't be with the girls he finds more attractive?". It's just an idea, but he likes your personality more that those of other girls? C'mon, is it that hard to think about that. If I see a supermodel who is a total bitch, that doesn't mean I find her less handsome. Her personality is just down the drain.
Of course, a relationship must also be about how attractive you find someone to be, but that doesn't mean that the major part of your relationship should be based on how you guys look.
Physical attraction is important in a relationship, otherwise it's just a friendship. I no longer feel that he's attracted to me. I can't imagine ever being intimate with him again after this. So, really I loved him, but there's nothing left :(
@Asker
If you absolutely do not feel attracted to him anymore, perhaps you should break up. But I'm gonna ask this for a second time. Are you looking for a honest guy or a guy who likes to lay it in thick?
I'm attracted to him. I've just essentially 'dried up' for him after this. I like honesty but I like someone that honestly feels better about me than his words show
Of course it's important, but you're defining that as the only importance, hence you ending the relationship. Look, it's up to you. I personally think it's a really petty reason to breakup. I think it reeks of insecurity for reasons I've already mentioned. That comment shouldn't impact you the extent that it did. To each their own though. You're entitled to how you feel.
@Asker
I'm not gonna say anything more after this, because this convo is for me going on for way too long to be honest.
What I'm thinking, is that he was trying to not over-exaggerate by saying "You are without doubt the most attractive human being on this planet", which you should understand, because coming over too cheesy isn't exactly awesome either, is it? He could've obviously said something better, but not every guy is crazily awesome at answering questions like these, where it is never clear what a girl wants to hear.
I may be pathetic for thinking that, but if you love someone, you don't allow yourself to find perfection in anyone else. That's just me though and I am aware that other people are not like that.
Don't listen to people telling you that you are exaggerating. If you loved him so much that you idealized him in your head, you need to walk away and find someone who thinks the same way as you do. You shouldn't be with someone that loves you less than you love them. It's not fair and you're too young
Thank you for your positive words :)
He can think whatever he wants but since he TOLD you that is reason enough to leave him. Pretty awkward convo to have
Yeah but even if I was a mind reader & knew he thought that, I'd still leave him. That's just not how a man should feel about his girl
Ok I think you're flawed in thinking. True love would be when you both care about each other deeply. Not a relationship based on looks and narcissism. Looks matter so I understand you don't want to be a consolation prize. But be realistic, there are many aspects of a human being other than looks that attract you.
If he said that out of the blue then he's just tryna bring you down.
If he said it after being prompted then I think he's just being honest.
There will always be those who are more successful , beautiful , rich , kind (etc) than you (and ofc that applies to everyone) . And the opposite works too. Any man you are ever going to be with will find those who look better than you , more attractive. It doesn't mean that you are not attractive or even extremely attractive in his eyes.
Now what purpose does this question REALLY serve...
What purpose do you serve?
Lol I can't stand it when girls want to be put on an alter and worshipped for just being with us. Can you honestly say your guy is the hottest guy you've met? That's a lie of you say he is, simply because if he was your wouldn't be worrying about that. Tbh he's honest asf, if he's this honest with you then you got a good one. I would've just lied. And plus besides, you said you modelled right? If he says he's met prettier girls then that's saying something.
I don't want to be put on an altar & worshipped, but he shouldn't put other girls above me either
That's being bring put an alter honey, he's not putting anyone before you. He's not going to cheat, he's not looking around for other girls. Wanna know how I can tell? He told you about the 'prettier' girls instead just lying about it. Again, can you honestly say he is the hottest guy you've ever met?
To me, yes he is
I wouldn't waste time being with him if he wasn't :)
Then I feel bad for you, for you've must've been living under a rock all your life 😂
No, actually but you would really hope your current would be better than your last. Who wouldn't want to be with the best they can be with?
True, everyone wants to be with the best person they can be. But I would rather be with someone with a average to below average treats me correctly than to be with someone hot asf who treats me like trash or we just don't anything in common. All in all to me, looks don't mean anything to me (even though we live in a society that idolizes unrealistic beauty). As Kendrick Lamar once said," Be humble... Sit down."
Who even says something like that to a girl? You should leave him for me 😉 Haha but really, he sounds like a loser
Hmm, yeah he clearly is a looser. It's not like there are way hotter girls out there, definitely not... Get back under your rock Mr. I'm a White Knhight.
@thatguywithakeyboard I'm not saying there's no hotter girl out there. But you don't tell a girl that. Especially one you're dating. Girls want a guy who makes them feel safe and good about themselves. And "looser"... come on now. I'm no white "knhight" but I'm no douch bag. Is common courtesy dead or something?
Look at this entire thing this way. There is always two ends to a storey. In this case I'm taking what OP said with a handful of salt, because no one here knows under what mood or context he said what he said to OP.
Yes and No. At times some things must be said no matter if it's your wife or a chick your dating. Again no one here knows under what scenario he said what he said, and if he said it in humurous/sarcastic way.
What pisses me off is this entire Blame game and also OP delusion of being super pretty. In my books she average, but taste is a relevant thing.
I been in one toxic relationship and my ex said a lot of nasty things to me, most not deserved. But I understood her as she had trust issues born from previous relationships and in the end this insecurity caused her to self destruct her happiness and push me away.
This entire thing seems fishy to me. And if this actually happened it raises a question f OP was looking for excuse to break up with him.
Life is life.
@thatguywithakeyboard I get your point. And I can see where you're coming from. However, From my point of view... I was in a relationship where I treated this girl right in every aspect. She still ended up cheating on me and bla bla bla. She was no good. Then I keep seeing all these good girls being treated like crap by guys, then they still end up marrying the punk. So it's an annoying concept to me that so many guys treat there girl like garbage, when they don't deserve it yet the one I treated like a gentleman didn't deserve it. so this kind of thing bugs me on a personal level
Don't mind dear! Do you think that you are the only and the "prettiest" one in the world? Yes, every girl wishes to hear extraordinary admire and praise for her, but be realist. Don't ignore honest truth. Your pic doesn't show you an ugly or ignoble and less pretty. Your thinking will spoil you psychologically. Face reality. How many people would you leave?
I'm guessing you created a situation in which he wanted to say that.
If you continiously ask "who's prettier, be honest!!" I would tell the truth. Maybe he's just a blunt and honest person, you'd know. If you don't feel comfortable with what he said maybe instead of throwing it online you should talk to him. You know, since you're not dating us but him.
Also, just because someone does modeling does NOT mean they're pretty.
If you're no longer happy with him then yes end it. Find a guy that thinks you are the most beautiful girl in the world.. shouldn't be hard cuz you are super stunning
Thank you :)
Any guy whom geniunly believes his girl is the prestiest girl... is so wrong.
But to that end, your appearance is just a +, he's with you because of how you are as a person and that alone makes you THE SHIT, in his mind. You should come down a little, don't get riled about this, it's just fact, you sound a lot overconfident, just accept the truth... yes you're pretty, but their are so many girls out there...
I would rather be confident than some insecure weak girl crying in the corner somewhere. I don't want a man to be with me for my personality, I want physical attraction as well
It's totally fine that you're confident, don't get me wrong. Just don't over do it, it's a big turn off... and it will eventually scare him away.
Well, I don't care honestly cause I'm already done. Thanks though :)
just bc their are prettier girls don't mind they are in our league... maybe your the best he can get... don't mean he has to lie about no one better looking... hell theirs tons of guys better looking then me... but if it really bothers u find someone else I guess... just an opinion
mean*
I'm going to. Who wants for someone to be with them cause they're the "best they can do"?
everyone? who wouldn't want the best they could get? ...
No I'm saying who wants to be the person they are with. I don't want to feel like he's just settling for me cause there's better but I was the best he was able to get. That's not cool at all
if your the best he can get he's going to be thrilled that he didn't have to settle... to me that would be that he is dating down below what he could get which is not u if your the best... but anyways don't think your gonna understand the point... good luck and hope you find what your looking for.
Honestly, I'm very glad that you posted this. It makes me feel like I'm not the only girl in this situation. My boyfriend is a photographer and likes girls' pictures up and down ALL over Instagram and has over 4,000 friends on Facebook. If a man truly values you, he wouldn't say that. If he only has eyes for you, he wouldn't say that. He's an asshole. Listen to your intuition. If you feel he's doing something dishonest or hurting you like that, you know what's best. Best of luck to you hun!
My boyfriend told me the same thing and i literally lost sleep over this for about 3 days ( i am very insecure and he knows that) so i wouldn't blame your for breaking up with him honestly. if you think there are better guys out there which can treat you better you are right. beauty is in the eye of the beholder and even though there doesn't exist someone described as "the prettiest person in the whole world" someone who loves you should view you as that
Girl, flip what all the guys are saying!! You are gorgeous! ! I mean, you have every right to be annoyed. My boyfriend has said similar things and it really upset me. I'm also pretty. I honestly think it's so inappropriate to be saying things about over girls. It is just pure respect to not tell you that you're not the prettiest. Even if he didn't think you were the prettiest, he doesn't have to tell you that. He doesn't have to tell you about other girls!!
I feel you!!
Wow, do you honestly think everyone dates based solely on appearances?
Maybe you aren't the prettiest girl or more attractive girl he's ever seen, maybe he thinks his mom or sister are better looking, but he likes your voice or something else about you that makes you special.
By the same logic, I guess he must be the most handsome guy you've ever seen.
I never said solely on physical appearance, I said attraction is important in a relationship. And yes, yes he is :)
If you had said not solely on physical appearance from the start I would have understand, but the whole post and his reply seem to be based on image alone.
I mean, of course he wouldn't mean "everywhere I go I meet more interesting girls and better potential partners", that would be absurd.
I don't know you guys so can't say if he was even joking with that kind of reply, but if you can't get past that and expect him (your partner) to be able to make that kind of love declaration, then those are your feelings and you are in your right of looking for a more compatible person.
Just thinking that if you really love him and YOU find him that great (aside his romantic side), then this could be also be a good opportunity to clear any misunderstandings - if that's what it was.
*would have understood
Listen, you don't have to be with someone if you don't want to, but I think it's unreasonable to think that you ought to be the hottest thing your boyfriend has ever seen. My boyfriend is *not* the hottest man I have ever met in my life but I'm with him because I love him and not because of sheer animal magnetism. There's more to a romantic relationship than just sexual attraction, and most of it is more important.
Sorry but that sounds like platonic love to me, but if it works for you
My love, you are young and you have much to learn about relationships and life in general. I hope that the lessons come gently.
It's not about being the prettiest but if it would be vice versa and you'd tell him that guys you randomly meet are better looking, he'd feel just like you feel now.
It's not about ego -.- I understand how you feel. DUMP HIM.
Well that's kind of an over exaggerating. Do you think he's the most attractive guy? Because if you don't that's kind of being hypothetical don't you think? I'm not trying to be harsh but don't you think that's a little mean if you did that you could crush his feelings.
Thats really harsh ): men have feelings too and he might even love you would you regret if he committed suicide?
C'mon, this guy's being honest. For real, do you want a honest guy or a guy who likes to lay it on thick? Don't get me wrong, you're gorgeous. But you're not his girlfriend because you're the most gorgeous, the smartest, the nicest, the most humoristic all together.
Yeah you should if your so self absorbed about the way you look. I mean him lying to you and telling you your the most attractive isn't practical and healthy for a relationship. I mean I doubt you think he's the hottest guy in the world, so according to your logic he should be upset with you too and break up with you.
You're ridiculous.
If you expect your guy to lie to you, you should tell him that.
If you expect your guy to think you're the most beautiful women who he's ever seen, put his eyes out.
If you expect your man to think that prettier equals better, tell him upfront that you're a superficial and shallow person.
Should you break up? Yes, do him a favour and break up. Because there is surely better than you out there.
Haha he hasn't done better than me yet. I don't see anything wrong with wanting to be #1 to him, does not make me a bad person
It makes you shallow as fuck. And if you don't see that, well it doesn't make you very smart either.
That's not shallow. You should be number 1 to the person you're dating otherwise be single
It's not a matter of lying or telling the truth... it's a matter of not saying certain things because they are rude and unnecessary. For example, if your friend got a new car that you liked but presumably wasn't the best car ever manufactured, would you say "Nice car, but I've seen better," or would you just leave it at "Nice car"? Would it be lying to just say "Nice car"? No, that would be the normal and polite thing to say. Adding "I've seen better" is weird and rude. There's always better/prettier out there somewhere... but that doesn't need to be pointed out.
@fabulouspancakes If the person was dumb enough to say "Isn't this the nicest car you've ever seen?" Then of course I'd say no. Jesus, you're 25? You really should know better.
She didn't say "Am I the prettiest girl you've ever seen?" though, as far as we know. You're 36-45, you really should know better than to assume context that was not given...
@fabulouspancakes I'm not assuming anything. It's obvious from her post what sort of mentality she has.
You are assuming. I did not ask him "Am I the prettiest girl you've ever seen"!! That would be a stupid question
I already answered that - not that you're big on reading. It's obvious what sort of mentality you have. "he hasn't done better than me yet" meaning what? He can't date someone as pretty as you? You're still basing your worth on your *attractiveness*, because you have nothing else going for you. Which again, is incredibly shallow. Not that you'll ever admit that. I wish your ex good luck, but I'm done with you.
Holy hell you're petty... That's like me dumping you because you told me I'm not the hottest guy you ever dated. Do you realize how stupid that sounds? I know that on the looks scale im like a...7...7.5 at best.
I just don't understand why you would break off a perfectly good relationship just because your pride got hurt.
Because he clearly thinks there's better so he should be free to go do better. We should all have the best right?
If he truly thinks there's better do you honestly think he would give you the time of day?
I don't know the guy so this might not mean much coming from me... but all looks and being pretty will do is get you through the front door, if he's been dating you for over a year, then that means you clearly have something that makes him want you to STAY in the door.
Yes, I get that but he said there's "prettier" out there so that's where he should be not slumming with me
Don't be so conceited. You're just mad at him because he said you were a 9 on the pretty scale instead of a 10, and now you're trying to find justification to dump him out of spite. Looks aren't everything ya know?
It's not conceit. I never said I'm the most beautiful, I just want him to think that I am. Looks aren't everything, but once again if he can do better - he should go do it
Why do you want him to think you're the most beautiful, when you yourself admit you're not?
I mean to me I am. I know realistically I'm not but I'm not going to belittle myself for anyone. I didn't choose what I look like. He has a choice. If I'm not the most beautiful to him, he shouldn't choose me
Ugh... you sound like a friend i know. Stubbornness is not an attractive trait.
Lol I am very stubborn but so is he :)
I wouldn't worry about this too much, this is basically gonna be you 2 butting heads like a couple of charging bulls for a few days, before you end up having a bunch of wild makeup sex. You got something good, don't just throw it away.
Haha I can't imagine ever having sex with him again, now knowing how he thinks of me. Lol thanks :)
Well he's right
its highly unlikely you're the most prettiest woman a man has ever seen.
Sure, go on end it
find a guy who feeds you lies about how you're the most beautiful woman just so he can hump you every night.
I know I'm beautiful. Thank you very much. Not saying I'm the most beautiful in the world but he should see me that way. Otherwise, why bother?
Because when you've formed a deep connection with a girl
you just don't want to leave her even for someone more physically attractive because pf that connection.
Well that's not what I want. I don't want someone to be with me out of obligation. Thanks :)
out of obligation? probably she is just trolling and not dating anyone because by her words it seems she has no clue how relationships work
Not trolling. And again, what do you know about relationships at 13?
Its not an obligation.
I'm sure you have no idea how attraction works
you're superficial.
Good luck finding a man who genuinely does all the stuff you want.
If anything you should be glad your boyfriend is not a pussy who's afraid of saying what he wants.
How am I superficial? If you stay with somebody, despite thinking that you can do better, because you have a "connection" that is in fact obligation
How does you boyfriend put up with you?
You sound like those clingy girlfriends who want a man's attention all the time.
Actually I'm not but you clearly have nothing constructive to add here, so...
Hahaha
Dude you want everyone to shove false lies down your throat?
I get that you want to feel attractive, who doesn't?
Listen if he's staying with you he definitely finds you attractive both physically and emotionally or he wouldn't be here.
I went anon, so no one knows what I look like to shove lies down my throat. Physical attraction is important. If he's not attracted to me & just feels obligated, he really should go find one of those prettier girls. I should be the most beautiful in the eyes of the man that I'm with
Trust me i'm a man
we're visual as fuck when it comes to women
There's always going to be someone better than you in terms of beauty.
The 'connection' i speak of is real deal
If it wasn't every women would be single.
You're never going to be the most pretty ever
guys say that just to make you feel better
at least your boyfriend is one honest motherfucker.
Then like I said, he should go find one of those prettier girls. Thanks :)
That dude is confident as fuck i'm pretty sure he could pull off a sexy young woman.
Oh and could you do me a favor and tell your soon to be ex
that some random internet stranger appreciates what he does?
I am a sexy young woman, so fuck you 😃
Your boyfriend thinks otherwise
Not like I don't have other options, so fuck him too :)
Well good luck
you're going to need it a lot more than he will.
Oh and one last thing
These other 'options' won't find you as the most prettiest woman either.
You don't even know what I look like lol. And I've always had more dating options than him, so...
LOL that's because there are a lot of thirsty desperate men out there.
Even an unattractive women could have more options out there than an average/slightly above average man if you look at numbers.
True, doesn't make me unattractive though. You shouldn't make assumptions
People you usually claim that they're attractive aren't usually attractive
and this time i have your boyfriend own words to prove that.
Ugh.. so many errors above.
I will be sad too. I mean, I know I am not the prettiest girl in the world but I will like to think that my boyfriend thinks I am the prettiest girl not just because he finds me physically attractive but also because I of my personality and how happy I make him.
My boyfriend sometimes see me in the morning with messy hair and no makeup and he still calls me the most beautiful girl, which i am far to be specially in the morning but i know he says that because he loves me so i think you are right at feeling like that because you are gorgeous and you should be with a guy that treats you like you are the most beautiful girl and puts you in a pedestal.
I'm sorry that was just asshole of him to say. You don't tell your girlfriend he's seen prettier. Its rude and disrespectful. Tell him you've seen bigger penises.
Id keep my eye open for a higher quality guy.
he´s not a smart man... i mean of course you won´t ever be the most beautiful girl he knows. no girlfriend he could ever attract would be that, cause guess what he didn´t choose you for your character also not just looks.
he should have said to me you are the most beautiful person (refering to your character also, which he doesn´t need to mention). he just stated the obvious that happened to made you feel bad, which is why i said he´s not a smart man.
You gotta be a real narcissist to believe you're the best woman in the world...
I NEVER said that, just that to him I should be
It doesn't work like that. You can't be in a relationship and ignore reality. And he's just talking about your looks, I'm pretty sure when it comes to personality, you're the #1 in the world, which is what truly matters.
That was my point. I don't want my personality complimented. I don't want a man to be with me just for my personality. Physical attraction is very important as well
And he called you pretty. Do you really believe you're the most attractive woman in the world?
You don't need to be a 10 for him to be attracted to you.
I said that there's always someone better out there. I'm not going to put myself down though. If he believes there's better though, he should just go do better
He doesn't believe there's better (well, it's not something we can assume just by what he said) he's just saying there's girls that are better looking than you, which is probably true. I know I'm not the most attractive guy in the world, and though my girl finds me attractive, I know she believes I'm not the most attractive guy.
Sure, you always want to be your partner's #1 in everything, but that's impossible. I'm pretty sure you've seen men who are more good looking than your guy.
Better looking = better. At least to a certain extent
Have you seen men who are better looking than him?
I'll take that as a yes lmao
My bad. That's actually a NO. Whoever I'm with at the time, is the best up until that point
lmao this conversation
she might as well say "is it so bad that I want him to be blind expect when i'm around"
I can't understand how this troll post exploded so hard... kudos to you lol
And people believing you're the girl in the pic? SMH XD
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@zorro8888 Lol right? xD
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@zorro8888 LMAO and this is the top post on the site xD
Why did you ask?
Why did he not lie?
XD
My exes that truly loved me never said there were girls out there they thought were hotter, granted, I NEVER asked (because I know there are and I know my bf's are not blind)
This is such a cliché...
Do you think he is the most handsome man on the planet?
If he would have said you're the prettiest woman on the planet would you have accused him of lying or that you want him to like you for your mind (be honest)?
Yes to me he is the most handsome. As I said I don't want him to like me for my mind or solely my personality.
You honestly believe that you should be the prettiest girl a guy has ever seen? What? You think there is some sort of filter in brain which automatically blocks all the other girls when switched on?
I think there are obviously other pretty girls out there. Of course I expect him to notice but he should still consider me the most beautiful. If he thinks he can do better, he should go do it
He said "you are nit the prettiest girl he has ever seen" that means he has seen pretty girls than you. It does not mean he wanna go out with them.
You want to make it into a fight? Go for it. I think your boyfriend deserves better. But never try to pin this on him. You are ruining this relationship. He did nothing.
"Deserves better"? Good luck to him getting better then 👌
Yeah good luck to him.
You're a jerk
Seriously? You posted here question to get opinions of others. Just because i am saying what you do not want to hear, i am a jerk? Sometimes you have to acknowledge that you made mistake.
No you're a jerk because you guys always side with each other. He deserves better? you don't even know me!! What mistake have I made?
You are trying to convert a simple comment from him to a fight. You may be most beautiful and most smart girl he can get, but you are self absorbed.
He deserves a girl who can see that both are equal in a relationship. Someone he can be honest with, without turning it into a huge fight. Even if she is nit as pretty as you, as smart as you.
I don't even know your boyfriend. And if you look at my profile, answers which i have given mostly tend to be in favour of girls.
I just try to be honest. I am not here to make someone happy. Generally guys are jerks. And i answer lot of questions, where they are complete dicks. But in your case, you are trying to accuse your innocent boyfriend. If you really want to end the relationship, just go for it. Otherwise i would suggest you to stop treating him like this, you might end up losing a good guy and there are not lot of them left.
i would be a bit confused if my boyfriend ever told me that...
but you're always gonna see a slightly more attractive person everywhere you go because that's just how the world is. i remember i was in a store with my boyfriend once and saw this really cute guy in the same place as us. i wouldn't take it too personally or harsh
Breaking up for that reason is silly in my opinion, but it's justified depending on how he said, you're not the prettiest girl he has seen or he is probably not the prettiest guy you've seen. He might've been joking around and said that or he might not think it's a big deal, but if he says it knowing it'll hurt your feelings breaking up with him is justified.
Tell him his dick is big but not the biggest you've ever seen.
Lol I have. He knows it's "average" 😂
@Asker, Did he ask you if he was the biggest?
He didn't break up with you when you said that?
I am starting to feel like you dont deserve this person.
A big dick is not necessary for most relationships, physical attraction is though
A bigger dick is not necessarily a big dick. Its just bigger compared to another. Going back to ur question. I was in love with a girl i dated. She was a 10 to me, i still recognised that there were better 10s. She made PRETTIER girls look so uninteresting. Prettier girls tried to hit on me at the club (models that were paid to get in the club) but was the only one that made sense to me. I dont know if this helps you but thats my input.
No, he was just honest with you, it's a true fact, like I know you're not saying that You're the prettiest, I get it, but that's just a true fact, there will be always someone who is prettier and just because you're not for him the prettiest girl, doesn't mean that he doesn't love you!
My boyfriend isn't the prettiest guy I have ever seen, but we are just perfect with each other , value him as a person!
Your woman should ALWAYS feel like she is #1 in her man's eyes!
My whole point - Thank you!!
FEEL like #1. that doesn't mean that the person is the #1 most attractive person in the world.
no, but you should make your woman FEEL like #1.. don'tBe so cynical.
so he should lie to her?
i don't think being honest is being cynical. making someone feel important shouldn't mean you have to lie to them.
I don't want him to lie to me, I want him to actually FEEL that way.
which is precisely what i said in my initial response
No. I said he should feel that way about me, then it wouldn't be a lie. You said he should make her feel #1 - big difference. I'm talking about how HE feels, you're talking about how he makes HER feel
he should feel like you are #1 and make you feel like you are #1 (in total not just looks). so he shouldn't say things like you aren't the prettiest. if he thinks it he simply shouldn't say it as it isn't really in good form.
It's not but he shouldn't think it either. And looks do matter
looks do matter. never said they don't. they are vital to most relationships. but it doesn't mean you need to think your partner is the prettiest person in the world.
Well he should & for me that's a deal breaker. Thanks :)
well that's up to you of course. but it's not really a good expectation to have in relationships. you are 1 of 6 billion. 1 of about 3 billion women. you should accept being pretty, beautiful, sexy, attractive, etc in the eyes of your partner. you shouldn't care about whether there are more attractive people out there.
But apparently HE does care, so... he should go be with them
a shit load of critics on this one see ya
what makes you think he cares that there are prettier people? from what you posted he didn't say that at all
perhaps we take this convo to my opinion so @BillyThEkiD2600 doesn't get notifications for a convo he may not want to be a part of
You're very beautiful, don't believe anyone who says otherwise. However, Looks can't be everything in a relationship.
Thank you. I know looks aren't everything lol, I just think physical attraction is an important component :)
very true
he sounds like a jerk!! get out asap, you should be the most attractive girl in his eyes, kinda shows he's eyeing up other girls
I don't think he meant it in a negative way. Probably one of those things that slips out before you know it and you can't take it back after it's out there.
That was still a bit rude though. I'd treat my woman like my queen, but that's just me.
Lol love your positivity but how can that not be meant in a negative way? 😂 😂
If I'm with you then I think that you're the girl for me, plain and simple. My girl is the most beautiful girl to me, and that's what matters. I feel like he could've worded it a lot better.
You will find that folks that feel inadequate will often criticize others. They think that putting you down somehow puts them in a position of superiority. If he can't stop the adolescent behavior. Throw him back in and try again.
No offense but he's right. I mean he shouldn't have come across that harsh. But it's true, there are many beautiful girls throughout the world. You may just be one. My ex-girlfriend is beautiful with dark skin. My weakness lol. But that doesn't mean you are not attractive.
Try to be something in your life other than worry about your looks.
I never said it wasn't technically right but if he is with ME then I should be the most beautiful TO HIM. otherwise, go be with someone else. I don't want a man that puts others above me. I have plenty in my life besides my looks by the way. Thanks :)
If he is with you then your clearly important to him. If my girl ever asks me something she gets the truth. I don't do "sugar coat bullshit" and that's why my girl is with me, because she knows I'm honest and legit.
You can mark my reply down all you want. That's the issue, you take offense to the truth.
Thanks
I didn't, must've been some other female that sees my side of things. Thanks
The question you should ask yourself or him, is why he's with you in the first place? if his answer is based on how "beautiful" your heart is, then you don't have to worry about physical beauty at all... A man who loves you for who you are and not what you are is a true gentleman!
Yeah, I don't want that. Physical attraction is important as well
how beautiful will that "model" be when she's 80 years old, well if at all she gets lucky to be that "old" ... if at all she was in a relationship and her guy based their love on the physical beauty, then am sure she'll end up dying a lonely woman!
I didn't say it should all be based on physical beauty, but that is a component
Dump him for being honest? He should dump you for being overly sensitive. Be glad he was honest. You should be single and trying to fix your own problems. Being overly sensitive is a major issue. You shouldn't be dating people until you aren't sensitive. Change yourself before you can be with someone.
HAHAHAHAAA. classic. I put girls like you in their place. You dont know how many times I've seen or heard that exact same response you gave me. It a sign that you know im right. You are the definition of insecure and i always say insecure people should not be dating.
Classic case of average girl insecure about her looks.
There's nothing average about me, maybe your dick is average though :)
Yeah my dick is as average as you get. 6 inches hard, 5.5 inches in girth. Infact i enjoy being average.
Sounds like you've pulled something out of context that you take exception to. My guess is that no matter how beautiful you may think you are there is always someone hotter, sexier, richer, whatever. Your guy pointing this out likely doesn't mean to offend you, and it doesn't mean he doesn't love you. Us normal mortal folks need to come to the realization that we're likely not the 'best' at anything.
I do realize that. I just think that I should still be the most beautiful IN HIS EYES Otherwise, he should go be with someone prettier. Why settle?
You have unrealistic expectations.
How?
You are somehow trying to dictate how he should think, how his mind should work, how he should really be. That is just not a realistic expectation.
Just because he finds other women attractive does not mean you are not the most important person in his life. Does he not show you that? If he doesn't, then you're right, you should move on. But if he's a great guy otherwise, thinking that he should not ever find someone else that has more beauty is simply unrealistic. It doesn't mean he doesn't want you or wants them instead. Guys brains work differently that girls'.
Guys get with girls hoping they'll never change.
Girls get with guys thinking if they bug the shit out of them for long enough they can change him into someone they can actually stand to be with. FAIL
If you really don't like what or who he is, if you don't respect and love him, then it will never work. My advice is to come down off your high-horse and be realistic about your own stature, your status as a person -->cont
... your status as a person, and that no one should come before you. It's an entitled snowflake princess mentality that will completely and utterly fail you in life.
She shouldn't be dating people with that mentality. she's way too immature for men.
On update...
You're still not getting it. Drop back and punt. LOL
What am I not getting? Lol if he's putting other girls before me, why be with me? And why would I want to be with him? The end goal of a relationship is usually marriage - you know "forsaking all others" - seems he's having some trouble with that & we're not even married
you're hopeless
@fueledbythc - The term 'spoiled brat' keeps popping up in my mind. Yeah, she really should dump the asshole, he's just not worth it. :)
I'm spoiled cause I expect to be #1 to my man? Lol yeah ok then 👌 Maybe you've convinced your wife that this is acceptable but I won't settle for being 2nd rate
You're completely confused about what reality actually is. You're silly little feelings do not reflect the actual situation, they're just YOUR FEELINGS. It has nothing to do with being '#1'.
But go ahead, just keep up with it - he'll get tired of the same trope and dump your drama ass. Then you can start over with a new guy, and you'll have the same problems, or it will be something else. You're just not getting it.
Like I said that may be fine for your wife but not for me. I don't care how "tired" he gets, as I've said I'm done anyways
You're still confused - THIS IS YOUR PROBLEM - it has absolutely NOTHING to do with MY wife. Silly girl.
You're done alright, likely more than you think. Guys get really tired of all that whiny bullshit. Buck it up little pony. :)
It does have to do with your wife... if you think it's ok to put other women before your significant other, she must be accepting of that. I'm not
drop back & punt lmao
You seem to have a congnizance problem - I've been happily married for over 25 years - THIS HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH ME. Do you always do this? Try to argue an unrelated point? Guys hat that as well. You really need to work on these issues or you will NEVER have a satisfactory LTR.
As an aside, wifey points out the cute ones, we have an ongoing contest about identifying fake or real tits, and who or who is not gay. We just don't have competitive issues with appearance. She's a very beautiful woman and very happy in her own skin. There is no competition. So there ya go.
We're not getting anywhere here so I'm out. Good luck and enjoy your time here on GAG.
its hopeless man just let her be an entitled little bitch, guys will break up with her anyways so regardless of what she says she's not gonna have any dude commit to her, she thinks she's the prettiest in the world lol
no guy i have ever asked has told me his girlfriend is the prettiest in teh world there is always someone better looking, you can understand it anyway you want i really dont care.
@fueledbythc Who's the most beautiful person in the world then?
I don't see how a guy can't believe that his significant other is the most beautiful woman in the world when I believed that my exes were the hottest guys in the world when I dated them.
The girl has a point and if he's comparing her beauty to others, then yeah he's just being an asshole even if he's "being honest".
@babylips14 hahahaha what? Being honest means you're an asshole? I think quite the opposite. Its when you're lied to and you find out is when you will feel worse. Its just a realistic view instead of living in a fantasy.
@fueledbythc Have you ever heard of the saying "honesty isn't always the best policy"? The truth can kill you in many situations that life brings you. Thereby, just because he's "being honest", doesn't necessarily mean he's doing a good thing. A significant other who truly loves you wouldn't say anything to hurt your self-esteem or compare you to other women, even if he truly feels that there are better-looking women out there. At least that's how I see it.
Theoretically, yes, there are people out there who will think that someone else is hotter than you are, but then again, there will be at least one person in this world who will think that you are the hottest person they've ever seen and many more who might rate you a 10/10. Beauty is subjective and everyone likes something different. Therefore, there is no general consensus on who the most beautiful person in the world is.
@babylips14 nope never heard that saying before. Maybe because its never said. The saying i know is honesty is the best policy
And being honest is always a good thing. Having feelings hurt isn't always a bad thing. Infact its mostly good because it will thicken your skin. Life ain't sunshine and rainbows. Its a dark world out there and it sounds like you will get eaten up with your idealistic views.
@fueledbythc All I'm saying is that being honest isn't always "a good thing" especially when it comes to the physical appearance of your significant other---someone you're supposed to love and care about. That's not something to mess around with unless you're trying to create life-long psychological damages that will cause her to have insecurities for the rest of her life and are trying to jeopardize the relationship itself.
In all other life situations, yes, being honest is the moral thing to do. But, not in this case.
By all means, the guy does have a right to find other women attractive or even more attractive than his girlfriend. However, this kind of opinion is uncalled for unless the guy is trying to make the girl feel like shit (which he knows he will do by saying this kind of comment).
@babylips14 if you're so sensitive i dont think you're fit to be a girlfriend of any guy
@CoolSky01 yeah she will notice it when guys will refuse to commit. Girls like her want th world but will provide absolutely nothing. It might be out society letting women be the choosers but obviously im the one who will make the desicion. I got girls coming onto me frequently enough to know i can be picky.
@fueledbythc tbh no one is going to walk up to a woman and tell her to fix up her attitude or she's fucked that doesn't usually happen (unless it comes from parents ) but what will guys do is that they will avoid her, or date her and never commit, she will never be relationship material and she will never know why.
@CoolSky01 If you haven't read the female responses on this question, you'll see that the vast majority feel the same way and share the same viewpoint. You seem very inexperienced and don't seem to understand women. You'll learn. Hopefully.
@fueledbythc I'm just going to say the same thing I said to the other dude. Read the female responses on this question. Someday you'll realize that women don't want or need guys who think it's okay to hurt women's self-esteem because there will always be someone out there who will treat her better than you ever will. You'll see it after she dumps you for a real gentleman.
As for commitment, I have had guys beg me to be their girlfriend and exes beg me to give them a second chance. Believe me, I have a lot more to offer than just my beauty.
@babylips14 and you dont seem to understand men either, all these girls you're talking about go on this site daily to complain about some dude who won't commit, who calls them for sex or does this and does that, they never get what they want from men (for a good reason) so excuse me if i dont see how being the way they are is working.
as for us men, we lie, we lie a shit ton we call you hot, pretty, the most beautiful in the world and usually we dont mean it we just bulshit you to get sex or to get a girlfriend, sometimes the girl is truly one of a kind and i've met some, i've seen some girls who i will (and without hesitation ) tell them they're the most beautiful but for the rest of women, no , if iam comfortable enough with her i won't say that to her, i won't tell her she's ugly and i will try avoiding it but if she really has to know then i won't lie.
@CoolSky01 I'm sorry if the truth hurts, but it is how most women think and you need to accept that instead of throwing temper tantrums. It's a bit naive to assume that just because the vast majority of these girls share my viewpoint, that they probably are the askers of questions pertaining to commitment issues. Most of them responded anonymously too, so there's no way you would know lol.
Good point you brought up in your last statement. You just proved my point. Why do you think players succeed at getting girls to fall head over heals in love with them? Because they go above and beyond with their compliments, which boosts their self-esteem. They make the girls feel good about themselves. That's what gets them to fall for them.
No girl is ever going to fall for you as long as you give them that "honesty". Like I said, you'll eventually learn with experience.
@babylips14 I know i have to bulshit girls that part i know it and i have done it before , its just that a lot of girls want the lies they dont want to hear the truth they prefer to remain in their fantasy world and while that is cool at the begging , after years of knowing the same girl and showing her over and over again that you love her, she as a mature person with dating experience should know that she is not the hottest woman out there, and she shouldn't have a problem with it, i know that no matter what girl i end up with , she will at some point see a guy and think " damn he's really fine" and i can do nothing about it, but if she faithful and she never cheats then thats good enough.
@CoolSky01 Theoretically, your girl may not be the hottest girl you've ever seen and by all means you're entitled to have that opinion. However, verbally expressing that to her is uncalled for.
You want your girlfriend to feel sexy, confident, and special assuming that you truly love her. This isn't about honesty, but rather valuing your partner and taking responsibility for their emotions. You want to make her feel that she's the most beautiful woman walking on this planet.
I don't know how everything truly went down with the scenario presented by the asker of this question, however I am assuming that this was not an opinion she asked for. This leads me to conclude that her boyfriend is just an insecure guy who wants to lower her self-esteem so that he can manipulate her emotions. It's a psychological tactic.
@babylips14 I think her boyfriend has seen a lot of pick up artists videos and read some tips here and there, and a lot of them advise guys to be real, genuine and honest, which is a good thing but at some point you should life, without somekind of BS you can't get a girl, so i believe her boyfriend was trying to keep her and boost her respect for him by being the most genuine and honest guy he can be, and basically throwing it out there like it is without filtering his words or thinking much about it " she asked, so she should be okay with me truthfully answering", in theory as i said a woman should know that she is not the hottest, but women know but dont want to know at the same time.
i think he should've lied, just to save himself some headache, but i still believe that if a girl asks every guy she dates this question and keeps annoying him with it every once in a while he will finally tell her the answer she doesn't wanna her, so ask once, get your answer and be happy.
@CoolSky01 You're entitled to see things however you want to see them. However, I still stand by my opinion that this guy is just an insecure asshole who wants to gain control of her emotions so that she can seek validation from him.
@babylips14 why should i accept that women think that way if im not even bothering with trying to make a move on a girl. Making a first move and dating is all about the exterior if you think about it. Nothing is deep and actually meaningful if things are about looks even in the slightest bit. Its like how you girls want to be viewed as the most beautiful by looks but how about a personality that your man views as the most beautiful? Girls truly are more about looks and the superficial over men.
And by the way, the woman i will fall in love with, i will make her know i do find her the most beautiful personality wise. Personality traits is what makes me fall for a girl.
@fueledbythc girls like lies, be truthful more than you should and you're fucked, you have to lie at some point , you have to make up stories and you have to fake things to get girls interest.
@CoolSky01 then everything is based off a lie. Not worth it at all
Obviously you are insecure, that in itself is unattractive.
Otherwise you would not have posted this to begin with.
Easy way to test if it is worth it.
Ask him if he sees you 2 marrying in the future.
If he hesitates and struggle to answer then it might not be worth holding on.
Obviously there are girls who look better, you are slightly above average to be honest.
That should not be the only thing you should care about.
How about if a girlfriend said ''You're fine but you don't compare to Justin Timberlake, he's the most handsome man I've ever seen and boy he sure is big too... bigger than you''?
Who says that to their girlfriend? Break up with him, guy's a douche canoe
I would say he's pretty rude, disrespectful and honest. He is taking things for granted. If he loved you he wouldn't have said that.
White Knight much... oh wait your username is a Knight. How the hell is he disrespectful? For telling the honest truth? Neh it's better to lie, there clearly ain't any hotter gals out there. For fucks sake.
You seriously don't know chivalry. You can't be outright rude, blunt and honest to someone you love. If you still do, then goodluck in finding true love.
Chivalry is dead. Only so called Nice Guys use that crap. I'm just a Decent Guy, so there is nothing to expect from me, plus I'm Eurotrash.
Ha. When you don't care for something then you won't have it for long.
Chivalry is dead for you and some other guys like you. Not for others. Women who like people like you are same as you, blunt, disrespectful and honest.
Tell me Mr. White Knight how many woman have you been with? Hookers don't count, but actual relationships. You know relationships aren't computer code where you run it and it runs virtually forever. In each and every relationships there will be problems that ultimately lead to the demise of one's relationship.
None. I know but at least I know how to treat women. Those women who want to be treated badly can have others. I give and take respect.
You are seriously someone special.
What you sow is what you reap.
Your ignorance is as strong as it could get. You clearly are a high level White Knight. You make baseless assumptions about me and how man treat woman. As a matter of fact I always hold the door for my date/woman and I paid for the dinner 90% of the time. However, I don't believe on having my woman on a pedestal like she is some sort of a princess or a priceless vase. This is where the line is drawn between spinless Nice Guys and just your Average (Decent) Guy. Assumptions are bad for your health.
A man can't be a fool to noylt know when to speak the truth and when to lie. The girl already knows the question to her answer. She expects the man to stand up for her, by her side and speak for her, not the honest truth. It's ok to lie a bit in relationships. Nobody likes an honest and blunt man.
*not
I just know that you support outright honesty. You only care for truth not for emotions of people concerned, in short you do not feel bad hurting the feelings of others just for the sake of truth.
Everyone likes respect. If you are bluntly honest with others and don't care about their feelings then the same can also happen to you.
Hmm. Blunt honesty goes a long way bud.
Actually I don't care about other feelings to begin with. Yet somehow I have a relatively correct moral compass. Then again as you said, I only do care about the truth, to me the rest is irrelevant.
Ok. But you will have a hard time maintaining relationships.
Interesting enough I have no problem maintaining relationships. I know how to treat a woman as a woman and show her she is desired and wanted. But I don't feed anyone's ego, therefor my dates are usually one timers and very short, as I prefer to weed out the bad weeds.
Ok. Goodluck then.
That is offensive, he should find you the most beautiful person in the world, my advice would be to break up, find someone better
So you want him to be so enamored over your pussy that he is blinded to the obvious fact that no matter how pretty you are, there's always someone prettier?
You threw him into one of those no-win situations like when bitches ask do these jeans make me look fat. If he's honest you get mad, if he lies you'll accuse him of lying.
It has nothing to do with pussy. If they're so much better, that's where he needs to be
It has everything to do with pussy. That's all you really have to offer. Just because he thinks someone else better manifests society's idea of beauty, doesn't mean he isn't attracted to you or that he doesn't want to be with you.
Pussy is not all I have to offer. I have lots of good traits. Any female can offer pussy
There are no good traits that a woman has other than access to her vagina. For marriage potential, the ability to cook and an obsessive need to keep the house clean are also valuable. but pussy is the single largest driving force in the reason we keep you around.
Wow!!
he ain't lying, pussy is 80% of what a woman has to offer
I think you're overreacting to this. I mean he's still with you and hasn't cheated or complained that he couldn't be with a girl who's more attractive so what's the big deal?
Is every boyfriend you have the most attractive man in the world?
So I should just be content that he's settling for me while thinking of someone "prettier"? No thanks!!
Yes, all of my boyfriends were the most attractive to me at the time. I wouldn't have been with them otherwise
So are you going to dump him when a hotter guy comes around?
There's no such thing in my eyes. However I am going to dump him for putting other females before me
Pretty sad @asker
@Toad-1 How? Why should I settle for being a consolation prize?
You're beyond help
Translation: you have nothing constructive to add
Why bother when you won't listen to anything we are saying?
YOU'RE not saying anything
that's a back handed compliment. tell him he is handsome, however not the most handsome guy you've seen and see how he likes it lol