If your S/O were to ask you to delete your social media accounts, would you delete them? (Page 2)

[TacosRAwesome]

I wouldn't. I do nothing wrong on social media and just occasionally talk with a couple friends, if someone random contacts me, I'll just check what they need and deal accordingly. So based on that, if he can't trust me that much. I'm out.

[Robsinsf53]

No and here's why. Today social media accounts. Tomorrow.. cancel gym membership or join hers, Tuesday cancel sports illustrated and Sunday morning paper, Wednesday... see where its going. Plus no trust!

[admles]

No.

Who the hell are they to tell me to delete my accounts?

My social media accounts are MINE. That means she does not get access to them, the passwords, to tell me who I can or can't follow or friend, question what I like on there, or tell me to delete them.

All of that screams untrusting control freak.

[xButterflyKisses87x]

Lol yeah understand my hubs raises questions on who I talk to because he's afraid I could be talking to others and cheat like his ex did

[xButterflyKisses87x]

I only have one person on there he really should be worried about but there on the other side of the country lmao

[InfoBot]

If that S/O was a firm 10 in personality, looks, body and sexual dynamism then I might consider it. If not then no, they can fuck off. They'd have to be pretty fucking awesome to be able to dictate what I should and shouldn't do.

[cryscrys1]

I only use Instagram
I feel like recently people are not into having so many social media accounts they are becoming more selective use 1 or 2 and that's it...

[fatimSA95]

It's Instagram that's bothering him.

[Spongebob1235]

he is just a controlling asshole who is trying to manipulate you.

i bet if you say no, he will try his level best to make you feel bad. then he will try to reason with you calmly in order to get what he wants. when that fails he will use anger

[Hans222]

Nope, except maybe if one of them was a dating site.
Some things are private, I'd also allow her to keep hers and have confidence in her not using those to seduce another guy or share confidential things.

[Elarra]

Lol, no.

I have a YouTube channel for horror stories and a Twitter that goes with it. And my Instagram and Facebook are for my baking. There's literally no reason for me to delete my social media haha and idgaf what he thinks.

[Ropemarks]

I already think about deactivating some but if I was asked by them I would not want to anymore especially if it was asked like in that text; Very condescending.

Bitch please. Insecure much? He obviously thinks you can do better if he's so paranoid.

[cuttl]

I would laugh and laugh and then we would have to have a very long, serious,
conversation about why he wanted me to delete them. If he wanted them ALL gone, then we'd have a problem - I learn a lot of family news from FB.

[Dsausy]

haha if it was something similar to the picture I would ESPECIALLY not delete them and probably just dump them because that kinda behavior out of them just shows their demanding, controlling behavior I don't like to see in people.

[Peachman]

If I were close enough to them and they had good reason yes not including my YouTube account (its to hard to search up people manually and technically social media ) and this

[hanjeehan]

If there is a good reason behind the request, I would gladly do it, but in your case, no.

[girlinthisworld]

Oh no no no!!! If that's a genuine conversation between you and your SO then I highly suggest you dump his controlling ass! It will start out with this and then lead to him trying to control you in every other way he can. Get out now!

[Lunetta_]

Nope. My social media is my business. He is free to give me advice and warn me - I'll take it into consideration. But I am the one who makes the decision.

[mndejong]

I wouldn't ask for something like that so I'll make sure she doesn't ask for something like that. If she had any reason at all, I'd do it tho, after screenshotting all my Insta posts and leaving one message bye

[goldies]

in my opinion social media is more like getting people mad at each other and turning humble persons into egocentric ones, so I would delete all of mine because I feel this way, and to give the guy a second chance to prove he ain't that idiot to ask it. maybe he is super sensitive and that's the way he sees to kinda defend himself from some kind of rejection he senses coming

[LittleSally]

If I had any and they represented something for me then no, I wouldn't...
But I don't... and I'd like it for him to not have them, but hey... it's life...

[YHL6965]

In my opinion, relationship is about harmony, not dominance. Either we both agree on something or we disagree. There is no "I want you to do that and you will do it because I'm your SO".

[Moo32]

No, they're my accounts and I'll do as I please with them. Him on the other hand, I would get rid of!