Guys, do you care if your SO is poor?

[Cutekity]

Asume that the girl is hot and you have a very good income.

I don't care if she is poor

I don't want to be with a poor girl

[JohnDoe3000]

Yes, I do. There's nothing you can do about your background, but once you're near my age you should be a self-sufficient responsible adult or you won't be a good match for me.

In general there's a huge double standard here between men and women and I think men in general are way too desperate for pussy. Fellas: you don't have to put up with spoilt princesses who don't want to work they find "beneath them". And yes, this sounds harsh, but honestly, most women have gone to college so they have no excuse to be poor: they could have chosen a major with good prospects, or have gone to a good trade school, that's what's expected of men and in an equal world that should be expected of women as well. If a woman only wants to take the path of least resistance and has no real ambitions then what exactly should a man with grit and ambitions see in her?

[EpicDweeb]

My plan has always been to be the provider for my future family. If my future spouse is poor that has absolutely no influence in terms of whether or not I date, and potentially, marry them. It doesn't change my plans at all.

[EpicDweeb]

Why thank you :)

[Randomawkwardness]

well I mean if you really love eachother, regardless of who had the higher or lower income, you'd be able to make it work.

[zxcded]

If he's got a good heart and is the love of my life, idc. I'll love all of his flaws.

[apple24]

fuck no! I want my girl to take care of me! hahaha!

[HungLikeAHorsefly]

My wife was poor for a very long time while she was in graduate school. Now she makes about what I do, and she gave me her entire annual salary for the first two years after college to spend however I wanted, for supporting her through school.

[Cutekity]

OMG! That is so sweet!!!

[madgoat]

Women can get away with being poor as men are typically not looking for a financier.
It's not enough just to look hot though, she's going to have to have something about her.
A successful and professional man will want a woman that can move in the same circles.

[Anonymous]

Haven't had a girlfriend, but I'll say my opinion anyway. It depends. You asked "do you care"? of course I'll care, but it won't affect my relationship with her. If she's poor, it doesn't imply that she's not a good person and it doesn't mean that she can't be with me. If she's a good person who cherishes the time with me and if I loved her and she loved me, it wouldn't step in the way if she's poor.

[Guy2345]

With all the feminist crap shoved down men's throats about equality, why would I want to date a woman any less capable and successful, if I had a "very good income." If you're truly equal, then you can take equal care of equal obligations and equal responsibilities.

I guess if she was REALLY, REALLY hot, then perhaps I might consider it.

[TripleAce]

Cmon... we know girls care - it's like at the top of their list
' is this man able to be a real man and afford me, yadayada yada, if this man can't even buy dinner on the first date what makes me think he can afford a house for us'

some bs like that
now men don't care as much which is why you see sexy babes with ugly dudes with cash...

[DonkeyRick69]

Men and women have different prefrences when it comes to relationships and marraige. All i can say is that the girl being hot is not enough she would need to have more to offer ie great cooking, laundry, housework etc

[Wwwyzzerdd]

Ladies talk about levels and lanes and standards and how they don't want a man they aren't attracted to.

I'm not attracted to a broke female, that indicates she's lazy and uses others for money instead of earning her own.

If females are going to reject men based off looks and finances then we are going to do the same back.

[Peachman]

I wouldn't care if they ARE poor I would care WHY they are poor eg if it was because they are supporting siblings etc I would think better of them if it was because they couldn't be fucked to get a job or gambled etc I would care

[10dsw]

I would not date a poor woman, nope. Contrary to what many people say, I'm a believer in both parties in a relationship carrying their own weight.

[Kilapan]

I can not put myself in the position of a rich man, I would never be rich, it is against my principles.

And I would love a very poor girl, I would also form a family, I would break my spine working so that nothing is missing.

[Wolf_D]

Not in the slightest. I don't want to support her but if I care I will help anyway I can. I've done it before.

[Unit1]

As long as she is actively looking for a job, that's what she can do to satisfy me.

"Asume that the girl is hot and you have a very good income."
"you have a very good income."

Nein! I'm not a fucking sugar daddy! I'm out!

[Mexicoman101]

I care very little about a womans finances, usually its them with that problem. The most superficial thing about my standards is looks, like having a big fat ass

[Nerdvana]

Hot or not. I don't care if she is poor. Unless she just doesn't want to work. It's my job as her man to provide for her and lift her up, where she feels taken care of and comfortable in life.

[kinggeorge007]

It depends, for me; she has to be in a similar social level... too much extremities don't do much of attraction.

[jansoka]

If she is trying to Not be poor why Not Just Put the Money toegether and bei Happy?
But Just when IT is serious and she is Not a gold digger

[MeGo99]

I wouldn't care if the girl was poor i mean i would help take care of her. if anyone cares that ur poor then they are not worth being with in a relationship

[sedrftvgyhujik]

Poor no freeloader yes and It's more that money is an added bonus.

[Naydyonov]

I don't care, as long as she doesn't like me for my money or stupid spend said money.

[xDasti]

I never consider money a problem in life. I focus on things that really matter in life. And I don't mean modern life.