No. People should be able to look at the opposite sex when in relationships. We are not even supposed to be in monogamous relationships that is a social concept it is not natural for men to be tied to just one female. This is why many men cheat or get divorced, you can't expect to have a good relationship if you tell a man what to do with his own eyes or what he can and can't think about. It just doesn't work out well this way. For every demanding woman a man has to deal with there is dozens of easy going women who would take that man in a heart beat.
I would be hurt. How I see it is that if you're with someone you love and care about you won't have eyes for anyone else but that person. So if I caught my boyfriend doing that I would leave him because that's not okay to me.
I know people are going to disagree and say it's natural everyone has a wandering eye. But I still disagree.
Well if it happens several times and it hurts you then how I see it is you deserve better and that's very disrespectful for the person you're dating to check out other people. It's like you're looking for someone else to date.
It's very disrespectful for someone that says they have feelings for you to watching someone else. Your a good woman, I hope you find that guy that knows all that he needs to be looking at is standing by his side and not walking by or across the street.
One of my exes was like that. If they will disrespect you like that in front of you, they're no good. My current partner has never behaved so poorly. Clearly you will notice if someone is attractive or not, but to gawk and stare is nothing except complete disregard and respect.
I realize that my boyfriend will notice other attractive people, because he's human. But I think advertising it is disrespectful and inconsiderate. He can't control his biology, but he can control his actions, so he should do so.
Yes, it is. It's completely and utterly disrespectful. I realize that it's unrealistic to expect my partner to find no other men attractive. However, I want her to keep it to herself. I want to live my life in my own fantasy in which I am the only guy in the world that she'd give the time of day.
I feel it healthy. I know that I've had ex's that if the chance arised they get some super 🌟. So way can't I look. Although I draw the line at saying there name in bed. It's disrespectful at least to me. Although I had ex that though it was a joke and did it often. It didn't last long after that
If I was dating I would try my hardest to not take a double look at the person for respect to my partner and myself. I hope she would do the same! It is a matter of respect for me, however, most often looking is meaningless besides admiration and lust.
You can look but don't touch. I have no problem if my girlfriend checks out a guy when we are out together. At the end of the day she is in my bed with me all night and that is what's important.
Me and my fiance have a look but dont touch policy. But then again she is bi but dedicated to me. But we often walk through a mall pointing out the sexiest booty.. lol
I would feel extremely hurt and offends and would not want to be with that person anymore cuz he might just as well say I have errands to run and instead he will, go be with her that is heartbreaking
@KyleMY14 not only I do not trust anyone I keep everything to myself.. Well I did trust someone but it ended today... but also though it is the truth of what would happened if that did happened
no biggie. if he's not flirting with someone else or cheating on me, it's okay. everybody looks and stuff, y'know? i'm not gonna lie and say i don't do the same thing. much more than looking though, i'd probably get concerned.
I'm alright as long as they don't think they are way better. What I mean is humans have it one way and when we see something else, the grass is always greener on the other side.
No i dont think so because just because i see someone attractive doesn't mean i want to date them constantly through out the day i see girls and size them up in my head usually to the effect of she's really pretty probably wouldn't date though
It can be annoying, but I don't really have issues with it
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They can look but not touch is how I see it... and I hope their not getting themselves off on them if you get what I mean... like look at them... yeah...
Lol.. I'm not against admiring beauty of another person, but I can see why it will tick off a man or woman if they caught their mate checking out another person's looks.
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