Is having a wandering eye , really a bad thing when you're in a relationship?

[JustblockRebecca]

How many of you gorgeous people of GAG, feel hurt or offending if you caught your S/O 'checking out' someone else in your presences?

[C2000]

No. People should be able to look at the opposite sex when in relationships. We are not even supposed to be in monogamous relationships that is a social concept it is not natural for men to be tied to just one female. This is why many men cheat or get divorced, you can't expect to have a good relationship if you tell a man what to do with his own eyes or what he can and can't think about. It just doesn't work out well this way. For every demanding woman a man has to deal with there is dozens of easy going women who would take that man in a heart beat.

[Gayview_Mahat]

This is why I always wear shades 😎 so she can't catch me 😂

[hotstuff85]

that never works

[Gayview_Mahat]

@hotstuff85 Of course it does.

[hotstuff85]

not always

[Lexi52]

I would be hurt. How I see it is that if you're with someone you love and care about you won't have eyes for anyone else but that person. So if I caught my boyfriend doing that I would leave him because that's not okay to me.

I know people are going to disagree and say it's natural everyone has a wandering eye. But I still disagree.

[hotstuff85]

i am totally with u on this one.. its only the guys who are the ones u gotta look out for..

[Lexi52]

Yes sadly

[hotstuff85]

it sucks

[heclinybad]

I want to give you the thumbs up but don't completely agree with your reaction I wouldn't leave her, but she would definitely get the cold shoulder.

[Lexi52]

Well if it happens several times and it hurts you then how I see it is you deserve better and that's very disrespectful for the person you're dating to check out other people. It's like you're looking for someone else to date.

[heclinybad]

It's very disrespectful for someone that says they have feelings for you to watching someone else. Your a good woman, I hope you find that guy that knows all that he needs to be looking at is standing by his side and not walking by or across the street.

[Lexi52]

Thank you and I hope so too!

[Anonymous]

One of my exes was like that. If they will disrespect you like that in front of you, they're no good. My current partner has never behaved so poorly. Clearly you will notice if someone is attractive or not, but to gawk and stare is nothing except complete disregard and respect.

[samhradh_leannan]

I realize that my boyfriend will notice other attractive people, because he's human. But I think advertising it is disrespectful and inconsiderate. He can't control his biology, but he can control his actions, so he should do so.

[hotstuff85]

agreed.. we should be aware of who we look at in a sexual way

[samhradh_leannan]

@hotstuff85 Yep. It's about being considerate.

[ShortCircuit]

Yes, it is. It's completely and utterly disrespectful. I realize that it's unrealistic to expect my partner to find no other men attractive. However, I want her to keep it to herself. I want to live my life in my own fantasy in which I am the only guy in the world that she'd give the time of day.

[KRock323]

I feel it healthy. I know that I've had ex's that if the chance arised they get some super 🌟. So way can't I look. Although I draw the line at saying there name in bed. It's disrespectful at least to me. Although I had ex that though it was a joke and did it often. It didn't last long after that

[MackFreeze]

If I was dating I would try my hardest to not take a double look at the person for respect to my partner and myself. I hope she would do the same! It is a matter of respect for me, however, most often looking is meaningless besides admiration and lust.

[geoinca]

You can look but don't touch. I have no problem if my girlfriend checks out a guy when we are out together. At the end of the day she is in my bed with me all night and that is what's important.

[evilremains]

Me and my fiance have a look but dont touch policy. But then again she is bi but dedicated to me. But we often walk through a mall pointing out the sexiest booty.. lol

[Malaya]

I would feel extremely hurt and offends and would not want to be with that person anymore cuz he might just as well say I have errands to run and instead he will, go be with her that is heartbreaking

[KyleMY14]

Sounds like u just don't trust anyone

[Malaya]

@KyleMY14 not only I do not trust anyone I keep everything to myself.. Well I did trust someone but it ended today... but also though it is the truth of what would happened if that did happened

[hotstuff85]

@KyleMY14 u sure do have some trut issues.. andi really dont blame u for havibg them

[Anonymous]

no biggie. if he's not flirting with someone else or cheating on me, it's okay. everybody looks and stuff, y'know? i'm not gonna lie and say i don't do the same thing. much more than looking though, i'd probably get concerned.

[r3m123]

I'm alright as long as they don't think they are way better. What I mean is humans have it one way and when we see something else, the grass is always greener on the other side.

[drummer1984nh]

Absolutely normal. We are programmed to do so. If you are insecure about your relationship I can see that being problematic.

[Rojaasu]

No i dont think so because just because i see someone attractive doesn't mean i want to date them constantly through out the day i see girls and size them up in my head usually to the effect of she's really pretty probably wouldn't date though

[ForeverSingle28]

Yes And I Will Squeeze His Eyeballs Out His Head And Give It To The Girl He Was Looking At

[hotstuff85]

hah ur th protective of the guys u date

[ForeverSingle28]

Very

[hotstuff85]

understandable.. i would to...

[masterotaku]

Having a wondering eye is normal.

Having said that do you really want to hurt the feelings of someone you care about?

You can't help noticing beauty around you... but you can control your head snaps. It's called maturity.

[Vmm90]

I think it's normal to look, however it's a problem when it becomes more.

[OpalLi]

i have nothing against wandering eye, I do it often too

[bizkid95]

It can be annoying, but I don't really have issues with it

[Anonymous]

They can look but not touch is how I see it... and I hope their not getting themselves off on them if you get what I mean... like look at them... yeah...

[beez1717]

I never got why it's an issue. Humans can be attracted to others but still hold a relationship with someone perfectly fine.

[winterfox10]

I wouldn't care much. Sometimes people do that stuff to intentionally make their s/o jealous, and that is very not cool.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Lol.. I'm not against admiring beauty of another person, but I can see why it will tick off a man or woman if they caught their mate checking out another person's looks.

[PinkandSparkles]

It doesn't bother me we are all human. You can shop the menu as long as you don't order.

[darklandrunner]

It's disrespectful unless your girl is into that sort of thing.

[OlderGuy965]

I do it. The ex did it. I never cared. She never cared.

[Nice222]

I love it personally. My wife and I check other people out all the time.

[hotstuff85]

i would be like '' honey what u looking at'' is she still ignores me i ask again

[Dan_McD]

Its human nature and unrealistic to believe that it'll never happen

[picket33]

Not entirely. It's pretty hard not to at least glance. Just as long as it isn't like a stare

[NaultD]

Shorter then 3 seconds should be fine.

[Makəbā]

Im probably the one usually looking

[JustblockRebecca]

haha

[fr_student]

Not a problem for me

[NICKELMAN]

Not to me.

[Nahid1234]

That meme haha

[shubhamchachapara]

I love it to do

[lamau]

Dead meme