You do nothing. You stay away from her and make sure she stays away from you. There were guys my friends dated that I didn't like for obvious reasons. But mind you, some of them didn't like me first. Because they knew I knew what their game was. If your intentions are truly genuine then keep it that way. If your girlfriend has trust issues with you, that is because she already has issues with trust, period. The friend is basically like me. Sensing things about people that isn't right. Are you sure that you aren't doing things you shouldn't, that have nothing to do with cheating? Such as being into things that she doesn't approve? Because that was my issue with the guys my friends dated until it was proven true of what I said. I am not saying I don't believe you. But if you say your clean of certain things, and things between you and your girlfriend is good. Then this has to do with something not correct with the friend.
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My best friend doesn’t like my boyfriend too & he doesn’t like her either. I say if you two are happy together, why care about pleasing other’s expectations? I’m not saying to be rude, that would just make things worse; what I’m saying is maybe it’s better to just.. not worry about it, I wouldn’t let someone who doesn’t like me affect my relationship with my PARTNER who I love :)
My husbands mate was like that with me.
The speech that he made at our wedding was awful.
"yeah I think my mate is okay and happy but I never see him much now days so I don't really know ".
That was it.
We get along now.
Just tell your girlfriend, some women dont like seeing other women happy so if she's toxic and is trying to break you guys up then why do you care? Your relationship is you and her NOT her friends friends come and go in life
If you dont know toxic people who can't control you will control how everyone else perceives you.
Make the better call and tell your girlfriend unless you want to feel like shite for the rest of your life.
You need to either tell your girlfriend to deal with it (I'm sure she'd want you to I'd one of your male friends was Doing this?) Or you need to come straight out and tell her to stop being a dick
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talk to your girlfriend and tell her everything that's going on between this girl and you, and see what she does, if she thinks you're trying to break up their friendship then something's wrong with her.. or talk to the friend and ask her what's her problem?
She's probably either jealous bc she liked you too, worried bc she thinks she's being replaced or just protective and thinks that you're a bad influence on her best friend. i would honestly recommend just asking her about it
When me and my ex boyfriend were together, his best friend didn't like me, when my ex cheated he made ME feel bad for it. But I just made sure if we ever went anywhere with him there id be civil for my boyfriends sake, or just not go.
Talk to her friend, she probably feels replaced and will hate to find out you betrade the relationship. Talk about you girlfriend and how serious you are with her and not some kind of playboy. Suggest hanging out all together but avoid making out so much do to the fact its always awkward for the third person. But don't fight just keep talking through it.
First of all, stop being a pussy asskiss who tries to buy her. Act confident and nice around her, but OBNOXIOUSLY so. It'll out her in her place and she won't be able to complain.
Talk to your gurlfriend, bit when you do, start your sentence with 'i feel like', that way it doesn't seem like you're telling her the way she should feel and so that it can open up to more discussion.
Could be jealousy or maybe she thinks that way about you for some reason. Try asking her sometime why she doesn't like you.
She’s probably worried that she’s being replaced. I know I’ve felt this way. Maybe it’s the same for her?
Try to include her in things, but also make your girlfriend feel important.It's common. She's jealous that you've likely taken her place as your girlfriend's most important person. The same thing happened to me.
Well I suggest you speak to your girlfriend about it, and explaining how you feel the situation is. It's her boyfriend and her best friend, she is one to make it work.
If she DOES hate you, its cos you essentially stole her best friend. Your girl isn't spending as much time with her as she used to, so try and spend as much time with them both together as possible
Who cares? Her approval is not required. Just don't interact with her that much. I've never required the approval of my friends to date a girl.
She secretly wants you.. You buy them both drinks and enter 3way fun mode. They will love it but never will admit it... Trust.
Deal with it and move on.
Nothing. You didn't do anything wrong !
It's her problem, not yours, don't need to worry
She probably likes you tbh
Tell ur girlfriend
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