I think my girlfriend's best friend (a girl) hates me. She never talks to me in a good manner nor she looks up to participate in plans I make for our group. Sometimes she also instigated a feeking of untrust in my girlfriend because of which we had a long fight. I can't say against her best friend for obvious reasons. I don't know what's wrong. I'm very loyal to my girl. She is also happy with me. I bring gifts for both of them. We hangout together. Still she hates me. Please help me with this situation.
You do nothing. You stay away from her and make sure she stays away from you. There were guys my friends dated that I didn't like for obvious reasons. But mind you, some of them didn't like me first. Because they knew I knew what their game was. If your intentions are truly genuine then keep it that way. If your girlfriend has trust issues with you, that is because she already has issues with trust, period. The friend is basically like me. Sensing things about people that isn't right. Are you sure that you aren't doing things you shouldn't, that have nothing to do with cheating? Such as being into things that she doesn't approve? Because that was my issue with the guys my friends dated until it was proven true of what I said. I am not saying I don't believe you. But if you say your clean of certain things, and things between you and your girlfriend is good. Then this has to do with something not correct with the friend.
Yeah I'm sure I've done nothing wrong. Me, my girlfriend and her best friend are in same college and live very close. I don't have time away from them. They know my routine in and out. So no chance of cheating, flirting with others etc even if I want to (no I don't). May be her friend is single that's why she is so problematic?
It's not so much of her being single it's just that she's very overprotective of her friend and she loves her as a sister. You don't want her making the wrong choices even if it's something that she doesn't agree with.
My best friend doesn’t like my boyfriend too & he doesn’t like her either. I say if you two are happy together, why care about pleasing other’s expectations? I’m not saying to be rude, that would just make things worse; what I’m saying is maybe it’s better to just.. not worry about it, I wouldn’t let someone who doesn’t like me affect my relationship with my PARTNER who I love :)
That's how you think. Here, my girlfriend's best friend hates me and because of her hatred, she is arousing my girlfriend to doubt me lately, she asked me to give my phone to check my convos with my fellow femake classmates. She has never done this before.
Well that sounds unfair for you that she is spying & picking fights because what her friend is telling her.. I’m sorry. But simply if you have nothing to hide/you let her look.. she’ll be reassured, trust you & probably won’t do it again. If she does you should talk to about it. It never feels good when your partner makes you feel like they can’t trust
My husbands mate was like that with me. The speech that he made at our wedding was awful. "yeah I think my mate is okay and happy but I never see him much now days so I don't really know ". That was it. We get along now.
Just tell your girlfriend, some women dont like seeing other women happy so if she's toxic and is trying to break you guys up then why do you care? Your relationship is you and her NOT her friends friends come and go in life
If you dont know toxic people who can't control you will control how everyone else perceives you.
Make the better call and tell your girlfriend unless you want to feel like shite for the rest of your life.
I don't want their friendship to break. I need some way to make her best friend start liking me or something which stops her from doing what she is doing
If seeing another woman happy was the reason she’s upset, she was just stop talking to her best friend... doesn’t make sense to not like the man just because her friend is happy, that won’t change anything. So that’s most likely not the reason. But it’s an okay guess lol
You need to either tell your girlfriend to deal with it (I'm sure she'd want you to I'd one of your male friends was Doing this?) Or you need to come straight out and tell her to stop being a dick
I can't tell my girlfriend as it may harm their friendship. I value friendships more than relationship. Their friendship is of almost 17 years. I've tried to confront her best friend but she keep denying it and tells me that she would never like us parted. That's why this is a complicated question.
talk to your girlfriend and tell her everything that's going on between this girl and you, and see what she does, if she thinks you're trying to break up their friendship then something's wrong with her.. or talk to the friend and ask her what's her problem?
She's probably either jealous bc she liked you too, worried bc she thinks she's being replaced or just protective and thinks that you're a bad influence on her best friend. i would honestly recommend just asking her about it
When me and my ex boyfriend were together, his best friend didn't like me, when my ex cheated he made ME feel bad for it. But I just made sure if we ever went anywhere with him there id be civil for my boyfriends sake, or just not go.
I too try to avoid her most of the times. But the problem is she is controlling the relationship through her advises and unethical stuffs. It is seriously affecting the 2 year relation.
I need to tell her in a way which tells her my feeling and will not break their friendship. They are really good friends. But she loves me deeply and can even break their friendship for us. I can't let this happen.
Talk to her friend, she probably feels replaced and will hate to find out you betrade the relationship. Talk about you girlfriend and how serious you are with her and not some kind of playboy. Suggest hanging out all together but avoid making out so much do to the fact its always awkward for the third person. But don't fight just keep talking through it.
First of all, stop being a pussy asskiss who tries to buy her. Act confident and nice around her, but OBNOXIOUSLY so. It'll out her in her place and she won't be able to complain.
I'm not trying to win over her. There's no need to. I just want her not to interrupt our relationship just necause of her baseless hatred. Women are confusing sometimes.
Talk to your gurlfriend, bit when you do, start your sentence with 'i feel like', that way it doesn't seem like you're telling her the way she should feel and so that it can open up to more discussion.
If you're planning to try and have a relationship with the friend, all you can do is go out of your way to change her mind about you. Maybe even go just the two of you for coffee to talk sometime or something.
Well I suggest you speak to your girlfriend about it, and explaining how you feel the situation is. It's her boyfriend and her best friend, she is one to make it work.
If she DOES hate you, its cos you essentially stole her best friend. Your girl isn't spending as much time with her as she used to, so try and spend as much time with them both together as possible
I don't think so. My situation is complicated here. We all three are neighbours. Go to same college. They both spend a hell lot time together. We hangout as a trio group of friends. Still she hates me. We even split bills equally because she asked me to do that.
I don't interact with her. But she is my girlfriend's best friend. They meet everyday. She can easily start manipulating my girlfriend by saying something wrong everyday. Still my girl hasn't lost trust in me, it's hard to tell how long she can hold
Either your girlfriend is going to trust you, or she's not. If it all it takes is a little girlfriend gossip for her to doubt you then you've got the wrong girl.
So with your logic, then that would mean all men are bi and just don’t acknowledge it either lol think about it. men are more scared to be seen doing gay shit than women are 👌
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