I found someone elses bra in his room, what should I do? (Page 2)
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I think he's cheating unless he had a regular friend or relative stay over and took a bath or shower and had a change of clothes but somehow forgot about that bra. I mean what are his current explanations other than he tells you about girls that like him? Do you really believe he is honest with you? Or could he actually be deceiving you the whole time and acting behind your back?
Ask him. Does he have any roommates? Could it have been anyone they were with? Don’t fully distrust him till you’ve closed all evidences, but be wary of lying when you ask him.
Does he live at home with his family? If the answer is yes, then it's possible that laundry got mixed up... depending on his living (family) situation, it could be a sisters or his mothers.
I would ask him. That's incredibly fishy, not going to lie. If I found a bra in my boyfriend's laundry then I would assume the worst, but that's just me.
You can ask, of course... don't be a bitch about it tho...
doesn't make a difference though. I mean if i'd love you, but cheated on you, it would mean i didn't want you to know. So i would do it in a way that you wouldn't notice, and i'd lie about it. Straight in your face. Just saying. I've never cheated thouh...
It natural to feel angry and scared, but anger only clouds your judgement. Talk to him, examine him, listen to him
Look for any indication of guilt on his punk ass face and if he gives in, break his fuckin' ears off
He’s cheating but don’t blow up about it. If cheating is unacceptable to you , just text him a picture saying you found the bra in his room and you’re breaking up with him.
Lol so just abruptly break up with him based on pure assumptions
Ya genius lol
Well it depends if he lives with anyone else. Who comes over frequent? I have friends who are comfortable with me. Dont mean i sleep with them lol. In worse case maybe he wears it for a kink? Honestly come to him in a open mind and ask about it
Depends on the situation he is living in. Does he live completely alone? Does he use public laundry machines?
Ask him about it calmly and gauge the answer for any BS. If he immediately goes defensive, that is a red flag.
This happened to me, I came home from a trip and my girlfriend accused me of cheating when she found a pair of panties in my laundry. Long story short, it was my sister's, she stayed at my place for a while and forgot to take them when she left.
Considering it was in the laundry, I doubt it os from cheating unless he's a complete idiot. If he saw it and new you were coming he would have trashed it, not washed it
Not saying he's not cheating, but I do doubt that would be the evidence
You assuming he washed it. How you know he just left it there as dirty laundry etc.
@Hispanic-Cool-Guy Because she said she found it when she was grabbing a towel for a shower. That made me think the laundry was clean.
Ask him seriously amd calmly. Maybe there's an explanation. You doesn't have enough proof that he's cheating so give him a benefit of the doubt to explain his side. But if you caught him cheating infront of your eyes then maybe you can start at war.
obviously confront him, but ask him a few friendly questions before presenting the bra (do you like big breasts, what do you think about me getting a breast enlargement and so on...)
and please keep us updated on the aftermath ☺
Wait till he gets home and have the bra where he can see it when he walks in.
You'll get a response from it.
Ask him almost like you wholeheartedly think he's doing drag behind your back, then he'll either have to face embarrassment of that going public or confess
The fact that you have to ask is already a bad sign, and if he is telling you about girls liking him then it’s just petty there is no reason to try and make you jealous
Okay,
Maybe it was in the dryer and got mixed with his clothes
Maybe he was practicing his "moves" and learning how to take it off with one hand
Maybe he's a cross dresser
Maybe a roommates girlfriend, or a sister
Ask, don't assume
Wear it around you head and pretend you are the boogie monster. When you scare him, well... you'll give him more than one reason to be scared about. He'll be at this position where he knows he fcked up unless he has a really damned good excuse.
Definitely ask him. Don't come off as rude. Just be like "so u wanna explain where this bra came from? Because it's definitely not mine." I don't know if that sounds to assertive but that's what I would say personally.
oh shiii. Be calm because it could be like a family members- or something with his identity, you don’t want to offend him. but if he doesn’t have a valid excuse GO AWFFFF
I'd wait because there are ways a bra can get there without him cheating. Does he have a roommate? Does he share a laundry room with a bunch of people?