I found someone elses bra in his room, what should I do? (Page 2)

Question

I'm staying with my boyfriend for the Christmas break. After he left for work i reached for a towel in the laundry and pulled out a bra. I've never seen it before and its too big for me. He says he's never cheated on me and tells me about girls that like him. Should I just wait till he comes home and ask calmly or what?

Spacequeen · Answer

Oh come on! Red flag girl! Unless he has roommates grill him, them dump him.

Sucram · Answer

My sister got clothes at my place. Maybe it's the same with him?

itwasmelaniasfault · Answer

If I were you I’d just leave the bra on the table, pack my stuff up and leave. I’d also never look back

bloodyrevenge · Answer

Ask him. A lot of different things could have happened.

ChronicThinker · Answer

Does he have a sister? Sometimes laundry can get mixed up in the wash.

2opaz · Answer

tear his ass a new one you know that low down dirty dog is cheating on you girl

Carley99 · Answer

There are three cases it could be a family members, he's a cross dresser or he's cheating on you

N192K001 · Answer

Show it at the last minute, but ask a series of thoughtful questions before doing so.

abc3643 · Answer

Fasten your seat belts. Here comes drama. Seriously, dump him.

TheCrazyBoy · Answer

It could be from his mother or aunt. You never know so just ask him if some e was in this building with him. if he looks stressed and doesn't answer just confront him

watisgoingon · Answer

ask calmly and see how he reacts and what he says. watch the body language. maybe he's not cheating and he has a secret life where he dresses up as a woman and gets fucked in the ass. who knows?

KenKillsBarbies · Answer

Yeah he cheated or he’s into stealing bras or has man tits and where’s them get real if we were dating I come to visit and find a used condom under your bed I know what it is

Cosytoasty · Answer

Well it might be his, so don't jump to conclusions...

mT2359 · Answer

Burn the bra in front of him while making eye contact while it burns out completely. Then pretend to leave and give him a chance to plead and plead till u are satisfied he has learnt his lesson. The silent treatment works always.

Pink2000 · Answer

Ask first and if it don't sound right then go off.

teawrecks · Answer

“Aw babe it was so nice of you to try and buy me underwear, but unfortunately this doesn’t fit...”

Cursewords · Answer

If this really happened and isn't just some bullshit post for likes. You have one hell of a shit-fight coming with your boyfriend.

mooky06 · Answer

Just ask. He can't really lie if you have the bra in your hands :/

MindYourEyes · Answer

Fuck that noise! I’m sure if you ask it could be a lie. I dunno what do you think? :o

erp01 · Answer

So many innocent things could have occurred that it could have no real importance. I'd just forget about it.

NoOne_Special · Answer

I would wait until he gets home and talk to him calmly

ch1pmunk143 · Answer

Ask him and see his he reacts foe all you know they could be a sisters

babaganoosh · Answer

He could have sisters, he could do his laundry at a local laundromat, don't jump to conclusions just yet.  At least see what he says and pay attention to how he reacts.

BobbyC65 · Answer

Have him try it on maybe he bought it for him self.

Jemini_Crocket · Answer

Ask him and watch his reaction. If he's acting nuts about it, it's the bad case.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Just ask him and tell him you need some answers. Don't be afraid to speak what's on your mind.

Shaft50 · Answer

You might be surprised and find her wears women's underwear

dansgotswagg · Answer

Just be polite about it. He might have been transgender and you never knew.

bopeep0388 · Answer

Jesus just leave the cunt. Save the drama. Not worth it

kevinaskmenow · Answer

If it's bigger for you, it could also mean that he wants you to get to that size.. He might already be working towards it... Isn't he?

Omar5881 · Answer

Well if he doesn't have a serious enemies nor that's belong to someone else from the family, then leave his ass

LegateLanius · Answer

See if he has a sister that visited recently, if not, he might have cheated. Did he ever wear women's underwear?

pleasestopthis · Answer

Does he live with his mother or sister? if not, he's a very crappy liar.

omda-aden · Answer

it could be his sister's bra since she has bigger boobs than yours

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah ask him about it, I would love to hear that explanation unless he likes dressing up in women’s underwear

msg812 · Answer

You should ask that question "why is this bra in your room?"

Dutcher · Answer

If he lives alone then ask him about it to see his reaction but it might be his moms or something

DGthemanwhocan · Answer

Before you judge call his sister, mother, etc and ask if they visited him during that time.

Valiric · Answer

Try it on to see if it fits... If it does, ta da! Brand new bra.

bobbywiz79 · Answer

Just ask him, gauge his reaction and take it from there.

AdamED · Answer

Yes, wait and ask. My girlfriend found random bras in the other bedroom I have, but they were for Airbnb guests. Wait and see what he says. Update us!

chrisbigman · Answer

I would definitely ask him. He certainly has some explaining to do.

bigazz · Answer

First ask then if he admits it or seems to be lying or hiding something, then go tf off

Nana_101 · Answer

I think your should ask questions about it then if stuff is not adding up or he's trying to get around the conversation etc... Then you're allowed to go tf off

Anonymous · Answer

If his answer sounds stupid, he's cheating. No real reason for him to have a bra at his place.

Anonymous · Answer

Congrats u found urself a cheat. This is all u wanted. Problem is girls easily lets the jerks to ride the roller coster wdout buying the ticket.

OpenWine · Answer

could have many harmless reasons so just don't panic

chickenlikkle · Answer

put on the bra and wear it for him. see what he says

hornymike6969 · Answer

just lay it out on the bed then he’ll know that you know about it. or wear it around the house

kunZzz · Answer

Nothing seems like asking in it... I hope u got what am I saying... if u still didn't realize what's going then wait until u see another one.

Guanfei · Answer

Confront him, then leave him. But be sure that it's not yours first. I've seen that happen.

TallAnon · Answer

Just ask him honestly and make a decision with the facts you have after that

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Hey, I say use the athiest logic and think it was evolution that the bra magically appear there.

Jess619 · Answer

Continue to ask him but don't be delusional sometimes the obvious answer is the answer

Sabretooth · Answer

ask his close female relatives-DO NOT confront him!

hasrett · Answer

Unless he has a sister he's cheating.

DarrenTheOk · Answer

Ask him. It might just be something as simple as the laundry getting mixed up

Pinay_ako · Answer

maybe he wears it secretly lol

Máiiréad · Answer

I see this was 18 hours ago, what ever happened?

bytes · Answer

Maybe he jerks off to it haha

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