How can I get my boyfriend to be ok with my body goal? (Page 8)

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Hi everyone!  My boyfriend and I are together since 2013. I started going to the gym as my 2015 new year resolution and I got addicted after I saw how my muscle grew and how hard they become lol I took it more seriously for the past two years and I grew a lot. I talked to my boyfriend and I told him I want to grow bigger and more defined. He wasn't as thrilled as I hoped (he loves muscle on women). I'll post pictures to get a better idea: I am like her in terms of muscle amount and definition And I want to be bigger and more muscular like this girl ore more: How can I convince him, I don't want to lose him neither to stop myself from doing what I like?

Ronnie1972 · Answer

Some guys don't want there girl to be bigger then them myself I'd be ok with it if this is what you want to do go for it

adaiza · Answer

If I may say, if a guy likes you, he doesn't have to change u or make u do stuff that u don't do, honestly he should love for how u are

yasarkhan · Answer

Feed him slowly with the information  Show your daily progress, he wouldn't notice small changes but he will if you show him after long time

HR2017 · Answer

do what is healthy for you and what helps you feel your best and take everyone else's opinion with a grain of salt

Anonymous · Answer

Ewww fuuuuck sorry but these muscles are gross and disgusting and unfeminine ewwwwwwww  I rather date an overweight whale than this this is not a woman

Royalty999 · Answer

Make him understand or leave him... but do live ur life❤

Rinku9 · Answer

I'm not agreed to you. then your boobs are small and not big

That2kKid21 · Answer

Wait, I don't understand why you're bodybuilding lol. Why not just go for a lean build?

kavya13 · Answer

He will love it. Tell him. about your this dream he will understand it

DanyelC · Answer

You can't convince him, only change your boyfriend and date a gym rat.

Revolver_ · Answer

just tell him people usually don't reach their goals

fredrick89 · Answer

Lol, that's good, do what you want, as long as it doesn't hurt others, I like muscled woman

fouadbat · Answer

😷😷 u shouldn't have boyfriend , maybe girlfriend haha

Anonymous · Answer

You can't convince someone nor should you. Find someone who wants it just like you.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't know. I'd love if my girlfriend looked like that

Anonymous · Answer

in my opinion those are sexy af. I would definitely be into that

XSTUFFAFULLAPIPEX · Answer

Dont ger to big keep it feminine where u at is sexy

surejosh · Answer

I'd say aim for the first one but not 100 percent on it

notimportantatall · Answer

Talk to him and find a happy medium. Negotiate and y'all both agree on a goal

JinnRose · Answer

I think you each have a right to your opinions and to disagree...

Parkzicht · Answer

Can't force him to like a body image he's not attracted to so don't try

warrentomar · Answer

You make him understand what and why body building is goal. I am sure he'll understand and join you

micahhhh1 · Answer

If he doesn't like you how you want to be or with what you want or how you are he doesn't deserve

mac7171 · Answer

If he can't be supportive and accept you for who you are dump him

jaegern · Answer

I mean if he won't accept who you are and won't support you, obviously he's not the one.

Ranulf · Answer

Dump him of he can't support your be ok with what you want

risky75 · Answer

Do what you like grill if he loves you he will agree

Highland94 · Answer

A well fed spouse will turn em into a house. Good luck!

Blackbird1 · Answer

a lot of anal will make em okay with your body goals

Anonymous · Answer

Just let him know that you will make it up to him in bed

neurolove · Answer

You can't. It's up to him.

Anonymous · Answer

Eww that’s gross your boyfriend is right

erika01 · Answer

why is this in my notifications?

ScarletAngelic · Answer

You shouldn't care what he thinks. It's your body.

CT_CD · Answer

Those women are on steriods

shashank1990 · Answer

Try to get him to join you

roshniharish · Answer

Be sure with what u want

Anonymous · Answer

I don't care about this. I just want to stop getting notifications for this question

20yearsolder · Answer

Do what makes you happy, not him

WickedIsGood · Answer

He should love you no matter what

KurdishPower · Answer

Woman can't get that big without steroids.

razor97 · Answer

i wonder why did i get this in my notifications 🤔

britpop · Answer

Don't overdo it honey it can become a addiction

Anonymous · Answer

if he dont was you for the way you are loose him sis

Anonymous · Answer

Ummm stop your starting to look like a man and that second pic is uggggggggggggg. JMO

amyyevelyn · Answer

if he loves you, he will support you

KaushalAmrutiya · Answer

Just take him with you in gym.

Anonymous · Answer

Keep doing u!! Someone will love u for u!! I'd live to experience your essence

colorsoft · Answer

Hey if you wanna do it then do it, yo.

mattgdh · Answer

If you want to d whatever he should support it

thisismeshygirl · Answer

Omg hell nah

JuanFrank7 · Answer

I wouldn't be okay with that so I don't know

abuttonx · Answer

That's fucking gross!

IvanBuda · Answer

Take him to gym with you. :P

lovemyindia · Answer

You actually want to turn into a man

solaris1987 · Answer

ummm tell him that partners aren't opponents?

cth96190 · Answer

#2 has gone too far. She is no longer feminine.

momo770 · Answer

You look great, don't compromise for anyone.

Australia_1998 · Answer

Lol you would fuck me up in a fight

ajghonge · Answer

Just to what you want to do

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