My boyfriend laughs at my boobs?

Question

I have B cups. My boyfriend constantly makes comments about how I have “no tits”. He laughs also. He also comments on other girls boobs and how they’re hot because they’re big. I told him it hurts my feelings when he says those things and he says don’t take it to heart. What do I do? I don’t want to break up but it makes me not want to be naked around him because Im insecure.

DJay_AUS · Accepted Answer

You should be comfortable with your body with a boyfriend. He should make you feel loved and accepted for who you are, not insecure or embarrassed. He does not deserve you or your respect. Tell him so and you will not accept dismissive don’t take it heart comments. Take the Alpha position, no compliments no nooky, tease him to the point he gets really horny and take it away, I don’t think you appreciate this fine piece of ass. Tell me how much you love me, my body, my perfectly petite breasts that kind of thing make me know you really want me... if he does not play along take it away. He will soon start crawling back and if not then just keep walking. Walk into someone else’s arms who will love you and your beauty.

Tuomaaash · Accepted Answer

He shouldn´t do that if it makes you feel uncomfortable. My first girlfriend had b-cups and I used to comment her boobs as well and it only lead to serious insecurity issues which ballooned and eventually we broke up (not just because of that obviously). If your guy is obsessed with big boobs, he should get a girl like that and not make you feel bad. One solution would be to watch porn together so he can fullfill his fantasy while being with you.

chopper1977 · Accepted Answer

First of all, that is most definitely not someone you need to be forming a relationship with... but you already know that I'm guessing. There are men out there who worship women's boobs in all shapes and sizes... even one's who prefer B cups. With the media, surgery, and everything else us women see on a daily basis, the last thing you need is a nasty piece of shit pointing out something that likely you would be insecure about anyhow. As if you wouldn't prefer his dick to be longer/fatter... when breaking up with him, I would point that little fact out ;)

unbrandedsouls · Accepted Answer

i say dump the hell out of him. 'jokes' can be extremely painful. he should love you for who you are, and like ed sheeran says he should 'love your curves and all your edges, love your perfect imperfections'. if he can't see that and if he keeps mocking you for it, as hard as it is I don't think he's The One. if he makes you feel insecure then somethings about it isn't right, a relationship should make you swell with happiness and feel amazing, not insecure.

JulieXO · Accepted Answer

He’s being an asshole. I would ask him to stop once more. If he doesn’t, try saying similarly hurtful things about his willy, maybe he’ll realize how bad it feels.

GingerGuy · Answer

Laugh at his dick! He's an asshole (sorry for the language). Ask him how he'd feel if you laughed at his penis and said "he had no penis", and then "don't take it to heart". Really? He's really inconsiderate, what else is he going to be inconsiderate about? I'd leave him.

ChaseParker · Answer

Break up with him. He's insensitive and not attracted to you and compares you to other women. He doesn't like you as you are and knowlingly and intentionally hurts your feelings unapologetically. If he doesn't like it, find a different guy who will. Trust me there are lots of guys that'd appreciate your boobs.

Anon70 · Answer

He's just fucking with you. He's saying it becuase he assumes you know it's not true. When he says it he means the opposite. Also men tend to prefer smaller breasts, even if they don't care to admit it. That's why shows like Game of Thrones feature smaller tits.

skeetskeetskeet · Answer

Next time he pulls his dick out just start busting up laughing and say "awww that's so cute, it looks like a penis only smaller" then when he's talking about big boobs start talking about guys with radiator pipes hanging... say I bet he's got 10 inches limp... You'll fuck with his head in no time

AydenHazor · Answer

If he's mocking your looks and comparing to others, my recommendation would be to break up. He's intentionally making you insecure, knowing that it hurts you, which is being a total jerk. There are plenty of guys who will appreciate you and your body as you are, there is no need to subject yourself to his B's.

Anonymous · Answer

If your boobs are small he may not be fully happy. It is not his fault. May be he cannot get a better girl than you. And if he is lucky enough to find another girl with asserts , you may be left stranded and no guys may like you because you are stubborn enough to know that you lack something.

Toonen1988 · Answer

What a immature guy, I would try to talk about it and if he didn't care well then he's probably not the guy for you. I can't believe that he says something like that to you. He hurt you and dont care about it?

Idontgetitatall · Answer

You can do exactly that - not be naked around him anymore because you are hurt. Make him understand that you too have feelings. TBH if he doesn't know it by now, he's a wrong one for you.

Muellerj947 · Answer

Smack him in the back of the head. He's being an idiot. He should care about you for you not for your breast size.  I've dated A's to DD. It's the person that matters not her bra size.

Ripper_E · Answer

Break up with him. A guy who cares about you would never criticize his girl so blatantly like that. He would also be happy with what you have. Even if he likes big boobs, he would be happy with what you have.

Gpapadakis · Answer

Next time he says that you got small boobs be immature and tell him it fits with your small dick😂🤷🤷

jamminvisible · Answer

That's so shitty, you don't need the kind of negativity in your life. There will be a guy out there that thinks your boobs are perfect. I personally like all tiddies.

Ariel1990 · Answer

what about his pee-pee... tell him that your 2 year old nephew has a bigger one.. and see his reaction...

EmmaMary · Answer

If he was to say this to me, my very first question would simply be, why are you with me then?

Imafreespirit · Answer

if he’s having a negative effect on your self esteem, I don’t see why you think this person is worth your time tbh.

MrSpine · Answer

Go talk to him and don't try it to make it as a joke. If he still does it, don't make fun of something of his because he might break up with you because of that trash talk

j90pih · Answer

Say he has a small dick and laugh at him? He'll realise soon Ps small boobs are fantastic!

xearo · Answer

You are with a guy that laughs at your boobs. You can do better.

BobbyC65 · Answer

Tell him his penis is two small with laughing and say small penis.

deanlarouche · Answer

He is an ass. I personally think b cup is perfect I'm not into big tits.. I would get rid of him.. if he can't except every part of you

Anonymous · Answer

Tell him to fuck right off because trust me there are plenty of men out there that will love you for who you are, boobs and all my dear...

Goochbreaker · Answer

Tell him well if I have no tits I guess you don't have to see em then and give him the cold shoulder

Solonas · Answer

If he refuses to take your feelings into account I'm afraid he may not respect you.

manhonji · Answer

He's not serious at all. I have one thing for u: Ask him what made him fall for u!!

Anonymous · Answer

Ha have you asked why he's with you and not that girls with big boobies?  He seems like a jerk for me, why you still with him tho?

zagor · Answer

It sounds like he is rather inconsiderate if he continues to make such comments.

Shihab-91 · Answer

Maybe he don't take it to the heart , but it still rude , show him your upset about it

CT_CD · Answer

Get a boob job. Anything under a C cup is unsatisfactory

dan_lauridsen · Answer

Suck his dick and titty fuck him. That will make him appreciate your boobs

Nandor · Answer

Thats something I would do but she would know that I love her flat chest

jirwin7979 · Answer

I like em small and i would slap him if i was u but than again iam body shy

SuccessfulHornDog · Answer

He sounds like a jerk

britpop · Answer

He's a douche nothing wrong with a b cup

aky4226 · Answer

Break up... Coz he ain't your type

LastNightmare · Answer

wow, you should let him suck them...

dimemak · Answer

Your boyfriend is an ass

josh08 · Answer

Leave him and Move on

JustGiveMeAUsername · Answer

No respecc

chrisbigman · Answer

He's immature.

Delroy1995 · Answer

Breakup and move on

Hungry_Shark · Answer

Move on

Prime_Sol · Answer

Implants.

cmango · Answer

Wow he's a dick.

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