and he's being a little passive-aggressive about wanting to hang out. he says he wants to then he won't reply for a while and I'll have to pursue and then finally he starts pursuing again.
i'm so sick of this game or whatever it is. we clearly stated before that we were interested in a relationship, but he said he wasnt sure about a label yet.
is he using me or what. I have no idea anymore and its pissing me off.
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I Think you should tell him how you feel.and tell him you like him and can not understand why you have been physical and he is yet to give you the label "Girlfriend".I think they could be good and bad in this situation.
The good is that since you are friends he wants to take the reltionship slowly and seriously so he doesn't ruin your friendship so whatever happens in the reltionship you will still be friends.
The bad is that he is just using you for the physical side of the relitionship and is not interested in a mature reltionship with you.
You should see if he changes his mind and gives you the label "girlfriend" soon.but if not you will have to tell him how you feel.
Good luck!. :)
Thank you, I know I will wait and see if he changes at all...and if not, I'll have to have a talk with him.