Relationship confusion?

[Cookiemurk]

I am in a relationship with my boyfriend. (Have been for almost 3 years) and just recently I have been having lucid dreams/thoughts about being with a female and not my boyfriend. I wouldn't cheat on him ever but I don't know if this makes me a bad person as I am bisexual. Please no negative comments either. Thanks.

[ChrisMaster69]

Everyone has dreams about strange stuff, stuff we would never do.

for example I know a girl that has dreams about a certain celebrity and various stuff happening, she knows it’s just a dream.

it’s when you start doing things that lead to a dream potentially becoming reality, that’s when it becomes wrong.

also those are really mild dreams

[IJhonnyI]

So your bi sexual and you have a boyfriend does your boyfriend know your bisexual?

[Cookiemurk]

Yes, he has known since before we started dating.

[IJhonnyI]

Your loyal?

[Cookiemurk]

Of course i'm loyal. I have never and would never cheat on my spouses.

[IJhonnyI]

Okay just keep that in mind, and no you are not a bad person don't think that, just don't give in, thoughts are just thoughts actions are what matters so keep doing what you know you have too do but just know if you are feeling like giving in and go try it with a girl please from a guy who's been cheated on break up with him first best thing too do if your planning on getting with anyone else just in general

[mandyfire98]

No it doesn't make you a bad person. We don't control our dreams. I've had lucid sex dreams before while I was in a relationship about other people. They're just dreams.

[citygirlxox]

Mabey it’s something you should bring up to him? About ur dream it’s possible that he wouldn’t mind, if u wanted to act on it

[Xtendable]

It doesn’t make you a bad person, it’s just your mind entertaining some of your desires

[Lyndsielee666]

Dreams don’t make you a bad person

[In_Trance]

I'm not sure what you're confused with

[Cookiemurk]

If I am a bad person for having these thoughts about wanting to be with a women/having relations with one.

[In_Trance]

If you had a dream where you were falling, would you be a bad person for going skydiving?

[Cookiemurk]

No, of course i've never had a dream like that.

[In_Trance]

Alright then