Should I tell my new boyfriend im a virgin?

[rylee_may]

So one my new boyfriend is my best friend who I told That I had feelings for him he felt the same way. The only problem is ik for a fact he has never dated a virgin and Ik some guys dont like to date virgins bc they r afraid they will get to clingy or whatever. What do u think I should do?

[aicarg]

Let him know. I made the poor choice of not letting my first boyfriend know I was still a virgin. My first time was not planned nor was I prepared to expect it to happen the way it did. No going into all details, we were both tipsy, protection was not used, and it wasn't the most pleasant feeling.

Thankfully he cared enough to be responsible, took plan B and made up for it after.

If you care to have a relationship with him, if things start to where the two of you begin to date, honesty is a good foundation to a healthy relationship.

[AmyReinx]

i think it will show his real self with it. either oh yeah first time get in bed rush it. or obviously show care and take his time. my first time he was really caring and never rushed and was fine with it.

might be just me but tell him during foreplay. seems the right time. again. might just be me there

[BadAssHunter]

Was he never a virgin? I don think you need to tell him unless you're planning on having sex with him.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yeah what would make a difference whether your a virgin or not
I would tell him i think he needs to know to put your mind at ease
This is bothering you and if he's a real man it wouldn't matter to him
I'm a Male virgin myself and if a Woman can't accept that well than
what will be, will be, I just chose never to have sex because i believe
in waiting for after marriage to have sex?

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yeah my body my decision my life., I rest my case

[PoliceLivesMatter]

Yes, tell him. You have nothing to lose by being transparent or honest, and if you believe him to be a quality person then you revealing you’re a virgin to him will not affect him negatively in any way. Actually, I personally would be ecstatic that the woman I really like/love has not had sex with another man.

[graybell84]

Tell him if you have a history together it will mean that the moment will be special for both of you. In its own time when its time to sare the experience he will bde more relaxed and make for a better experience together.

[ThePundertaker]

I think you should tell him. It’s not like a bad thing. Like if I knew it was her first time I’d try to make it better.

[Drumlin2001]

Be honest with him. It shouldn't be a big deal, and if it is then he's not a person you need in your life.

[blondfrog]

Your stupid for thinking that and whoever told you that doesn't know shit about guys. All men are deeply turned on being a girls first trust me. I repeat all guys as in I mean 100% of men.

[Markasaurous]

Well I want to wait for marriage and I am 18, so it really just depends who you meet.

[Sam19XX]

Its okay. Most actually prefer virgins (including me).

[oldoldold]

Be honest. If he dosent8 want your honesty. The find some one better

[LazyMan]

If it comes up. But if you tell him it may be like you are suggesting sex.

[Human-Name]

Just tell him that u are a Virgin... everything will Work out fine

[PrincessProtection]

Tell him when the subject of sex comes up

[babaganoosh]

Honesty is the best policy

[Nat_Ton]

Just be honest with him and see what he gonna say

[jdrrichmond]

Be honest, if you think it is relevant.

[York16]

Yeah tell him, he will be happy

[rapfan107]

Yup tell him nothing wrong with that. Be bones

[sarjoyarbo]

He must be a play boy

[Kandy-Kane]

Be honest with him

[reckless_7]

Yeah non offensive