My boyfriend told his friends about how I am in bed and about my kinks, what should I do? (Page 2)

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My boyfriend overheard me talking to my friends. We talked about our sex lifes.  It was just a friendly girl talk but he heard the things which were about him. I talked about his penis and about what he does in bed (positively, i love sex with him, he is the best I've had).  At this time i didn't knew that he heard it. Later, about 1 1/2 weeks later where he went out with his friends he talked with them about my sexual kinks. I am very kinky, my boyfriend never had a problem with it even if i sometimes get too kinky but he still likes it, and he told them about it. How i know about this? It seems like mybf did it on purpose, he knew i could hear it because i was in the room next to them.  So i know he did it to make me know how it feels. We got into an argument that night. He was angry at me, he told me to keep the things between us between us and that they are not anyone else fucking business. He apologized for telling his friends abut my kinks after the argument, since then he hasn't talked. What should i do? Was i in the wrong? How should i go about it now?

loveprince5683 · Answer

It is your private matter don't tell it to your friends but now as you did then both say sorry to each it just nothing just your mind's thinking. You are not only the one who shares her feelings with her best friend. Say sorry and finish this matter.

myselfandi35 · Answer

Yep you received what you put out sorry but you both messed up. Time to apologize and let it go. Good relationships are proven on trust and keeping stuff like that in your house as it where. Even arguments.

Anonymous · Answer

You sound just like my girlfriend! You tell all the intimate details of your relationship to your friends, that just makes the guy not want to talk with you or do anything new in bed.

aialex · Answer

What happened in bed, stays in bed. Or kitchen. Or even shower.

Switch365 · Answer

There are two people in this world those who like to share and those that don't. But to do it the way he did is childish he should have just spoken to you instead. Open communication is an essential key in any relationship.

TacosRAwesome · Answer

Maybe he thought it was OK to talk about your kinks since he overheard you talking about his sexual performance.

Disguise_AU · Answer

Be open about who you are. You shouldn't have to hide it.

THEMelon · Answer

It's only fair. You brag to your friends about his performance without his permission. He gets the same thing. Besides he probably only said good things.

Shivamkverma · Answer

He is not serious with u. So kick his ass & enjoy the life with boys. I will also give u extreme pleasure

chrisv · Answer

Oooooo. That’s a little... uh, weird. Guys don’t normally do that... unless the girl isn’t permanent... Wow. OK...

AWGriffin86 · Answer

I don't think that you were in the wrong, however, the whole situation should have been handled differently. He should have talked with you first before telling his buddies about what you like.

Yesnomaybe85 · Answer

You are officially a piece of meat  Congratulations

Anonymous · Answer

Sounds like he doesn't really care about you that much at all. Guys usually don't do that. Maybe they talk when the girl is of little importance to them.

pookybear123 · Answer

Wouldn’t bother me - they would be wishing their partners were more adventurous I’m sure.

perko94 · Answer

It's a normal thing for guys to do I always talk to my mate about stuff that happens and he does in return u talk to your girlfriends about ur sex life so guys can also?

Danny_dan92 · Answer

Don’t pretend like you didn’t tell your friends anything about his desires n kinks

uadarsh00 · Answer

offcourse u are wrong. be serious about ur sex life. dont share your experience with others. this is what u should hide from everyone.

LiteSkinGreenEyez · Answer

That's just what people do. I dont take it personal. Just depends on your partner, if their ohk with knowing you guys sex life

onlyonce · Answer

He should and you should both get over it... if he can't handle you bragging on him then he needs man up and realize. The possible benefits of you telling your girlfriends

Liisjak · Answer

If you think guys don't talk about how their gfs are in bed... you're so naive.

urBBC · Answer

Yes you were wrong. Learn from it and keep you trap shut about your sexual relations

the_sinner · Answer

Do nothing Because you just did the same thing and he's just copying it.

rmill121 · Answer

Well you did start it lol sounds like he did it for revenge and to show you how it feels

old-guys-rule · Answer

It would have been more mature of him to just confront you, rather than trying to get back at you.

Mikester100 · Answer

He probably just wants to brag about you.. aslong as he dosnt show his friends your thongs or anything, you shouldn't worry

rainbowheart64 · Answer

Just keep your sex lives to yourselves or accept the fact that u both wanna gossip to ur friends about it. People talk about their sex lives...

Anonymous · Answer

Rule of thumb: What happens in bedroom, stays in bedroom, its very personal.

Sabretooth · Answer

i'd say you were perfectly in the right to be angry

CuriousGeorge333 · Answer

Deny the whole thing if you are embarrassed. No one will believe him then

sherlock334 · Answer

Confront him about it, communication is what makes a relationship thrive

browncaroline999 · Answer

He did that to make me no how he feel, and to let is friends no that his girlfriend, she's hot and good

RohitDr · Answer

I think you should not think too much. It's common among boys. And everyone like sex

wakanda · Answer

Maybe that's his kink, either way dudes like to boast. It's not a big deal.

nickdell · Answer

I never talk to my friends about what goes on in my bedroom

ThePundertaker · Answer

You had it coming Just saying...

Anonymous · Answer

I would have sex with him, ride that man like he is a horse

TonyaOrtega · Answer

That’s So uncool! Dump him

Anonymous · Answer

choose boyfriend more carefully next time?

hellacray · Answer

Yup you were wrong. It's as simple as that.

ShadowGamer · Answer

Sounds like you can dish it but can't take it.

PresidentEvil999 · Answer

You're both in the wrong.

Defboy69 · Answer

Just wait for him to come out of his cave.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

You both are sorely immature.

shycuriousguy · Answer

Dump him he is imature

sp33d · Answer

Guys do that, don't worry.

PolitesaurusPecs · Answer

You both messed up...

coolans880 · Answer

Apologise to make things better.

joeorjackorjim · Answer

Kill him. Kill him now!!

christiannji · Answer

It's to bald you have tell hem something

Carloshasaps4 · Answer

Tell him to stop if ur uncomfortable

mobilert123 · Answer

Did he say something to you about this?

shep0612 · Answer

See if any of them want to play.

Anonymous · Answer

He should have left you.

duke102ab · Answer

You did the same

YingKim · Answer

Embarrassing 😳

guri5894 · Answer

Break up with him

Sigvald · Answer

He is right

Taruxo · Answer

Avoid him

mactallica · Answer

All guys do this.

AbbasO · Answer

It's natural

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