How do I tell him his penis is small n he's not satisfying me sexually?

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Dating this guy few weeks n his penis is small, its actually smallest I've had. Am not superficial n dont care about size but have never been with a guy this small. Sex is not really good n its effecting our relationship. He knows something is wromg. Do i tell him his penis is small n he's not satisfying me sexually? To top it off he asked me do u think my penis is small n i said no its prefect size as we do so how do i tell him now it's not? he's gonna get mad cause i wasn't honest. he's a really sweet guy n i love being with him but am sexually frustrated. Has anyone else been in this situation? How did u handle it?

Jjpayne · Accepted Answer

Wow... just wow... How does one handle this? This is a very unique situation. I suppose it would start with do you love him? How much do you love him? Does the love you have for him surpass your sexual experience with him? Would you be sad to see him go or could you switch to another person easily? Would you consider keeping him as a friend? These are all important questions to answer. There are different things at stake. If you need to move on, then you should do so gently. I think the best way is imagine if a guy was leaving you for having small breasts and a small butt (clearly important parts of female attractiveness) to a guy his penis is those parts. How would you like a guy to let you down from that? This is clearly something that will effect the rest of his life after you. It is hard to know exactly how to let him down. I only know how hard it would be to hear that about me coming from another girl. It's almost like a death sentence. I don't envy your position. Again, just try and be as gentle as you can. You don't want to be caught in this but you don't want to be the bearer of bad news either. As I write this I am not sure if I have said anything helpful or not. It is a tough thing to bring up and hopefully one of us guys will give something you can use...

madgoat · Accepted Answer

Next time he asks, and/or away from the bedroom, discuss it in completely non emotional, very practical, matter of fact terms.
As you know I adore you, we have this problem, it's something we can work around, here's what I want you to do (and you'll like it).
If he feels he's satisfying you, and you do too, your relationship will bloom.

Some_Goof · Accepted Answer

First of, don't say you aren't superficial and don't care about size when all you're doing is complain about size, being hypocritical.

In my opinion you shouldn't tell him the truth when you already lied about it. Break up, or do something extra to spice things up, you can get kinky if you want.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Telling him that his penis is too small for you is not going to make it any bigger, so what's the point. If you decide to break up with him, you shouldn't tell him the real reason, because it would destroy his confidence completely.

MsLoli · Accepted Answer

I wouldn't tell him that. It's really insensitive and he can't do anything about it. Instead, just introduce toys into the bedroom to assist. If he needs an explanation, you can just say you're kinky.

modeve · Accepted Answer

Tell him to try different positions and meanwhile point it out politely to him that you are not getting enough penetration that satisfies you. Intelligent guy must get the point.

GingerGuy · Answer

Why do you have to tell him this? You don't. Can he not satisfy you in other ways? Work on that by talking about it with him. Tell him what you'd like and don't like. But there's no need to insult him or hurt his feeling like that. How would you feel if it was reversed?

Celtero · Answer

Just entice him into doing other things, rather than PiV sex, that will will satisfy you. It's not like he can grow his penis after you tell him, but he can do other things to get you off. Or, just break up with him for someone bigger.

johndugan11 · Answer

y'all! Be careful with things like this. you all need to get yourself a penis care product... if it works, it works great for all. good luck. find one that has vitamin c, by the way. Man1 Man Oil is the greatest.

Anonymous · Answer

If its that big of a problem, you have a difficult decision. You can either end the relationship or risk completely crushing his self-esteem by addressing it directly. I wouldn't recommend suggesting toys under false pretense. Even if you buy an average-sized toy, he's gonna know why

madhatters4 · Answer

just break up with him. what's the point of bringing up something to him he has no control over. it can only sting. so since you are unsatisfied break up and tell him you just want something else

herguy · Answer

Buy bigger toys and use them with him? You can just say you wanna do double-penetration so you feel stretched and his ego isn't hurt. Or you're into anal, tell him you want the big one inside you while he can do you anally or something.

1CentWorth · Answer

"How do I tell him his penis is small n he's not satisfying me sexually?" OMG  You don't! Jesus! wtf

wildrose27 · Answer

There’s more ways to have fun in bedroom if he is small and you like him like you can use for example toys I’m sure he knows he is a smaller guy and you shouldn’t hurt his feelings either if you like him there is always a way !

jirwin7979 · Answer

did you know it only takes 4 inchs to hit the gspot... so in realaity size shud not really matter but iam a very rare kind of guy

smt133 · Answer

If you want to break up with him, tell him. If you want a better sex life, suggest trying some things you like or take the lead.

valualty · Answer

His... can be enlarged but your loss bucket can be tightened consider squats and avoid playing with over sized toys 😂

You_Cant_See_Me · Answer

Ohhhhh so penis size DOES matter after all. Interesting...

CT_CD · Answer

Why are you asking this question if you're not superficial and don't care about size?

Catholicgirl22 · Answer

By a PowerPoint presentation

Anonymous · Answer

Masturbate in front of him with a big dildo... when he asks why are you doing that. Tell him yours is too small for my pussy to feel it.

CarlosF · Answer

With a good dessert. Banana splits are delicious

Pink2000 · Answer

Just tell him you aren’t satisfied

vald9inches · Answer

Tell him that its not you but its all him! lol

MeGo99 · Answer

Do you wanna break up with him?

Anonymous · Answer

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