Does anybody else in a long term relationship miss flirting and being in love? (Page 2)

Question

Just wondering if something has gone completely wrong in my relationship, or if this is a normal feeling for people to have.

I have been with my SO for almost 7 years now, and I love him, but sometimes I just really miss feeling in love and all excited. I hope this makes sense.

Do you think this is a sign we should call it quits? Or should we go see a therapist? Or is it normal and I should just learn to live with these feelings?

twisters · Answer

i think its normal 7 years and nothing changes no marriage no kids nothing. life is in development i think only routine make u feel that. anyway i hope u feel again love as forst time and have happy life as u dream

outside_Toronto · Answer

For sure.  Which is why people are online... flirt all they want and then shut it off and go back to their regular life

rhonlovable · Answer

You should try doing something new in life which might bring in excitement

Anonymous · Answer

It’s normal.

Wanting to start a new relationship all the time is why people don’t stick together anymore. They’re always chasing the high of a new relationship instead of building a relationship up.

OralMayhem · Answer

Haven't you ever heard of the seven year itch? You start missing the excitement of dating at 7 years.

Lyka20 · Answer

You're missing those kinds of feelings with him maybe because your relationship changed already. Many of the relationship when years passed by changed, thats why you want to feel it again.

Pizza_lover159 · Answer

I think you two should start to comunicate better and tell what you want and need. Its nothing wrong

jasco · Answer

its normal sesne it a long distance relationship u can't really do anything

Anonymous · Answer

My ex thought I was cheating and said she would get revenge this morning she text me sum pics but I think they r photoshopped how can I tell

rahul_24 · Answer

If you miss it then rekindled the love. Do candle light dinner, romantic drive etc..

Fuentes · Answer

If u wanna be single be single i never miss that don't be a hoe

RebeccaSJ · Answer

We're very much in love. But yes, flirting is kind of fun.

metalfist · Answer

Its normal to get that feeling after some time being together. You can try to overcome it by fe. Planning dates again and having romantic evenings

jimmyjamws · Answer

Yes we all miss it and it is om to flirt just dont act on cause yoh will lose the onlh thing in yiur life that does matter

Anonymous · Answer

You're a female, which means you inevitably will get bored of any guy, no matter how well he treats you.

Anonymous · Answer

If you are asking if you both should go see a therapist or not. Then you should call it quits in my opinion.

thomasans2 · Answer

Should always feel stimulated in a relationship or it goes bad

WittyCaptain · Answer

Yes, can miss flirting and falling in love in long term relationship

uglytrevor · Answer

I just separated from my wife of about 10 years for that exact issue. It was mutual

icepoler1977 · Answer

Not really but I have to say whoever your so is is very lucky. U r hot

Anonymous · Answer

I have been in a relationship for four years and i experience it too.. but i still know i love him. Because i love coming home to him

KatherineJ · Answer

We still flirt with each other.

DD1994 · Answer

Uggghh I prefer single and random sex lol

Confidenceoverload · Answer

You and him have to spice it up

Anonymous · Answer

This is the reason I don't do relationships

sam_anton · Answer

Can u share your everything with me like flirting

anuragk033 · Answer

Do you have kids?

lazermazer · Answer

It’s not love then.

Sophia91 · Answer

It’s normal

Anonymous · Answer

I miss it 😞

james_mark · Answer

Call it a day

shorty1221 · Answer

Yes and no

zzzqqqqeedd · Answer

It's normal

p1212 · Answer

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