Should I give my boyfriend a key to my place? (Page 2)

[Zenurus]

If u need to ask, then no. U should not.
If u trust him then u do. None can ask others about that.
Symbolic meaning.. it is what it is. A key to a or many a door. But if u decide it has a deeper meaning then let HIM know and understand it. Not guess.

[JeremyN]

Shit can happen even when you're living together... 🙄

[Asker]

True

[JeremyN]

Wtf I wanted to reply to another opinion

[Asker]

Lol.

[Ellaki]

Sure just make sure he's not going to make your place his place anytime soon

[UnstableCraft]

Make it romantic and special and he'll appreciate it.

[PoliceLivesMatter]

If you’re missing some thongs, you now would know the culprit.

[Finchie40]

If you love and trust him then I don't see anything wrong with it , it's shows him that you have nothing to hide , and giving it to him as a gift I think would be a sweet gesture

[TheRedLemon]

You should give him your extra key from the razer keyboard but unless you live with him then no, hell no. You could break up at any point and you don`t know how violent it might be.

[GetNaeNaed]

No, It's stupid. Once you give the key to him it belongs to him now, not you. You can't change your mind and say "I want the key back". Not only that but he can let himself in whenever, if he wants to steal stuff or look through stuff, most notably clothing (underwear) and masturbate with your underwear, he can. Jealous guys would do the same, but search your house from head to toe. If you do trust him then whatever, give him the key. If you do give him the key don't make it special, it's a dam key. If I had a girlfriend I would never give her my fucking keys I don't trust no one in my house my mind would go crazy "Is she stealing stuff "Is she going through my clothing" "Is she messing with my PC", etc.

[Asker]

Damn. So sad you would even date someone you think is capable of those things.

[Asker]

I hope one day you get into a relationship with a good person that truly loves and respects you.

[GetNaeNaed]

Anyone that I end up dating will love, respect me, and the rest of the cringy ass dating cliche shit. That was a dumbass reply. Anyone that I date ain't capable of owning any of my shit.

[GetNaeNaed]

If your so supportive of people being capable of things just because you date them, then your boyfriend has full acess to your money, life, etc.

[Asker]

We actually do share money and are completely invested in each other's lives. As I said, I truly hope one day you meet someone you can share your life with, too.

[Josh13]

Only if you truly trust him. Don't make it a huge gesture. Giving it to him is enough for him to understand you trust him. Say something special about giving it to him. That's all you have to do.

[Ki_Wavy]

tbh, if you have to question and debate and ask other people, the answer is that you're not exactly ready.

[Sr_Preet]

Well if you do trust him then just do it.
It will make your relationship even stronger than ever before.
And also i think that it doesn't really matter that if you make it special or not it is as you said a symbol of your trust on him😊.

[theflash675]

You should put the key in a cake you
Made for him let's just hope he doesn't break his teeths

[depeche2015]

i'd never give someone a key to my house unless we lived together.

[Asker]

Why not?

[Dartzlink]

That's obvious: shit happens.
If something goes bad in the relationship, you'll surely regret giving him the keys... Some people are really freaks when ejected...

[Asker]

I can easily ask for them back or get the locks changed

[Dartzlink]

Changing locks is not cheap.
Anyway, as depeche said, I'd only give the keys if we're living together.

[Asker]

"cheap" is a very relative word

[anacafas89]

It depends how many time you date him and how its ur relationship with him. If you really trust him you can give but do not forget that is the keys of your house, u sleep there all night, it's your place and you can he can enter wherever he want.

[Ellie-V]

This is your life we’re talking about. Doesn’t make sense to take such a huge leap if you have to question it.. just my opinion.

[Zak_Viel]

I've done it before and it was more practical. I had no problems though...

[MimiHashima]

I couldn’t do it if we weren’t married, and they don’t believe it’s a good idea either..

[mrphil007]

Yes, if you trust him, but make sure he can't keep it if you one day decide he should not be allowed inside anymore

[HungLikeAHorsefly]

Yeah but make sure your side Chad knows when he's home

[empyrean_luca]

Often times this is a purely symbolic choice, other times pragmatic. My first girlfriend gave me a key to her apartment which I never used when she was there, but kept handy if there was an emergency or to feed her fish when she went on work trips.