Do confident people attract other confident people?

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Do insacure people attract other insacure people?

Engageme · Accepted Answer

My experience has been that I attract insecure people from friends to coworkers to strangers to lovers lol. I'm highly confident but also highly humble and I have always attracted people who needed my strength. They are shy, lack self esteem, lack a voice, etc. I find it exhausting at times because they come and gain my strength but do not give me anything in return so they drain me. I had to learn to shield myself from them. To set boundries and demand something in return. When I needed someone they all got upset because I was supposed to be their strength and here I am asking them to be mine. I was too caring. I learned. I'm my own strength and if you need me sometimes I'm there but you will not hang on to me and allow me to carry you through life. You are not my burden to bare. Get off my tail and walk on your own lol.

nubianqueen704 · Accepted Answer

Opposite normally. im Pretty quiet and introverted yet I attract the loud, flamboyant, cocky guys.

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

Confident people attract everyone (to some extent), while insecure people may attract others for other reasons (looks, brains, etc.), insecurity is a negative to nearly everyone except abusers.

An abuser will seek out the insecure, because they will be far less likely to resist, report the abuse, or otherwise cause problems that the abuser can't manage.

ManFrom1982 · Accepted Answer

I think confident people tend to attract everybody because confidence is an attractive quality. Insecure people, on the other hand, tend to form co-dependent "relationships" that are based around having someone that will listen to them complain.

Logorithim · Answer

They attract all types because their confidence is attractive to others.

Lance1965 · Answer

There does seem to be some truth to that. A lot of people get the partners they deserve, meaning they attract a certain kind of person because of the way they are as individuals. If you keep on attracting the wrong people it is time to change yourself and your game.

ATuairiscean · Answer

I think there is a bit of opposites attract/compliment each other dynamic - Two confidents may battle for the dominant role in a relationship and two insecures may battle for the submissive role in a relationship

wingattebaby16 · Answer

I think so I feel confident people attract insecure people since the confident person acts as a Rock In The Storm for the other person

Philyouup · Answer

Confident people general make lots of friends. Of all varieties. People with a lack of confidence may be attracted to confident people in order find their own. MHO

Myk13 · Answer

Confidence is like honey. It’s good have, it attracts others, everybody wants it, if you’re around it long enough you’re bound to get some on you. Best of all, it never goes bad.

hindril · Answer

From what I noticed, insecure people are attracted to confident people cause they like the confidence they have. Also confident people are attracted to confident people.

puffynips · Answer

I feel opposites attract, the yen yang of attraction.

ImSoSquishy · Answer

i seem to mostly attract weird, awkward, and/or shy random people

nasty4fun · Answer

Probably often insecure and weak will congregate around someone who seems more so. Imagine being lost and seeing someone who know where they. are going. It's kinda like that I think

iskg679 · Answer

I do believe in the law of attraction.

adamski24 · Answer

I believe this to be true but I also think opposites attract as well so I'm the worst person to ask.

bklynbadboy1 · Answer

I think so cuz if you have somebody and they're only a game they make you bring your A-game so yeah I definitely think confident people attract confident people

DiegoO · Answer

Hmmm, I don't think so, I think is the opposite. Confident people attracts people with no to little confidence.

Edimilson504 · Answer

No I think confident people attract insecure people for dominance

genericname85 · Answer

confident people attract all sorts of people. other confident people are undoubtably among those.

Anonymous · Answer

COnfident people attract everyone, insecure people attract nobody, take it from someone who used to be shy and is now confident

MouthfulofDiamonds · Answer

Yes but is often not a good match because both of them have strong personalities

Anonymous · Answer

I think everyone is attracted to confident people, even shy people On the contrary, when you're shy, they tell you to be confident

Riichy · Answer

Yes I think very much so unless your just looking for someone to guide you through life

serious · Answer

Most likely but not a given.

Frankenstein99 · Answer

People don't walk around with labels on them.

Beautiful-Creation · Answer

I believe opposites do attract so not always.

ultimega · Answer

All kinds to be honest.

motownplayer2000 · Answer

Probably. Miserable loves company and all that

sidzyyy · Answer

Sometimes a little bit..

RIVERTAY888 · Answer

l would say yes they do

TonyMetal86 · Answer

It depends...

ChocolateCheesecake · Answer

Mayhaps

winterfox10 · Answer

Yes, absolutely.

facialhair27 · Answer

no, they don't

Slim57 · Answer

It seems like it

Anonymous · Answer

Maybe

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