Times change. Plus, a lot of us are broke-ass college students with no way to pay for fancy dates and expensive meals. Perhaps I'm in the minority for thinking this, but I'd rather just spend quality time with someone, excessive spending notwithstanding.
There are guys like this that still exist. I recently dated a guy who was wooing me the entire time. You just gotten find those specific ones. It also depends on how their parents raised them. If they were raised to always put the effort into it. There are too many weak men who hate all women. Like they are made of glass and need to be babied.
Nope. Not why. Women overwhelming treat 'courting' as a casual endeavor anymore. With so many being hell bent on going dutch, they insist on someplace simple/casual. You are shooting yourselves in your own foot. Frankly I would pick nicer places because I just prefer nicer places, but that option started to wain several years ago.
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We`re unappreciated now a days.
Don`t you see it every time you go on social media? men are trash men are trash men are trash.
Well, then trash we are, and hence is why we don`t put in much effort anymore and what not.
I court, but I test the waters during the first few dates with nothing fancy just to make sure she is interested in me and not what she thinks she can get from me.
But, yes, most guys like the path of least resistance so with hookup culture rampant, most men see no need to court a lady.
I would like to disagree. While the perception is society is moving towards a Tinder generation, there are still many examples of traditional values when it comes to dating and will be for years to come.
Well I’m a girl who still values tradition and I also attract guys willing to date properly. I think you just need to maintain standards and you’ll eventually meet them. I know a lot of people aren’t like that but then you wouldn’t want them anyway right?
Fancy? Expensive? Expects me to pay because I am a man? I'd just tell her to fuck off and leave. I'm not wasting my time or energy on some selfish greedy woman that thinks that way.
I prefer Netflix and chill over fancy, expensive dates. Both can be romantic but I still prefer Netflix and chill maybe its because I'm young. I want to be in his arms the whole night while watching our favorite Disney movies.
Why does a man have to "woo" the woman and spend money on expensive meals. I thought you women wanted equal rights how about you take a man out and woo him for a change
hear hear! I have lush man boobs and a penis! A really sexy penis ;) yah ladies, I'll even give a nice little treat, a little strip dance. Just treat this man nice and i'll give ya a good show. I was born a man with a penis and manboobs, I deserve a nice meal and maybe... maybe... I'll give ya desert for it later ;)
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Times change. Plus, a lot of us are broke-ass college students with no way to pay for fancy dates and expensive meals.
Perhaps I'm in the minority for thinking this, but I'd rather just spend quality time with someone, excessive spending notwithstanding.
Because nobody has the time or money for that bullshit anymore.
There are guys like this that still exist. I recently dated a guy who was wooing me the entire time. You just gotten find those specific ones. It also depends on how their parents raised them. If they were raised to always put the effort into it. There are too many weak men who hate all women. Like they are made of glass and need to be babied.
So were you also raised to put the effort in?
@AllThatSweetJazz ye
And in what ways does that manifest?
Nope. Not why. Women overwhelming treat 'courting' as a casual endeavor anymore. With so many being hell bent on going dutch, they insist on someplace simple/casual. You are shooting yourselves in your own foot. Frankly I would pick nicer places because I just prefer nicer places, but that option started to wain several years ago.
We`re unappreciated now a days.
Don`t you see it every time you go on social media? men are trash men are trash men are trash.
Well, then trash we are, and hence is why we don`t put in much effort anymore and what not.
I court, but I test the waters during the first few dates with nothing fancy just to make sure she is interested in me and not what she thinks she can get from me.
But, yes, most guys like the path of least resistance so with hookup culture rampant, most men see no need to court a lady.
That's probably why they make such a big deal over the ones waiting for marriage
Because women always playing hard to get and men getting tires of chasing them lol
And Netflix is life
I would like to disagree. While the perception is society is moving towards a Tinder generation, there are still many examples of traditional values when it comes to dating and will be for years to come.
I’m not wasting my money on expensive dinners/dates 😂😂
Feminism has made the entire male female dynamic poison.
The pink downvotes make me laugh. Haha
Take some responsibility for your actions for christ sake. Feminism is a cancer.
Well I’m a girl who still values tradition and I also attract guys willing to date properly. I think you just need to maintain standards and you’ll eventually meet them. I know a lot of people aren’t like that but then you wouldn’t want them anyway right?
Fancy? Expensive? Expects me to pay because I am a man?
I'd just tell her to fuck off and leave. I'm not wasting my time or energy on some selfish greedy woman that thinks that way.
I tried that, you know what happened? I got rejected every time and one woman called me a creep.
Feminists told us to leave women alone and to check our privalige plus aren't worth it nowadays bunch of entitled thots times have changed
I do, but I am British, and your age, find me a woman who wants to be courted and court her I shall 😁
Many of those women are the same ones that jump after receiving a 'netflix and chill' text at 3am in the morning...
This is true.
I prefer Netflix and chill over fancy, expensive dates. Both can be romantic but I still prefer Netflix and chill maybe its because I'm young. I want to be in his arms the whole night while watching our favorite Disney movies.
Court women? Is this a serious question?
Why does a man have to "woo" the woman and spend money on expensive meals. I thought you women wanted equal rights how about you take a man out and woo him for a change
hear hear! I have lush man boobs and a penis! A really sexy penis ;) yah ladies, I'll even give a nice little treat, a little strip dance. Just treat this man nice and i'll give ya a good show. I was born a man with a penis and manboobs, I deserve a nice meal and maybe... maybe... I'll give ya desert for it later ;)
Cause everyone just wants to fuck duh no one has time for that
Which is a sad state of affairs.
Well times have changed
Some do. Most either can't afford it or would rather choose quality time over quantity of money spent