My boyfriend of 2 years told me he now "can't promise me anything"?

[Anonymous]

We are in a very stressed situation. He's in a transition phase between college and career. I'm still in school. Aaaaand we're long distance and can't visit each other anymore since he moved back home (too far and money is tight). He used to tell me all the time before graduating university that we would be together afterward, and that we would be happy. Of course being naive and in love is great and wonderful until reality hits hard. He can't find a job and isn't a citizen, so if he can't find one, he'll have to leave. Now he says he can't promise me anything, but that he's working to secure his future so that being with me is a "possibility". I know "I can't promise you anything" is a really blunt, straight-forward thing to say, but then what do I do with that information? I feel so lonely and have feared that someone as great as him would leave me eventually.

[anametouse]

Eh. Well for one get him off that pedestal. And two people make shit work for people they care about

[Asker]

I don't know any time I start talking about it he gets all upset and says I'm "pressuring" him. His family situation is not the best right now and they push him and pressure him and like, I'm not trying to do the same thing. I just want to know if he still wants to be with me.

[anametouse]

Doesn't sound like he is committed any more. Might be time to prepare for your loss, I know that's not what you want to hear, but if he truly cares, he'd be scared to lose you

[Asker]

i'd rather have your answer than an answer that was beating around the bush lol. thanks

[anametouse]

Anytime lady fam

[Saurav11]

Be prepared mentally for worst.

[Asker]

What do yo mean?

[Saurav11]

Means ur chapter close in his life.