Lara, In my opinion, based on my and my friends experience, the only way you have ANY slim chance of finding a guy that only finds you attractive, is to find a guy now that is looking for his first love. And then keep him. Young men love harder. When I was a teenager, I was obsessed with my first girlfriend, so much that it left me emotionally unstable. This was a major complaint of my ex. I would start crying when things weren't perfect. When she broke my heart, it took me 1 1/2 years to overcome it. And I have seen this happen to so many other young guys as well. Young men love harder, because they have not yet put up with heartbreak and women's crap. I wish my young relationship had lasted. I would have been shielded from so much garbage that I have seen from women over the years.
When I rebuilt myself, I made myself an emotional rock, and got much stronger self confidence. I hung around with a divorced woman in my 20's who taught me how to be a man.
I was committed to being a virgin until my wedding day, and am totally faithful. Yet, even though my wife sexually satisfies me, I do have fantasies. And I do find other women attractive.
You are asking for something that is not natural for a man. Men find attraction with their eyes.
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I am always loyal regardless of what relationship i've been in... i was accused by my first ex of cheating and when they even said it infront of a room full of people who know me... they all pointed out how deranged and silly she was for even considering thinking about that... funny part was she ended up cheating on me for a year before ending it, also there was a lad she became quite close to before the one she left me for... and he was trying to get her to leave me and talk her into taking my kids from me (2 kids at the time) but he had to approach the house absolutely drunk as hell, cos he thought it would make a difference lol
If you expect to be in a relationship with a man and expect him to not find others attractive or being turned on by others, then I expect you are in for a whole life of disappointment. It is unrealistic and unfair to expect this.
Why does it bother you so much? Him being turned on by someone or something other than you does not take away from what he feels for you? Why do you think it does? What do you fear about it?
according to this i’m not loyal, bc i do find other men attractive still while in a relationship. but i wouldn’t ever cheat or even think about cheating on my partner. if you’re looking for someone who doesn’t find other people attractive when they’re in a relationship than you need to get a little more realistic.
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Still married after 24 years and this summer will make it 25 years. We will renew our vows and the original wedding party.
I’m am a good person. When I’m with someone, I’m 100% loyal.
Looking at it realistically, noone is that "perfect". I can't imagine anyone being completely devoted to one person with no sexual thoughts or similar for others.
I'm single but if I had a girlfriend I'd live with her whole of my life n will always love n respect her ☺️
Bra the way woman cheat as well. as well as lying too. When I was talking to my boyfriend abs he said thar her his ex girlfriend all cheated on hi, before I met him. Wouldn’t date you at all. I stick to my boyfriend
I am genuinely looking for a faithful everlasting loving relationship.
OMG, I just read this question and all of your responses here and you come off as a complete douche. What is wrong with you?
I can say that I am if that's what you mean by 'good'. Always been into monogamy.
I'm a bit of a unicorn. I'm 100% loyal to my SOs, and it takes me a long-ass time to get over a bad relationship.
I am always loyal. ONE man and ONE woman is the right kind of relationships
I'm 100% loyal if I'm with someone
You're naive if you buy people self-reporting themselves as "good" and loyal.
I am a good man
You really cannot comtrol fantasy...
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I was raised to be loyal to only one woman
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