My man you hit the jack pot with this one. She has chosen the potential she sees in you over shitty present you. But mark my words of you don’t get your shit together the moment another guy with both present and future potential shows up your girl will dump you faster than you can sneeze.
Omg did you not read what he said? He listeralky said one of the things she was talking about was when she tells him to go to work and he doesn't. Obviously she's tried to talk to him about it before and sick of him not listening
U want to change, I can help u. First cut your credit cards They only tempt u more. Then clean the place u stay and put everything together and go to work. If ur games distract u, keep them aside or ask someone else to keep it for you. Wear a clean set of clothes and go straight to work and take overtime and extra hours, if u don't have time to laze around, u won't be able to be lazy so...
You have confessed that you watch basketball all night and are just plain lazy, work 3 days a week apart from other things like not keen where earning money is concerned. How long can you go on like this? This Is an extremely bad habit, you are lucky your girlfriend has supported and helped you so far. Please give up this bad habit right now, from this moment. Act now before you lose everything !
Forget what she talked, maybe she thought she'll help you ONCE, but not ALL the time. You are a adult now, be self sufficient and work hard, you have your whole life in front of you. Don't be dependent on anyone. Also it is not at all manly to live off a woman's earnings !
No. It seems to me like you were spot on before - she’s spoiled you. And now you’re taking full advantage of her generosity instead of giving some back.
@KevinUrkal1 you literally said yourself that she spoils you and that you don't get up and go to work because you're lazy and she said that you call out for stupid reasons. You only work 3 days a week, you have a full 4 days to be lazy. I work 6 days a week. Stop being lazy and making her do everything. Put some effort into things, show her you can change.
Okay? She's still doing it and you are still taking her for granted. She's going to leave if you don't get your shit together. She is clearly more than fed up and her putting up with you until this point practically makes her a saint. You have an amazing woman on your hands are you really going to lose her because you're lazy?
And don't bring up the whole "she talked behind my back" bullshit. She didn't. She's fed up, tried, frustrated and angry. She needed someone to vent too. She loves you, it is very obvious from everything she has done for you but you don't appreciate it at all.
She's right, go get a better job, they're out there. I've worked construction 12 hour days at hard labor, you don't need to do that but you can at least work a solid 8 hour at a hotel or something. You'll lose at life if you don't man up.
You won't get anywhere and you'll lose what you have. She'll move on, you'll go broke, you've already had to pawn your video game. If you can't find a better job ask her for some advice, she seems to have money so she probably knows how to get it. If her family is rich one of them might point you to a good job.
If you choose A, you can also squeeze in a job app per week and hopefully find some better job in a few months. If you're currently working, you'll look better to future employers.
She don't sound like your girlfriend she sounds likes your mother, why should another adult beg another adult to work? Why would you call out you're an adult you need to keep a good realtionship with your job, if your girl woulda told me you was bumming like that i would been had her suck and fucking me, time to be a man and get money or lose her bruh
Well its like what you said yourself she's an awesome girfriend that does everything for you and you wish you can do more for her but now that you hear her actually saying wishes you can do more for yourself you got defensive you know what's exactly wrong man its you're choice if you want to better yourself for the one you love or do nothing she clearly loves you and we always want to see people we love succeed
She loves you man! She sound like an amazing girl and you will lose her if you don't get your act together! Do it for youself, for her and for your future. Stop being lazy and work more. You know what you have to do. Do it!
She regards you as a 'fix up'er. She aspires you will do better as you do her. But you're not trying, and you're costing her money. Some say she'll likely want a family.
She should not be funding your lifestyle. That's on her. You fulfil even some of her aspirations for you. She may just love you forever. And get more sleep. Nothing works when you're tired.
So what happened? You're a little boy in a grown man's body, and you're here whining about it. Who's responsible for this? Who's job is it to fix it? What's it gonna take for you to get your shit together and start being an actual grown man?
You sit around playing video games and watching basketball, won't get up and go to work, and apparently feel no shame in treating your girlfriend like she's your mommy, and then get mad and whine that she's telling the truth "behind your back".
I don't see what the question is. Sounds like your girlfriend said everything that needed to said and that you needed to hear. Get your lazy ass act together or be prepared to lose the best thing in your life
She's trying to help you and it's frustrating to her since you're not doing much to solve your own problems. She wants the best for you, but how can she help you if you won't even help yourself.
Please do your best friend cause you’re lucky to have a girl who supports you in your bad time so it’s up to you to show her good time work hard it’ll totally be worth it take my words for that
Get off your ass and stop freeloading off your girlfriend buddy. You're lucky she's still fucking you and hasn't kicked your ass into touch. I'm saying this in a loving way. 😊
I'm not sure I understand what you are asking here. It seems like she has spoken her peace; she wants you to get off your butt and build a base for yourself.
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My man you hit the jack pot with this one. She has chosen the potential she sees in you over shitty present you. But mark my words of you don’t get your shit together the moment another guy with both present and future potential shows up your girl will dump you faster than you can sneeze.
I was thinking about dumping her she’s the one who didn’t come and talk to me she’s rather talk behind my back
Women always avoid confrontation.
You should definitely dump her for talking behind your back Asker, she clearly doesn't appreciate you 👍
Omg did you not read what he said? He listeralky said one of the things she was talking about was when she tells him to go to work and he doesn't. Obviously she's tried to talk to him about it before and sick of him not listening
@Lauren-green I think dragon is being sarcastic here lol
@Nonbinary I'm not sure, he's commented on a few opinions saying to dump her 🤗
@LAUREN he is low key doing the girl a favor tbh
@Nonbinary haha very true 😂
I am trying my best you guys
Lmao Dragon you are a real savage
U want to change, I can help u. First cut your credit cards
They only tempt u more. Then clean the place u stay and put everything together and go to work. If ur games distract u, keep them aside or ask someone else to keep it for you. Wear a clean set of clothes and go straight to work and take overtime and extra hours, if u don't have time to laze around, u won't be able to be lazy so...
You have confessed that you watch basketball all night and are just plain lazy, work 3 days a week apart from other things like not keen where earning money is concerned. How long can you go on like this? This Is an extremely bad habit, you are lucky your girlfriend has supported and helped you so far. Please give up this bad habit right now, from this moment. Act now before you lose everything !
But she talks like i forced or asked her to
Forget what she talked, maybe she thought she'll help you ONCE, but not ALL the time. You are a adult now, be self sufficient and work hard, you have your whole life in front of you. Don't be dependent on anyone. Also it is not at all manly to live off a woman's earnings !
Sounds like you should take her words into consideration and reevaluate your lifestyle choices. She seems like she’s just about had enough of you.
I hit a hardship financially and she’s taken the opportunity to turn her back on me
No. It seems to me like you were spot on before - she’s spoiled you. And now you’re taking full advantage of her generosity instead of giving some back.
How did she spoil me? I still get up and go to work
@KevinUrkal1 you literally said yourself that she spoils you and that you don't get up and go to work because you're lazy and she said that you call out for stupid reasons. You only work 3 days a week, you have a full 4 days to be lazy. I work 6 days a week. Stop being lazy and making her do everything. Put some effort into things, show her you can change.
@ciitruskiwi her spoiling me is her self doing that willingly
Okay? She's still doing it and you are still taking her for granted. She's going to leave if you don't get your shit together. She is clearly more than fed up and her putting up with you until this point practically makes her a saint. You have an amazing woman on your hands are you really going to lose her because you're lazy?
And don't bring up the whole "she talked behind my back" bullshit. She didn't. She's fed up, tried, frustrated and angry. She needed someone to vent too. She loves you, it is very obvious from everything she has done for you but you don't appreciate it at all.
XFD he really said she's turned her back on him 😂
lmao
She's right, go get a better job, they're out there. I've worked construction 12 hour days at hard labor, you don't need to do that but you can at least work a solid 8 hour at a hotel or something. You'll lose at life if you don't man up.
Lose a life?
You won't get anywhere and you'll lose what you have. She'll move on, you'll go broke, you've already had to pawn your video game. If you can't find a better job ask her for some advice, she seems to have money so she probably knows how to get it. If her family is rich one of them might point you to a good job.
Do you want to be able to stand on your own financially, even if it means taking on extra hours until you pay off your debts?
Also, do you love her? How do you like to show your love to your girlfriend?
Honestly I’m tired of my job i hate working there
Hmm. If you had to choose, would you
A. Keep your girlfriend and have to work more
B. Lose your girlfriend and only work 3 days/week
?
If you choose A, you can also squeeze in a job app per week and hopefully find some better job in a few months. If you're currently working, you'll look better to future employers.
She don't sound like your girlfriend she sounds likes your mother, why should another adult beg another adult to work? Why would you call out you're an adult you need to keep a good realtionship with your job, if your girl woulda told me you was bumming like that i would been had her suck and fucking me, time to be a man and get money or lose her bruh
Well its like what you said yourself she's an awesome girfriend that does everything for you and you wish you can do more for her but now that you hear her actually saying wishes you can do more for yourself you got defensive you know what's exactly wrong man its you're choice if you want to better yourself for the one you love or do nothing she clearly loves you and we always want to see people we love succeed
She loves me but called me a bum
Prove her wrong man its kinda hard to argue with someone who takes care of you i mean if you were on even ground id totally be on your side
She loves you man! She sound like an amazing girl and you will lose her if you don't get your act together!
Do it for youself, for her and for your future. Stop being lazy and work more. You know what you have to do. Do it!
She loves me yet she talked down on me behind my back
She is worried about your condition! But she believes in you.
She regards you as a 'fix up'er. She aspires you will do better as you do her. But you're not trying, and you're costing her money. Some say she'll likely want a family.
I am trying i mean look i didn’t ask her for half the things that she does
She should not be funding your lifestyle. That's on her.
You fulfil even some of her aspirations for you. She may just love you forever.
And get more sleep. Nothing works when you're tired.
So what happened? You're a little boy in a grown man's body, and you're here whining about it. Who's responsible for this? Who's job is it to fix it? What's it gonna take for you to get your shit together and start being an actual grown man?
I am a man
You sit around playing video games and watching basketball, won't get up and go to work, and apparently feel no shame in treating your girlfriend like she's your mommy, and then get mad and whine that she's telling the truth "behind your back".
You're no man. That's little boy shit.
I don't see what the question is. Sounds like your girlfriend said everything that needed to said and that you needed to hear. Get your lazy ass act together or be prepared to lose the best thing in your life
You girlfriend is right. Drag your lazy ass off to work and sign up for more hours.
Dude, you admit that you are lazy and then complain about someone who helps you? You need to reevaluate yourself.
She talked about me behind my back
Because she's sick of your shit and has obviously tried to talk to you about it, and you brush it off so she's had enough!!!
She's trying to help you and it's frustrating to her since you're not doing much to solve your own problems. She wants the best for you, but how can she help you if you won't even help yourself.
I understand that. But i didn’t force her to help me
It doesn't matter whether you asked her or not. She just wants the effort she's putting in to pay off.
Are you actually the girlfriend? Wanting to get other people's opinions on ur lazy af bf?😂
I died!!!
😂😂
Please do your best friend cause you’re lucky to have a girl who supports you in your bad time so it’s up to you to show her good time work hard it’ll totally be worth it take my words for that
Get off your ass and stop freeloading off your girlfriend buddy. You're lucky she's still fucking you and hasn't kicked your ass into touch. I'm saying this in a loving way. 😊
I'm not sure I understand what you are asking here. It seems like she has spoken her peace; she wants you to get off your butt and build a base for yourself.
I don’t get the question it seems that what you should be doing is obvious. (Make more money).