MY ex girlfriend took my little brothers virginity. Do I have a right to be upset?

[Anonymous]

So basically she just turned19, he just turned 18 and I’m 20. Her and I dated for six months but we had a fall out. She would always talk about how my brothers so cute and things like that. I’m the blonde in the family and he has black hair, she likes that apparently. Anyways. I overheard my brother talking to his friend about it and I confronted him. He said he had invited her to his party cause they have mutual friends (I wasn’t in the country). And things escalated from there. Her and I have been apart for five months, but it does hurt. I’m upset at both of them but I’m not sure if I should confront her. She’s gorgeous, my brother said he was drunk and couldn’t say no. He sounded pretty darn happy when he was talking to his friend. Do I have a right to be upset. What would u do. He doesn’t know it hurt me I just played it off

[truthbeknown]

Once you break up, nothing you can do. Be a stand up guy and be happy for your brother that he lost it to someone you can trust, and at least she had sex with someone she knew and cared about it.

[Logorithim]

I don't see a problem with her taking his virginity since you're no longer together. Why does it bother you so much?

[Izumiblu]

While you may be hurt it’s none of your business. She’s your ex, you guys broke up.

[lsmcouture]

Yes you do, towards the girl. As an older brother, it is your duty to protect your siblings from people like her

[jackmaxim]

Hahaha I feel I'd be pissed too but you had to have seen it coming just move on cold blooded

[Anonymous]

There should be an unspoken rule between brothers and friends. Don't date or have sex with anyone that is an ex of a friend it brother. That's awful to hear.

[Opinion Owner]

*friend or brother

[jacquesvol]

"he was drunk and couldn’t say no."
Thus it might be rape. Ask him if he feels raped.

[RumEro]

just don't let her come between you and your brother family is everything