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Does your partner call you a "good boy/girl"?
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Yes, i love when my girlfriend calls me a good boy, but that's probably because i dont like being the more dominant figure. Also whether you believe it or not, in relationships, there's never a 50/50 divide between power. Also boys that go through tough childhoods tend to prefer women to be more independent and outspoken, when my girlfriend calls me a good boy, its usually in a arrogant-playful way and automatically activates my submissive instincts :D
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Not that I can recall. That might irritate me a bit for some reason unless it's a really humorous way and I might reciprocate with "good girl" whenever she does something decent just to show her how irritating that is. :-D
I don’t have the experience to answer, but I do like it when I’ve been called “good girl”. Yes it’s degrading, to either a man or a woman, but I just think it’s hot for some reason lol. Only in a sexual way, not a “job well done” kind of way. That would be weird. 😉
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Only in like a teasing way after something sexual. Or I haven't been so argumentative and stuff.
Otherwise, I just get cute and crazy lol
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I'd be a bit repulsed by that... or if someone referred to himself as a "good boy". We're not dogs in training or children. In fact, I don't say that to my students either. I don't care for that.
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Once in a previous relationship I was called a good girl bitch by my girlfriend. I really don't mind it. I'm an Out Of The Closet-Submissive now, so Whatever a woman want to call me I have no say in. Guys that have Ego Issues are the ones that refuse to accept themselves for who and what they really are. You know who really runs the relationship and who controls the sex-love making. You Women are the Real Boss in the relationship. I had my Ego Shattering moment this year after a year long struggle with my own Ego. I finally accepted who and what I am. I forgave myself through heart-wrenching tears for living a lie. One week of explosive Ego Destruction was a life-changing time. I still have my masculinity just in a tempered and controlled fashion. I'm still a man but with a submissive mind and soft heart. I have surrendered to being submissive and I feel better about myself more than ever. I am more free to express my emotions much better. I'm learning more and more how to be softer. No, I'm not a Sissy, just Obediently Submissive. Happy Girlfriend/Wife, Happy Life. Please her, honor her, cherish her, obey her. Let your Ego go. I'm no longer the same person once was. I love women so much. - Just my thoughts. PEACE & LOVE! KLynnC
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I used to say it to my girl during sex. I noticed that she gets aroused when I call her that, But I don't use this term in everyday life as I feel the same way as some comments suggested (it's a bit degrading to be used) unless you agree between yourselves that it's fine. In this case, it's no one's business to judge you.
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They do, but not in a sexual way. they ask me "Who's a good boy?" and I am normally a callous asshole to everyone but them, but for some reason that validation flicks a switch in the deep dormant part of my brain that triggers the immediate response of "FUCKYEAHIMTHEGOODESTBOY" and I sort of wiggle in place, non of this is voluntary, it happens on its own and I think my partner figured that out, however I worry it will turn into them giving me headpats and petting me. Some days I wonder if I'm an animal.
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It would be a turn off... I call my dog a "good girl", and the phrase reminds me of her...
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Sometimes. Usually either during sex or when I'm coming down off a panic attack or have just been really anxious and I'm beginning to come back to myself
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God no, I'd get insulted if she did that. If she kept doing it after I told her how I felt it about it, there wouldn't be a "we" afterwards. More like a "See ya, there's the door".
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Yeah. In a sexual way, and sometimes in a non-sexual way. I find it hot and am occasionally indifferent to it, but it depends on the person.
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Yeah I do... if I missbehaves and get spanked after its all over he will sometimes say I'm a good girl.. or if I'm angry at him and dont act out he will say it.. sometimes he lets me squeeze his hand hard to get the anger out but it doesn't hurt him at all and that makes me just more angry!
It makes me angry and resent him at the same time as I get wetter...
So yeah I've been called "good girl"... both sexually and in disciplin.
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My lover sometimes calls me a good girl, in certain context.
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I called my ex that sometimes. She liked it. No one has ever called me that (except for one time, but that's too personal to go into in public).
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I’m not exactly a dom let’s say, and my ex most definitely was. So to answer, yes she did it all the time and I loved it
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Hmm to be called “good girl” come here?” No, but saying “I’m so happy to have you, you are the best girl.” Yes. If that makes any sense to you haha
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She does sometimes. I call her a good girl, especially when I'm fucking her.
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Not often, she probably has. It's a little demeaning isn't it, thats what you do to the family dog
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As a joke, when I remember to do something. "Good boy, have a treat." Mind you, the treat is often pussy...
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My boyfriend says good girl or good kitty and often pats me on the head and ruffles my hair.
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If she did it'd probably be the end of the relationship. I'm not a fucking dog xD
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If you're alone with her and she says this
1. Find your balls and re-attach them
2. Now that your balls are back. You should be able to find that familiar "whogivesashit" feeling and use the opportunity to be a bad boy 😈
If you're somewhere that the above is not viable use your Whogivesashit and focus your energy on something productive. -
No. That’s kinda weird. As in like a praise? Like get her a drink and she goes “good boy?” That’s strange to me
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