From what most people say on their profiles on dating sites I have been on, most say they want a girl that makes them laugh. So I'm pretty sure the reverse is true. Everyone likes a good sense of humor.
While a balance is best, I'd rather have a joker because a sense of humor and a positive attitude are important to me in a partner. If someone is ALWAYS serious, I would feel like they had no joy in their life.
One can find humour in everything. To be able to make jokes is a 'positive' attitude. Even 'serious things can be made fun of. One little restriction: 'shallow' jokes only will not be too funny on the long run. Deep jokes will be welcome any time.
I'd have to say never serious since I think it'd be extremely boring to the point of tedium to be stuck with someone who couldn't give/take a joke. Although I would prefer someone inbetween.
Why? What woman out there would only ever be serious or only ever joke all the time. That's not realistic so there's no reason for me to choose. I cannot be with someone who can't laugh and have fun, and I can't be with someone incapable of being serious about something either.
yeah, i got that... i was just messing with you and in answer to the hypothetical case that i had to choose then i guess i would go for the funny girl just because i dont really want a serious relationship right now anyway ;)
Neither. If you can't do both, then you can't do me. But for the sake of the question, I'll say serious. I want him to mean it when he says he loves me.
Both. I heard being serious a lot is linked to anxiety, depression and suicide. ( anxiety ridden serious person, here. I want to learn how to lighten up)
Im gonna be honest im gonna say serious because women are not particularly funny. And im not the type of guy to just sit there and fake a laugh if the jokes are not funny
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From what most people say on their profiles on dating sites I have been on, most say they want a girl that makes them laugh. So I'm pretty sure the reverse is true. Everyone likes a good sense of humor.
While a balance is best, I'd rather have a joker because a sense of humor and a positive attitude are important to me in a partner. If someone is ALWAYS serious, I would feel like they had no joy in their life.
One can find humour in everything. To be able to make jokes is a 'positive' attitude. Even 'serious things can be made fun of.
One little restriction: 'shallow' jokes only will not be too funny on the long run.
Deep jokes will be welcome any time.
I agree with what you say; but I wrote "if you have to"
I saw that :D But: No matter if I 'have to' (which I don't) or if it's voluntary: the funny girl will win. How long... depends on what I said earlier.
I'd have to say never serious since I think it'd be extremely boring to the point of tedium to be stuck with someone who couldn't give/take a joke. Although I would prefer someone inbetween.
Ideally a mix of both.
But if I had to choose I guess always joking, you'll live longer and be happier if your laughing, plus I like to joke around a lot.
I personally like "Never Joking" way more scince i don't take joking often as... joking i take many jokes very serious
as somoeone who can't be serious for more than 1 minute in veeery dire situations... imma only ever get along with someone who is "never serious"
Healthy balance, the girl should be capable of being uplifting and be able to goof around.
But everything has its time and place.
Why? What woman out there would only ever be serious or only ever joke all the time. That's not realistic so there's no reason for me to choose. I cannot be with someone who can't laugh and have fun, and I can't be with someone incapable of being serious about something either.
OMG if the question had been realistic it wouldn't have been interesting
"OMG", the question is neither realistic nor interesting. These one or the other questions are asked way too much on gag.
i think the best option is a combination of the two
obviously
not obvious enough to make it a third option though lol
it is done on purpose; to make the question more interesting and difficult; it would be obvious to answer both
yeah, i got that... i was just messing with you and in answer to the hypothetical case that i had to choose then i guess i would go for the funny girl just because i dont really want a serious relationship right now anyway ;)
Never serious. It’s more fun that way. Yeah, it will annoy me a lot but it also grows on me. Like an enjoyable tumor.
Both can be fun. But a girl who is always serious... and also very deep... that is extremely attractive.
Never joking, I dont want to date a clown haha
Also I am goofy enough for the two of us.
I think I work well with serious women.
Balance. Because if someone is always joking you never know when they are serious and vice versa.
It gets to be annoying.
Neither. If you can't do both, then you can't do me. But for the sake of the question, I'll say serious. I want him to mean it when he says he loves me.
If you REALLY mean ALWAYS, then serious.
If she know when to be serious and when to be funny, then joking, because she would know enough NOT to be joking all the time.
Both. I heard being serious a lot is linked to anxiety, depression and suicide. ( anxiety ridden serious person, here. I want to learn how to lighten up)
Always joking 🤣
Though I still believe in the philosophy that you can have too much of a good thing, so I wouldn’t want them to be joke after joke after joke 😕
Im gonna be honest im gonna say serious because women are not particularly funny. And im not the type of guy to just sit there and fake a laugh if the jokes are not funny
a girl with a good personality, one that can be serious when she has too but can be goofy, always serious is boring