A married man wants to leave his family for me. I am scared and don’t know what to do? (Page 2)

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I am 22 and he is 29. I met this man a while ago and we instantly had a connection. It wasn’t romantic at first because we had many mutual friends. But somehow we started hanging out more and I realized that I was in fact interested in him in the beginning but was trying to block those feelings after finding out that he is married (I didn’t really notice the ring at first but rather around the second time we met with mutual friends).  We live in different cities but he calls me every single day and we find it so easy to talk and I feel as if I’ve known him for a long time.  He has been telling me about his problems with his wife, they have been married for nearly 9 year and says that every single day it gets worse and worse and their relationship is deteriorating so he thinks that people live only once and should be with those that you love. He says he will never forget his children and will always be a fatherly figure for them and support his wife and family financially and in whatever other we he can but he wants to “wake up with me and be with me”. This morning he txted me very early and said: I am so confused. I love my children so much and will never leave them because I know she will never let me see them again. I don’t want to be the man that dumps his kids.  This text freaked me out and I feel terrible. I was never the initiator of our relationship, and I knew from the beginning that a married man is a no go zone. I don’t love or have an interest for many men. And it disappoints me that the man that has found a place in my heart is married. I don’t want to break his family. I know our mutual friends will hate me and because we have many- I will probably be hated and I told him that and he said: well we only live once and I want to follow my heart.  Help. I don’t know what to do and am confused and feel terrible and want to drop all this immediately but it is so hard. Has anyone been in this situation?

Anonymous · Answer

If he will leave his family for you, he will leave you for someone else.  Don't be a homewrecker. He's obviously a piece of shit.

Roadwizard · Answer

Do what's right the world is a different place you don't control him you control yourself

Rob171977 · Answer

uh not be a homewrecker that's what you could do just guessing

esotericstory · Answer

Say to him that men who destroy their own household are terrible men.

JamesRandiDebates · Answer

Convince him to stay with his family and use you as the side chick

pawpaw1313 · Answer

If he's going to leave his family for you then he'll leave you to

Anonymous · Answer

He told you he wanted you so you would tell him truth about his wife when truly he wasn't ever going be gay

Hamsteroids · Answer

Definitely you gotta go your own ways

Ally247 · Answer

If he can leave his wife- he can leave you.

AngelLily · Answer

Leave if he leaves her he will leave you.

CACentralValleyGuy · Answer

Once a cheater, always a cheater, run!

Miristheiss · Answer

If you had character you'd know 100% what to do.

Thatsamazing · Answer

"I am 22 and he is 29" why does this matter

HaveNoName · Answer

Most likely, he will do the same with you.

CuriousMufuxka · Answer

Why is your age set as 29?

Browser101 · Answer

Be scared, he sounds like a piece of shot

Muhammad1999 · Answer

Her wife might find you and kill you so avoid them

Therisinghero12 · Answer

Tell him to snap out of it, or what you think.

DanOh2018 · Answer

This is why poly is a smart choice in my opinion.

JesseJayNeak · Answer

Better avoid the risk

Agape93 · Answer

Tell him no

tree1289 · Answer

children need their mom and dad... not caous

jimmy2 · Answer

Dont do it there's no blessing

Anonymous · Answer

so, you're the other woman

donnny2367764 · Answer

Homewrecker

reptocarl · Answer

Don’t be stupid

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