Do you fear that you will never find love?

Question

Would you rather be with the wrong person than alone?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I would absolutely not rather be with the wrong person than alone. I honestly don't understand this mentality after being with the wrong person (but more so because he begged for a chance and I wanted to give him one, but it didn't work out). All trying to force a square peg into a round hole does is make both people miserable and waste both of your time. I'd much rather be alone, because as much as I thought I could make it work with the wrong person, there was always just something missing.

I'm not sure if I'll ever find love or not, but I'll be okay either way. It would be nice, but I've learned to be happy by myself as well.

arabgoddess · Accepted Answer

I rather be alone than with the wrong person.. I am understanding this now because I feel I'm with the wrong person.

zagor · Accepted Answer

Nah, I expect it will never happen, but I don't fear it. I'll end up dead someday either way.

Smf1989 · Accepted Answer

Yes i do

Cynicaldreamer · Answer

All the time. I've pretty much accepted I'm going to be single the rest of my life 😑

I refuse to settle with someone just for the sake of being in a relationship. I rather be alone and happy, than with the wrong person and miserable.

Anonymous · Answer

I wonder. I'm not good looking, and I think my job is going to make dating tough, as I'll be too busy if I want to earn decent money. I don't really date; I'm pretty inexperienced with relationships, and most of those have been tough. There aren't very many single women around. It seems like all the women I know are in serious long term relationships, and either they don't know anyone or they don't know anyone who would date me.

I suppose it depends what the wrong person is. I could see dating someone who was a complete opposite on most things but as long as she was kind, a little affectionate, but just not my ideal, and we had nothing in common, I could see it happening. But if the wrong person means that she's toxic; she cheats, she lies constantly, she's abusive, whatever, I don't think I could be with someone like that for very long. I dated someone who was desperate, but not ready for a healthy relationship.

Honestly, though, I think that that's probably the only chance I'd get at dating.

jersos1 · Answer

I think so because others say I'm weird and I'm making no conscious efforts whatsoever to get a girl. I don't care what you think of me, I dont care if at all I'l find love. I think people unnecessarily romanticize love and show only the rosy parts of the same but they dont ever consider you have to make huge sacrifices.

So I am pretty much happy being single and a virgin. I am better than many one of you out there who are trying to please their partners by doing stupid things!!

Singles of the world, let's unite!

#single #unite #proud #virgin #proudtobesingle

Mollynotgemma · Answer

I do and yet I have a fiancé! I don’t believe I’ll be with him forever because he’s the love of my life right now... but so was my boyfriend at 16 / then at 21/ 28 / 32.
But I want that love you can’t explain and for it to last forever !
Perhaps that’s a dream and I’m missing so much with my past or there as putting pressure and expectations on them to achieve my ideal perception of love!
I want that love when you don’t see it but someone catches them looking at you in that way!
It’s probably happened a million time’s but I miss it because I’m seeking it!

FictionalCharacter · Answer

Sometimes I do fear that. I also have everyone telling me I’m full of potential and opportunities. That with those opportunities, I’m getting my life in order and finding happiness. But love does come in different forms. Sure, I don’t have a partner at the moment. But I am happy my family are around and still love me and I do love myself of the potentials I’m succeeding. It’s almost looking at the bright side of struggles.

lightbulb27 · Answer

fear it no, but it is possible. maybe I need to start looking again.
Id rather be alone than with someone who I can't handle. It isn't about right/wrong, it's about with someone generally enjoy, support, love, have best interests... and can tolerate:)

Anonymous · Answer

I finished with someone this year who I was in love with. He was completely selfish and only cared about himself unfortunately. He had a great job and was heir to a lot of money. In the end, I felt more alone with him than when we were apart. I’d rather take the risk of being alone and knowing I have the chance to meet my mr right than to settle. It’s in God’s hands now...

Teahappy · Answer

Yes!!!

Unfortunately, this thought crosses my mind everyday.

I've been single for 2 years and the thought of being single rest of my life scares me.

I would at least want to be loved and cherished, not feel unattractive and unwanted.

Nobody-gives-a-finch · Answer

The "Wrong Person" is a very strong term.
If she isn't abusive and she shares at least the fundamental beliefs that govern my life, we could make a marriage and relationship work.
The right person doesn't exist either, strictly speaking. Love is half nature and half nurture - and the nature part is gender.

R_ūshī · Answer

Tbh I fear that I lost the right guy forever but then the right one isn't supposed to leave in my opinion. So kinda yeah I have that fear to a certain extent...

Anonymous · Answer

I believe that there's some women out there that will be perfect for me, but the fear of never finding any of them haunts me like a reoccurring nightmare.

Thatgirl_r · Answer

I’ve been I love I’m scared I won’t be able to love anyone again because it’s hard to open up.

FatherJack · Answer

The only human beings I will ever love , are my children and my mother. True unconditional love between woman and man does not exist.

Darkistoolight__ · Answer

I’d rather be alone. I was in a really toxic and abusive relationship for a few months. It got really scary and caused me severe anxiety, I could never go through that again.

DevilsAdvocator · Answer

Yes, because I would rather be alone than be with the wrong person. And I'm starting to feel that there's no such thing as the "right person". Or even A "right person", in the entire world.

MrOracle · Answer

I prefer a great partner - but if I can't have a great fit, then I'd prefer to be alone. Being lonely is better than being in a bad relationship - I'm NOT a fan of drama.

Kaazsz · Answer

Nah. I just want to fuck and play with someone really beautiful and sexy before I eventually settle down with an ugly girl for love.

SadNightOwl · Answer

I'd rather be alone. I'm currently in a bad relationship and cannot get out right now for a number of reasons. You'll find the right one eventually. My mistake was settling.

brightphase · Answer

I dont. I am 28 and single since ever but it never bothers me because i know there is a right time for everything.
I would definitely get what i deserve. Why to get worried.
Life is fun being single too. Chillax!!

Anonymous · Answer

I'm in my 40's now and starting to think it'll never happen. But, I'm happy with myself and my life overall. And there are benefits to being single also. Yes I'd like someone to be with, but I'm glad I'm not in a bad relationship.

Anonymous · Answer

I do and as i get older i wonder this even more. I have tried to live a single life but honestly sometimes i just want to forget everything and have a guy hold me and tell me "Don't worry, i won't let go of you"

JSmuve · Answer

10 years ago when I was upset that I wouldn't find anyone, I was told by someone that I would. 10 years later, it hasn't come true and since I'm out of my prime dating years, I suspect that it never will.

OldSchool_Metalhead · Answer

Id rather be alone till death takes me instead of being with someone who doesn't accept me for who i am.

SkipStop · Answer

Not at all. Hope I never find love because modern girls are too dangerous. The only love I need is from my family. And I got plenty of it.

Kayla45 · Answer

I've found it before, but it wasn't true love. Dated for 3 years and called it off when the relationship turned violent.

ShortCircuit · Answer

I don't fear dying alone, but I do fear being forced to settle.

Annie12234 · Answer

Yeah, I do fear that I will end up with the wrong person

Liam_Hayden · Answer

No. I'm open to it, but if it does not happen I will still be happy just being alive.

ACupOfFrosting · Answer

Definitely? I mean I'm no 1/10 but like where I'm from every guy is an asshole and most 2 get 10 so like don't think it'll be happening any time soon

JohnAlaska43 · Answer

Nope won't accept the wrong person. Done that already won't put up with crap.

Confusedmamma · Answer

Hell no being with some just to be with someone is cruel and builds resentment on both ends

Secret6620 · Answer

Definitely not. I already found it. Love is such a beautiful thing to possess. 🥰

Dchrls78104 · Answer

I have somewhat of a fear that I will never find love but I'd rather be alone than with the wrong person.

MissDawn7961 · Answer

yes but I am still going to try to do so until the day I die

SMPlSl · Answer

I would rather be with the wrong person than alone because i want kids in the future.

13IsALuckyNumber · Answer

I have found love, the first time it wasn’t mutual, now I have no idea. I would definitely rather be alone than with the wrong person to answer your other question.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Yes i do fear i won't find love , after being single for 16 years.

Browneye57 · Answer

So much fear... so much not winning.  Love isn't about what you'll GET, it's about GIVING. You're clueless!

bolverk · Answer

Gave up searching a long time ago, decided to save my energies, if it happens - it happens, if it don't - it don't.

Midhat · Answer

I don't fear, I'm sure that won't happen... And being with the wrong person rather than alone is worse for me

Badbitcxhintraining · Answer

I have but only when I am having a shitty day, but yeah I would rather be alone then be with someone not suited to me.

Dsg1193 · Answer

I no longer fear it because I’ve come to terms with the fact that it won’t happen at this point.

DevylasArsaukas76 · Answer

not anymore, used to but then, tried my hand at it and never tried again, it's a recurring thing with my Generation, we only try so much, until we don't care

Askaway3 · Answer

Sometimes, but I also fear I will screw it up, because truth is I like a woman with intelligence but I am only a man!

donnny2367764 · Answer

Never ever be with someone you don't feel appreciates you equally... better off alone than in bad company

ivysandy · Answer

No, I will rather stay alone than be with the wrong person

Leolove0813 · Answer

I would rather live under a bridge by myself, than be with someone that doesn't love me

crazy8000 · Answer

Not really. Absolutely no meaning. what should that accomplish?

Adogdog · Answer

I do feel like that sometimes, but I would rather be alone then with the wrong person.

Ultrainstinctman · Answer

I accepted it. And I'm happy cuz if they love me I have to love them back  And I hate reciprocating

Gargla · Answer

I think everyone is FULL ON THEIR OWN BULLSHIT AND ARE FUCKING AFRAID OF PEOPLE FOR NO REASON! (Myself included)

UnknownFriend · Answer

I'd rather be alone than with the wrong person. Might be a reason for me never having a girlfriend yet.

Jennifer_32 · Answer

For me personally, I don't care about the chemical reaction humans define as love. I enjoy being a loner and just chilling out.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't want to find love.  I love my children and live for them. When they are older, I will love my life and myself.

locaeyes · Answer

Trust me finding love is amazing but as well so painful it happena when it happens

Anonymous · Answer

yeah, sometimes I think we should consider arranging marriages to make it easier for people to find someone.

AspiringArtist · Answer

No not yet. I’ll start fearing that once I’ve reached desperate housewife age.

GhettoGirl · Answer

Love of family is all the love I need.

eila7 · Answer

rather be alone, less pain & more peace

AshleyMadison00 · Answer

No I believe I will at the time until then just me

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