Would you rather be with the wrong person than alone?
Do you fear that you will never find love?
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Anonymous
(25-29)
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I would absolutely not rather be with the wrong person than alone. I honestly don't understand this mentality after being with the wrong person (but more so because he begged for a chance and I wanted to give him one, but it didn't work out). All trying to force a square peg into a round hole does is make both people miserable and waste both of your time. I'd much rather be alone, because as much as I thought I could make it work with the wrong person, there was always just something missing.
I'm not sure if I'll ever find love or not, but I'll be okay either way. It would be nice, but I've learned to be happy by myself as well.
I wonder. I'm not good looking, and I think my job is going to make dating tough, as I'll be too busy if I want to earn decent money. I don't really date; I'm pretty inexperienced with relationships, and most of those have been tough. There aren't very many single women around. It seems like all the women I know are in serious long term relationships, and either they don't know anyone or they don't know anyone who would date me.
I suppose it depends what the wrong person is. I could see dating someone who was a complete opposite on most things but as long as she was kind, a little affectionate, but just not my ideal, and we had nothing in common, I could see it happening. But if the wrong person means that she's toxic; she cheats, she lies constantly, she's abusive, whatever, I don't think I could be with someone like that for very long. I dated someone who was desperate, but not ready for a healthy relationship.
Honestly, though, I think that that's probably the only chance I'd get at dating.
I think so because others say I'm weird and I'm making no conscious efforts whatsoever to get a girl. I don't care what you think of me, I dont care if at all I'l find love. I think people unnecessarily romanticize love and show only the rosy parts of the same but they dont ever consider you have to make huge sacrifices.
So I am pretty much happy being single and a virgin. I am better than many one of you out there who are trying to please their partners by doing stupid things!!
I do and yet I have a fiancé! I don’t believe I’ll be with him forever because he’s the love of my life right now... but so was my boyfriend at 16 / then at 21/ 28 / 32. But I want that love you can’t explain and for it to last forever ! Perhaps that’s a dream and I’m missing so much with my past or there as putting pressure and expectations on them to achieve my ideal perception of love! I want that love when you don’t see it but someone catches them looking at you in that way! It’s probably happened a million time’s but I miss it because I’m seeking it!
Sometimes I do fear that. I also have everyone telling me I’m full of potential and opportunities. That with those opportunities, I’m getting my life in order and finding happiness. But love does come in different forms. Sure, I don’t have a partner at the moment. But I am happy my family are around and still love me and I do love myself of the potentials I’m succeeding. It’s almost looking at the bright side of struggles.
fear it no, but it is possible. maybe I need to start looking again. Id rather be alone than with someone who I can't handle. It isn't about right/wrong, it's about with someone generally enjoy, support, love, have best interests... and can tolerate:)
I finished with someone this year who I was in love with. He was completely selfish and only cared about himself unfortunately. He had a great job and was heir to a lot of money. In the end, I felt more alone with him than when we were apart. I’d rather take the risk of being alone and knowing I have the chance to meet my mr right than to settle. It’s in God’s hands now...
The "Wrong Person" is a very strong term. If she isn't abusive and she shares at least the fundamental beliefs that govern my life, we could make a marriage and relationship work. The right person doesn't exist either, strictly speaking. Love is half nature and half nurture - and the nature part is gender.
Tbh I fear that I lost the right guy forever but then the right one isn't supposed to leave in my opinion. So kinda yeah I have that fear to a certain extent...
I believe that there's some women out there that will be perfect for me, but the fear of never finding any of them haunts me like a reoccurring nightmare.
I’d rather be alone. I was in a really toxic and abusive relationship for a few months. It got really scary and caused me severe anxiety, I could never go through that again.
Yes, because I would rather be alone than be with the wrong person. And I'm starting to feel that there's no such thing as the "right person". Or even A "right person", in the entire world.
I prefer a great partner - but if I can't have a great fit, then I'd prefer to be alone. Being lonely is better than being in a bad relationship - I'm NOT a fan of drama.
I'd rather be alone. I'm currently in a bad relationship and cannot get out right now for a number of reasons. You'll find the right one eventually. My mistake was settling.
I dont. I am 28 and single since ever but it never bothers me because i know there is a right time for everything. I would definitely get what i deserve. Why to get worried. Life is fun being single too. Chillax!!
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Anonymous
(45 Plus)
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I'm in my 40's now and starting to think it'll never happen. But, I'm happy with myself and my life overall. And there are benefits to being single also. Yes I'd like someone to be with, but I'm glad I'm not in a bad relationship.
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