Would it bother you if your girlfriend/boyfriend posed nude in the past?

[Anonymous]

[stevenCccx55xxf]

If my girlfriend was posting nude pictures of herself? This did bother me a lot. Funny, I was just thinking back the other day while journaling. My last girlfriend let me know a number of times that it turned her on when others saw her nude pics on line. Before I was told this info I often wondered why she would take nude selfies... most times she would head straight to the rest room in the morning WITH her phone and something told me that she wasn't just pooping. our first real fight involved the subject of her being addicted to social media and that she wished to stop all the craziness and close ALL of her accounts across the board. She was on more than a few she explained. i felt like a jerk afterwards because she did try to communicate with me about this problem of hers. The argument broke out she tried to convince me that twitter WASN'T a Social media platform. The more I think about the past I reolized how dishonest and head trip she was with me. Especially regarding technology , her and her little click of friends. ugh. it drove me crazy to the point of sadness that I wanted to just stop my pain... I tried and contemplated more than a couple solutions...
in the end they all ended badly

Sorry ramblings, if she posted nudes in the past? No just As long as she didn't continue when we got together as It wouldn't surprise me much if she did continue.

[MysteriousDarkness]

The question is about them posing bude in the past before you got with that person not while you are with them.

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

Not at all.
I was just explaining to another person right now that my girlfriend did some modeling as a photographic subject some years ago, and that included artistic nude.
I'm not bothered by it at all.

[ElissaDido]

Yes it would be a major turn. Actually à deal breaker because I want a man with similar values and I wouldn't pose nude.

[AaronDavis]

I'm unlined to agree.

[asteroid4769]

No because it’s 2019

[OlderAndWiser]

Potentially, it is a huge red flag! How much concern I have would be based on how long ago it occurred, how long a time period she did that, whether pictures or videos were wide distributed and likely to still be available online, whether I trusted her representations that it went no further that just posing nude, what she has done in her life since that time, and how I would otherwise evaluate her character.

[pervertedjester]

Absolutely. I've been in that spot before. Unless she has sole control over the pictures I don't see the relationship working out. I'm not counting the normal flirty relationship pics. But yeah if she posed and either was paid or did it for an "art" project then absolutely not.

[shimmeryns]

Err... I don't think it could land him the kind of career he has now if he ever did that. He carries the company's image in a way, so...

[jennifer_bloom]

If the last guy I was with posed nude - there is no way I'd date him - I can't accept he sold himself as a sex object to other woman.

[SexyPetite]

I doubt that would be something that they would tell me right at the beginning of our relationship. So i would have already fallen in love with her when she told me and i can't change the past so its no use getting upset over. Id just ask to see the photos

[Red_Arrow]

I have been in naked bike rides with thousands of others. Both the watching crowd and other riders take pictures, and at least one of them was prominent on the internet. Also went to many nude beaches and resorts. I am sure some were taken of me then, and I actually posed for a couple of them. I am amazed at how strange people get over nudity.

[Gstacy703]

I would wonder if he’s a player and he. Has no problem showing his nude body to every chic he finds attractive and I would find myself feeling like I have to watch him...
Also guys like that aren’t relationship or husband types... they’re usually the hook up types so ya it would bother me up to a certain extent

[chickenneck75]

Well if she's posted nude I take she's not a virgin either but we've all done something in the past we regret we don't need someone else looking down on us. so it woudnt bother me. really isn't no different than getting a new app on your phone its actually worse we've all done that lol. if you both are two adults its not gonna be a problem.

[ShortCircuit]

Yes, yes it would. Even if it wasn't innately sexual, purely artistic or professional, I feel as though my partner's body should be for my eyes exclusively, and that would be violated nonetheless.

[MysteriousDarkness]

Good luck with that. You will have a hard time finding so. eone that no one else has ever seen before you get with who ever you get with.

[btbc92]

@MysteriousDarkness Or you can date a friend whom you've known a very long time inside and out. common sense than to date a complete stranger. That's why you NEVER rush into dating somebody without knowing all of this. He's on the right track and plenty of 19 and 20 years old's who never had sex or done that. So don't give him a false perception just because you wouldn't mind showing off your body or have a female do so for the world to see.

[ShortCircuit]

@MysteriousDarkness If I can do it, other people can. Speak for yourself.

[Paulaanderson]

Not bother me. I have posed nude and my hubby has in the past. Maybe diff now with Internet
Back then it was camera's poloroid etc.
Possible some of mine are on the net somewhere

[Red_Arrow]

I'm still looking. So much internet to search! :-)

[Pyrofox]

I'd probably just tease back and and ask for one. No need to make a big deal out if the situation. Posed nude for art or a picture whatever. I got the real thing and that's what matters at the end of the day.

[Sensmind]

Posed nudes or sent nudes - To be honest neither would be a issue for me - For me the why would be more important that the event - It is more their business maybe to think about how would you feel if these pics surfaced in 10/15/20 years time?

[humanearth]

No should it, I posted nude for a girl's/gay magazines in the late 80s.

Hey what can I say it was easy money and no sex, just pictures

Still have a great body, maybe I should do a senior porn magazine.

Any Granny's want to see.

[Philyouup]

You da man! Lol. Actually that’s my point in my reply. It’s in the past. Who cares. I like the idea of a Sr porn mag. Lol.

[humanearth]

@Philyouup yeah, let's help granny get the wrinkles out

[Philyouup]

lol exactly I'd give you MHO if it were my post..

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

As long as she's loyal, it don't bother me. If anything id be kinda proud to have a sexually liberated girlfriend. And its not like I'll be circulating her pics to my friends and family. So no harm done

[Grande_Beefy_Swirl]

Hell no. There's literally hundreds of nudes of me floating around out there. If they don't care, i don't care. You can't blackmail me if it doesn't matter.

[Missourifried]

I agree, who hasn't shown nudes now a days

[Philyouup]

Past is the past. You can’t erase it. For me. Not an issue. But if you can’t get past it, that’s an issue that will stain your relationship

[Lucky1974]

It wouldn’t bother me at all if she was still doing it professionally.

[SjE78]

no not at all tbh, our past isn't who we all are, it merely helps to shape us into who we become...

[Massageman]

The "bigness of the deal" is simply how much of a flap someone makes of it, for most people. If you make a huge deal about it, it will become a huge deal.

[joethemoe912]

Nope, one of my exs posed nude for an art class. I miss her lol we only broke up because she had to move across the states and school was very important as she wanted a PhD

[LonewolfMeme]

I hope you guys meet again in the future

[TadCurious]

No, not as long as it was a tasteful fine art nude photo shoot or as a model for a drawing class.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

If i had a girlfriend who posed nude it would not bother me
that is her business , if she had sex i would hope she tell me.

[MrKinktastic]

I’d be curious about it and wonder why they stopped

[mrdrawesome_esquire]

It was in the past, so wouldn't mind too much. Wouldn't be happy if there were pictures online

[DiscomfortZone]

Yes, but only because it would mean she was an attention whore, something I detest and would never stand for (and no, people who aren't attention whores don't pose nude)

[sapphireruby]

Nope, whats wrong with expressing your sexuality, or posting some kind of artsy nude.

[Blitzkrieg_88]

Depends on the context but let's just say that there's a difference between a girl your screwing and a girl you marry for as its written in the bible "thou canst turn a white into a wife".

[paultorio]

I have posed nude for life drawing classes. I get paid and it’s for art so. But I would never jus get nude at say a party for fun

[letsfreakinggo]

No I would be disappointed when she does so when you have a relationship

[pigoat]

If she has a nude set and/or sex video

I'm not fucking with that

[Scarecrow13]

No not really. In fact it would make for interesting conversation.

[JimboGB]

No, I would have crazier stories to tell about my past.

[jwalker4910]

Life moves forward. I have very little care about that kind of thing.

[Kato99]

If there are nude pictures of her floating around out there then it's definitely a no-go.

[Manuel2]

Revenge porn is illegal in Europe.
But in other countries like Russia and Thailand, if they don't, it will prove that they never loved you

[PrinceNeo]

The past is in the past besides I'm the one that gets to enjoy that body now so I'm the one that wins.

[Anonymous]

No. I'd actually admire her bravery and confidence to do it.

[kieranr]

If it was before the relationship it wouldn't bother me but if she was doing it whilst in a relationship without me i wouldn't be happy i want involved 😂

[Gedaria]

No , would like to look see what she looked like...

[ElvenMr]

Probably not, but i haven't been in that situation yet.

[AaronDavis]

Yeah I'd rather avoid that 😬 At the very least it would make me feel uncomfortable.

[DWornock]

Your question is too vague for a meaningful answer.

[An_Impulse]

depends on if she still in contact with that person.

[MrBreathEasy]

No I would be ok with it. Just disappointed if I asked her to do it again for me and she said no.

[Snickermarstwix]

As long as I can see them too I'm cool. Jerk off to my girl if you want, at the end of the day while you're faping on her I'm inside her.

[Lunatic1]

Not really, but it may depend on how many photos were taken.

[DavidEH1979]

NO! I'D ONLY CARE ABOUT THE NATURE OF THE PICTURES. I'D SAY NO TO A PORN STAR BUT YES TO SOMEONE WHO LIKED AND FELT COMFORTABLE WITH HER BODY.

[JamesRandiDebates]

As soon as I found out, she would immediately cease to be my "girlfriend" and revert to fuck-buddy status.

[GeraldLecter]

Nope... its the past... I like to believe the past should be kept there

[Dewril]

I wouldn t have problem with it if it was part of job. Otherwise I would think she is stupid.

[what69about69now]

only if it was made out to be a lie or never brought to table so I look the fool

[L1415]

I don’t think it’s fair to judge someone or get upset about what they did before you were together

[Gstacy703]

People don’t change so easily and I learned that the hard way😢

[Missourifried]

Modeling a legit thing, no shame

[berwise13]

Not really as long as none of our circle of friends knew about it.

[positivelife]

Na just hope she don't do it anymore, at least while with me

[MrRobot_u]

Well yeah but whatever I'm nekked everyday at someppint6

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't date a female who uses her naked body to get through life.

[FireOfSin]

By posed do you mean like for art kind or what?

[AngelLily]

Ya it would bother me.

[Kellanved]

Probably no but only if she told me immediately

[LeoElias]

Hey I would think she's a whore