Would it bother you if your girlfriend/boyfriend posed nude in the past?
If my girlfriend was posting nude pictures of herself? This did bother me a lot. Funny, I was just thinking back the other day while journaling. My last girlfriend let me know a number of times that it turned her on when others saw her nude pics on line. Before I was told this info I often wondered why she would take nude selfies... most times she would head straight to the rest room in the morning WITH her phone and something told me that she wasn't just pooping. our first real fight involved the subject of her being addicted to social media and that she wished to stop all the craziness and close ALL of her accounts across the board. She was on more than a few she explained. i felt like a jerk afterwards because she did try to communicate with me about this problem of hers. The argument broke out she tried to convince me that twitter WASN'T a Social media platform. The more I think about the past I reolized how dishonest and head trip she was with me. Especially regarding technology , her and her little click of friends. ugh. it drove me crazy to the point of sadness that I wanted to just stop my pain... I tried and contemplated more than a couple solutions...
in the end they all ended badly
Sorry ramblings, if she posted nudes in the past? No just As long as she didn't continue when we got together as It wouldn't surprise me much if she did continue.
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Not at all.
I was just explaining to another person right now that my girlfriend did some modeling as a photographic subject some years ago, and that included artistic nude.
I'm not bothered by it at all.
Yes it would be a major turn. Actually à deal breaker because I want a man with similar values and I wouldn't pose nude.
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No because it’s 2019
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Potentially, it is a huge red flag! How much concern I have would be based on how long ago it occurred, how long a time period she did that, whether pictures or videos were wide distributed and likely to still be available online, whether I trusted her representations that it went no further that just posing nude, what she has done in her life since that time, and how I would otherwise evaluate her character.
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Absolutely. I've been in that spot before. Unless she has sole control over the pictures I don't see the relationship working out. I'm not counting the normal flirty relationship pics. But yeah if she posed and either was paid or did it for an "art" project then absolutely not.
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Err... I don't think it could land him the kind of career he has now if he ever did that. He carries the company's image in a way, so...
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If the last guy I was with posed nude - there is no way I'd date him - I can't accept he sold himself as a sex object to other woman.
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I doubt that would be something that they would tell me right at the beginning of our relationship. So i would have already fallen in love with her when she told me and i can't change the past so its no use getting upset over. Id just ask to see the photos
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I have been in naked bike rides with thousands of others. Both the watching crowd and other riders take pictures, and at least one of them was prominent on the internet. Also went to many nude beaches and resorts. I am sure some were taken of me then, and I actually posed for a couple of them. I am amazed at how strange people get over nudity.
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I would wonder if he’s a player and he. Has no problem showing his nude body to every chic he finds attractive and I would find myself feeling like I have to watch him...
Also guys like that aren’t relationship or husband types... they’re usually the hook up types so ya it would bother me up to a certain extent -
Well if she's posted nude I take she's not a virgin either but we've all done something in the past we regret we don't need someone else looking down on us. so it woudnt bother me. really isn't no different than getting a new app on your phone its actually worse we've all done that lol. if you both are two adults its not gonna be a problem.
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Yes, yes it would. Even if it wasn't innately sexual, purely artistic or professional, I feel as though my partner's body should be for my eyes exclusively, and that would be violated nonetheless.
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Not bother me. I have posed nude and my hubby has in the past. Maybe diff now with Internet
Back then it was camera's poloroid etc.
Possible some of mine are on the net somewhere - 830 opinions shared on Relationships topic.
I'd probably just tease back and and ask for one. No need to make a big deal out if the situation. Posed nude for art or a picture whatever. I got the real thing and that's what matters at the end of the day.
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Posed nudes or sent nudes - To be honest neither would be a issue for me - For me the why would be more important that the event - It is more their business maybe to think about how would you feel if these pics surfaced in 10/15/20 years time?
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No should it, I posted nude for a girl's/gay magazines in the late 80s.
Hey what can I say it was easy money and no sex, just pictures
Still have a great body, maybe I should do a senior porn magazine.
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As long as she's loyal, it don't bother me. If anything id be kinda proud to have a sexually liberated girlfriend. And its not like I'll be circulating her pics to my friends and family. So no harm done
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Hell no. There's literally hundreds of nudes of me floating around out there. If they don't care, i don't care. You can't blackmail me if it doesn't matter.
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Past is the past. You can’t erase it. For me. Not an issue. But if you can’t get past it, that’s an issue that will stain your relationship
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It wouldn’t bother me at all if she was still doing it professionally.
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no not at all tbh, our past isn't who we all are, it merely helps to shape us into who we become...
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The "bigness of the deal" is simply how much of a flap someone makes of it, for most people. If you make a huge deal about it, it will become a huge deal.
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Nope, one of my exs posed nude for an art class. I miss her lol we only broke up because she had to move across the states and school was very important as she wanted a PhD
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