I had a ex boyfriend recently and he was so more invested of what his parents thought even his brother judged me and how our relationship was going. He turned to his mother a lot and it really got in the way of moving to what it could be. He told me that “My parents don’t think that our relationship will last.” Reliving those words still hurt me and telling me the truth sooner than later is what i thought would be best. Technically we both ended it mutually. I cannot have a boyfriend rely on his family’s decisions about our relationship then him being a big man and standing up. Especially if your talking about living together. He was in the same age line as yours so I think you need to think what is right for you? How long have you been together? Yes it’s gonna hurt after a while and it will hurt him. You gotta see if that is something your willing to step up and decide. Good luck.
He’s already putting his parents above you. Just know that if you continue in this relationship, his mother and parents will always come first. There will be many battles to fight so prepare yourself or find another man who isn’t a baby also.
Well good parenting can sometimes drag on too long. He probably really respects his parents and wants to make sure he makes all the right financial moves. If you have a good head on your shoulders and a decent job I wouldn’t sweat it. If you don’t have both then you have answered your own question. I had a girlfriend that I knew my parents didn’t approve. I had to go with their recommendation as they steered me right for 21 years before. Even though the sex was amazing she had zero money or motivation to work so I guess it saved me from a mistake. But that ass, man.
30 years old and needs his parents permission? What is he? A toddler? "mommy, daddy, can i go ride the carousel 🎠?"?
Clearly he's not ready to be a responsible and independent adult. You'll have a lot more problems than that with him and it will disappoint you.
find a real man!
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Ask him if you're dating him or his parents? If that doesn't work give him a spanking and tell him to grow up. If that fails also, find someone a little more mature and isn't tied to mommy's apron string.
Laugh in his face and walk away like a boss. What a man child. "Mommy can I pwease date the nice lady?"
His parents are the reason why he is a living person. He is an emotional guy
Parents are always there for his son even if he takes a wrong. If he understand this and takes a bold decision. He is your forever
Your boyfriend needs to put his big boy pants on for starters, his parents will always have some type of influence on your relationship while they are alive. Can you accept that for however long they're alive.
You are going to be second to his parents even if married. This guy needs to remain single. I love my parents yet they would never do this with me if if they possess reservations. I am my own individual.
Does he call mommy when he has to go potty at night? Does he ask them for permission to fuck you? I say let him grow up and have him call you once he graduates from kindergarten.
😬 if he’s 30 and you are as the same customs as the US I’d run!!!
Somehow he managed to be that age and still not be mature enough to make decisions like that.
Either he's a mama's boy or he is using them as an excuse to keep the relationship within his comfort level.
People confuse this and they really shouldn't. I think your boyfriend needs to realize that he can still love his parents and make his own decisions.
Respect their decision and wait maybe it's for a reason?
He's living under there approval thumb run get out of there as fast as you can
Dump the boy. Find a man.
You're supposed to move on and find an adult.
Stop dating little kids regardless of their age.
Personally. I'd leave him
The guy is a child, move on.
Get a knife and cut hid umbilical cord
Date an adult.
Say dont learn the hard way... run away
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