No your wrong because he works hard for his money and I should love he. Like a husband and your just sleeping with him for his money you sound like a prostitute I say that because if another man came along that had more money to offer you you would leave him in a heartbeat right so. You are just in it for the money and nothing else did u ever think how you could hurt him. You wouldn't even look back just leave him hanging bet you never gave that a thought
you aren’t lying so there is nothing underhanded no “ digging” it’s all on the surface.
whether other people want that kind of relationship or not does not change the fact it’s honest
I hope you guys Like each other at least.
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it sounds wrong - but is it? is it wrong to want someone to look after you when you are involved in an intimate relationship? no is it wrong to want a higher standard of living for yourself? no is it wrong that you want someone who's earning a certain amount to be your man? no
it is only wrong if you are manipulating and/or harming these men.. are you doing that? I seriously doubt it
if he is consenting to the activity = that is he is saying "yep it's fine by me" then it's not wrong at all
dont worry about society, just do what makes you happy
If they know the deal they're getting with you, and are happy to agree on those terms, then it's not "wrong". Maybe it's not "right" either, but at least it's honest.
Now if you made a guy think you like him for HIM-- but secretly just want his money-- then it's wrong, coz you've deceived him to get what you want.
I find it a stupid question. You are or fake and trying to make a fuss on here. Or you actually know it is not a very positive thing to do and you are just trying to get the answers that you already know. If you are actually convinced of what you are doing and are fine with it, you won't be asking in the first place.
How much do you make? What do you do for him? I would be totally cool paying for every part of a girls way of life, but she would have to be staying home raising our kids and keeping together our home. I don't care how hot you think you are you aren't worth doing nothing while someone else pays your way. What would you do when he cuts it off? You going to be able to take care of yourself? I have a feeling you work hard to keep a back up guy ready.
Yeah, you're a shallow vapid skank. If I met you in real life I'd pick a fight with you. Cows like you give us all a bad name. Do us all a favor and go drown in your bathtub.
Well at least you are honest. So let me lay some honesty on you. If I am paying for everything and working my ass off sex isn’t going to cut it alone. You will have to pull your weight around the place and take care of everything. Some skinny/fat ass alone won’t cut it. You will have to feed the pigs, chickens, horses, dogs, cut the grass, and make something edible. Oh yeah you will have to learn to butcher kills and shoot good. Got it? Okay! That I consider mutual.
id never do any of that for my girlfriend. she's gotta be making money too. i make over 60k and id dump you so fast after i pay for something and notice you expect me to pay every time. id feel used. i dont want a relationship thats only about money and sex. thats why id rather stay single.
If he thinks its okey then fine. But im sure if my partner would think like you do i would buy her N O T H I N G. I would buy her stuff after i find out she is NOT golddigger. And this is one of reasons im not dating, every girl that see some expensive clothes/jewerly wants to suck my dick lol.
And im also looking for girl that WORKS, EARNS HER OWN MONEY, DONT NEED ANYONES HELP. If she wants stuff then she probably can't even get her ass up lol
Thats not ur problem lol. But ill let you know i used to spend 500e+ on one night out every weekend. Probably more money then your boyfriend gives you yearly lol
And you are probably poor golddigger. Asking for other other people money is disgusting. He earned it and its his money, his decision what he gonna do with it. I probably wouldn't give you a dollar. And thats only reason im not spending money on expensive stuff and not flexing with my stuff. Cuz girls like you would die for it. Sometimes i wonder why i can't find real one, but now im thankful that i didn't find wrong one like you are lol.
Not really, idgaf about some random online peoples. Just trying to prove you that you are retarded. And cuz of you some girls will think same. And that way people are getting more and more retarded.
What happened to this feminist movement that was supposed to inspire and motivate women to break barriers and glass ceilings to better their lives? Yes it’s wrong. Why rely on a man? You don’t think if another girl comes along who’s prettier you can be dumped? End of the day no one wins if they are chasing someone for the wrong purpose (the guy gets screwed and so will the woman).
It's not wrong if both parties agree to this type of relationship. The problem is that there's always going to be women that are in better shape, better looking and willing to accept less than $60k a year. Enjoy it while you can cause' , looks wise , it's all down hill after your late 20's.
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Sad just sad.. U use them for their money them for ur body, pathetic transaction just like prostitution. Don't waste your youth on fake things, that's not what really matters. Of course it is good tto say u want a stable boyfriend who is studying or has a job, but to go for someone because of their money without love is just waste of time. But as long as you are honest and he is honest about it then no harm, then everybody is happy so you can do that if you want to ad nothing wrong.
lol so basically you're a prostitute. Nice! Well if the men you're dating are aware of your expectations to which they're ok w, I guess it's fine. But in 20 years when you're titties are sagging to your belly button I hope you have a backup plan by then. Good luck to you.
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Yeah, I think it’s slightly wrong. Men are worth more than just being used. But the bigger problem is that you’re reducing yourself to a pet, a toy. If you can live with that, that’s fine. It‘s morally wrong to use men for money and/or sex though.
I never made over $49K a year, yet we've owned our house for years, each have a car, put the kids through college with no debt, gave them each a car and $5K to start. I guess I must be doing something wrong.
Doesn't sound like a loving relationship, if you two are using each other. However, I see nothing wrong with wanting your man to have money, cuz no one likes a broke n----.
My question is if you are together for a decade, would you leave him immediately because he lost his job?
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I would not like you as a friend. I don't like the idea of being used.
My ex-wife was like you. Once she bled me dry of my saving. Then took me to court and got 70% of what was left in the divorce.
I have learned to never trust people like you.
No your wrong because he works hard for his money and I should love he. Like a husband and your just sleeping with him for his money you sound like a prostitute I say that because if another man came along that had more money to offer you you would leave him in a heartbeat right so. You are just in it for the money and nothing else did u ever think how you could hurt him. You wouldn't even look back just leave him hanging bet you never gave that a thought
No you guys have a mutual Arrangement
you aren’t lying so there is nothing underhanded no “ digging” it’s all on the surface.
whether other people want that kind of relationship or not does not change the fact it’s honest
I hope you guys Like each other at least.
it sounds wrong - but is it?
is it wrong to want someone to look after you when you are involved in an intimate relationship? no
is it wrong to want a higher standard of living for yourself? no
is it wrong that you want someone who's earning a certain amount to be your man? no
it is only wrong if you are manipulating and/or harming these men.. are you doing that? I seriously doubt it
if he is consenting to the activity = that is he is saying "yep it's fine by me" then it's not wrong at all
dont worry about society, just do what makes you happy
If they know the deal they're getting with you, and are happy to agree on those terms, then it's not "wrong". Maybe it's not "right" either, but at least it's honest.
Now if you made a guy think you like him for HIM-- but secretly just want his money-- then it's wrong, coz you've deceived him to get what you want.
I find it a stupid question.
You are or fake and trying to make a fuss on here.
Or you actually know it is not a very positive thing to do and you are just trying to get the answers that you already know.
If you are actually convinced of what you are doing and are fine with it, you won't be asking in the first place.
How much do you make? What do you do for him? I would be totally cool paying for every part of a girls way of life, but she would have to be staying home raising our kids and keeping together our home.
I don't care how hot you think you are you aren't worth doing nothing while someone else pays your way.
What would you do when he cuts it off? You going to be able to take care of yourself? I have a feeling you work hard to keep a back up guy ready.
Yeah, you're a shallow vapid skank. If I met you in real life I'd pick a fight with you. Cows like you give us all a bad name. Do us all a favor and go drown in your bathtub.
Well at least you are honest. So let me lay some honesty on you. If I am paying for everything and working my ass off sex isn’t going to cut it alone. You will have to pull your weight around the place and take care of everything. Some skinny/fat ass alone won’t cut it. You will have to feed the pigs, chickens, horses, dogs, cut the grass, and make something edible. Oh yeah you will have to learn to butcher kills and shoot good. Got it? Okay! That I consider mutual.
Damnnn girl that was awesome!!!
id never do any of that for my girlfriend. she's gotta be making money too. i make over 60k and id dump you so fast after i pay for something and notice you expect me to pay every time. id feel used. i dont want a relationship thats only about money and sex. thats why id rather stay single.
If he thinks its okey then fine. But im sure if my partner would think like you do i would buy her N O T H I N G. I would buy her stuff after i find out she is NOT golddigger.
And this is one of reasons im not dating, every girl that see some expensive clothes/jewerly wants to suck my dick lol.
And im also looking for girl that WORKS, EARNS HER OWN MONEY, DONT NEED ANYONES HELP.
If she wants stuff then she probably can't even get her ass up lol
Ur probably broke anyway. You are 18 years old. Lol
Thats not ur problem lol. But ill let you know i used to spend 500e+ on one night out every weekend. Probably more money then your boyfriend gives you yearly lol
And you are probably poor golddigger. Asking for other other people money is disgusting. He earned it and its his money, his decision what he gonna do with it. I probably wouldn't give you a dollar. And thats only reason im not spending money on expensive stuff and not flexing with my stuff. Cuz girls like you would die for it.
Sometimes i wonder why i can't find real one, but now im thankful that i didn't find wrong one like you are lol.
Earn your self 60k yearly then you dont need rich boyfriend gold digger alert
Someone is triggered
Not really, idgaf about some random online peoples. Just trying to prove you that you are retarded. And cuz of you some girls will think same. And that way people are getting more and more retarded.
I can't take you seriously if you think "retarded" is an insult.
Well think what you want lol
What happened to this feminist movement that was supposed to inspire and motivate women to break barriers and glass ceilings to better their lives? Yes it’s wrong. Why rely on a man? You don’t think if another girl comes along who’s prettier you can be dumped? End of the day no one wins if they are chasing someone for the wrong purpose (the guy gets screwed and so will the woman).
"People say I am a gold digger but my boyfriends usually know what it is and use me for my body so they are doing the same thing."
You are trying to dance around the simple fact that you are a prostitute, selling your body for material things.
It's not wrong if both parties agree to this type of relationship. The problem is that there's always going to be women that are in better shape, better looking and willing to accept less than $60k a year. Enjoy it while you can cause' , looks wise , it's all down hill after your late 20's.
Sad just sad.. U use them for their money them for ur body, pathetic transaction just like prostitution. Don't waste your youth on fake things, that's not what really matters. Of course it is good tto say u want a stable boyfriend who is studying or has a job, but to go for someone because of their money without love is just waste of time. But as long as you are honest and he is honest about it then no harm, then everybody is happy so you can do that if you want to ad nothing wrong.
Either this is a troll, or you came from here https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/d1mpsx/how_to_never_ever_pay_on_a_date/
lol so basically you're a prostitute. Nice! Well if the men you're dating are aware of your expectations to which they're ok w, I guess it's fine. But in 20 years when you're titties are sagging to your belly button I hope you have a backup plan by then. Good luck to you.
Yeah, I think it’s slightly wrong.
Men are worth more than just being used. But the bigger problem is that you’re reducing yourself to a pet, a toy. If you can live with that, that’s fine.
It‘s morally wrong to use men for money and/or sex though.
Yes, it's wrong.
I never made over $49K a year, yet we've owned our house for years, each have a car, put the kids through college with no debt, gave them each a car and $5K to start. I guess I must be doing something wrong.
Excellent budgeting skills. I know people who make $250K+ who are always broke.
You can have all of that but it must've been extremely difficult to live that kinda life. Think of all the saving that you have to do.
@nella965 Wasn't all that hard. Just have to be consistent and determined.
49k is considered nothing where i live in nyc. I’d rather work harder to make more money than to save hard for everything
@nella965 That's in 1993 dollars.
Might be 15k or so more. It still wouldn’t be anywhere close to being rich. I find working harder to make more money easier than saving hard
Doesn't sound like a loving relationship, if you two are using each other.
However, I see nothing wrong with wanting your man to have money, cuz no one likes a broke n----.
My question is if you are together for a decade, would you leave him immediately because he lost his job?