Is it wrong I only like men for their money? (Page 2)

Question

It sounds wrong, but if a man isn't working at least 60k a year I dont want him and he must have a car and be able to provide for me. My current boyfriend pays my phone bill and buys my groceries. Must be able to splurge a little too. People say I am a gold digger but my boyfriends usually know what it is and use me for my body so they are doing the same thing. Is it wrong? Especially if it is mutual?

TayTay21 · Answer

No, it's not wrong. But there's an old saying about going about it that way: when you marry for money, you earn every penny.

YourFutureEx · Answer

60K+ a year A car Phone bills Groceries Plus extra maintenance Never knew that sex is that expensive in murica 😂

Billlewis · Answer

Absolutely not! I'm sure many guys appreciate your honesty and candor. I think you're probably a fantastic catch, and if I were younger, I'd certainly pursue you, I know that.

JackPreacher · Answer

Not wrong just honest, well as long as you shoot straight and you tell it their face, otherwise you are a maniputive and shady person, and that is whole different story... Good luck

Konfuzedidiyot · Answer

It’s not wrong, it’s jus a lie, you can like the “man” for his money, you like the money for the money, you love the money,
You should jus go out with the money and have a romantic relationship with the money Cos you can’t care about the man if the only thing that makes him attractive is his money,

You seem like a cold hearted person with no or little emotion

Jus go fuck some cash sacks that’s my suggestion, or work in a bank

MannMitAntworten · Answer

No. At least you are up front and honest about who you are and what you expect. There is a lot to be said for that. Both sides are happy so I see zero wrong with this.

hankhill89 · Answer

Not necessarily. It just makes me feel sad because it feels like I'll never actually feel desired or wanted for ME and not for what I can do for people.

CubsterShura · Answer

You're not wrong, but your question is. You don't like men with money, you simply like money.

Juxtapose · Answer

So you're a live-in prostitute. At least you are honest about it.

pyrro_ · Answer

It might not be wrong if he gets what he want and you too but this relationship will be full of emptiness. Sounds awful to me.

Commander_Red · Answer

You don't like men. You like money. There is a difference.  For this reason, yes, I think it's wrong. Same for men who only like women for their body. Neither of you actually care about each other.

Shiver · Answer

You sound more like a sugar baby than a gold digger to me. Figure out which is worse for yourself, but if it's mutual it doesn't matter. Just do you I guess.

lofii · Answer

there's a lot more girls with more to offer that's less demanding than you. The guy you're with must be ugly and desperate staying with a low grade hooker like you

JacobRoto · Answer

It is wrong for both ways. You need help because that is not a healthy relationship. Then again, if it works for both of you, do whatever makes you happy.

WhiteShoulder · Answer

Not wrong, I did it once, but I defo wouldn't do it anymore. Caddies are nice but they're too big. I like a little Alfa Romeo better.

Kitty46 · Answer

If you want men for their money, you won’t have real love, I’m not talking about love for their money. I have a boyfriend, he lives in UK & he is in Asia for work, he makes great money, I love him for him.

Browneye57 · Answer

Not so much, but admitting it is.
Hopefully you're getting something out of it as well.

The girls that say money doesn't matter, surely are not dating dead-broke guys. Who do they think they're kidding?

Nadim171 · Answer

Umm.. you're not a horrible person because you're asking, and since you're asking you're a little suspicious of what you're doing which is a good start. Men aren't an ATM machine, why don't you go work?

AiahZ · Answer

Only as wrong as guys only liking you for how tight your vagina is.

oldguyincanada · Answer

The problem is that you might get to my age and see that the power of money has worn off, but have nothing else to take it's place.

EmbraceThePain · Answer

Yes, I personally think it’s wrong to only like men for their money.

Anonymous · Answer

No, they don't have much else to offer anyway. They're demanding and always complaining, having a boyfriend is like having a baby so asking for a bit of money in exchange to put up with it is not much.

Supermosh1990 · Answer

You have high standards , you are completely wrong to want a man for his money . Also gives off a very greedy vibe

Nik1hil · Answer

1) It's not wrong if it's mutual. 2) This isn't Gold digging, unless your demands are very high class expensive stuff..  3) That simply makes you not a earner, but a builder.. And nurture..

karlota · Answer

It's not wrong. You're just practical but girl, your body will get old so you better be serious about relationships, go deeper and not focus on shallow things.

Pamina · Answer

I personally find it messed up and sociopathic, but if your guy is aware and okay with it I don't consider it "wrong".

Stan83 · Answer

If it’s more like be with someone that is ambitious, hard worker and paying his bills, there is nothing wrong with it.

Flower7 · Answer

It's only wrong if it's not mutual. Otherwise, that's between the two of you and if that's what makes you happy, then it's no one else's business.

something_memorable · Answer

Its wrong, as in its not good, but if thats the arrangement and everyones consenting then i dont guess its immoral.

Mooddie · Answer

There is no right or wrong in life. our conscience is all that matters. are you happy about it? Whatever your answer is, you know what to do.

Unit1 · Answer

You do you, gold digger.  You'll live with every single of the justified consequences of your every action.

WalterRadio · Answer

You have low standards. The women I date tend to only date men who make over $100k.

madgoat · Answer

You'll need a lot more than a 21yo body to catch the eye of more successful men for more than a short time.

genericname85 · Answer

if it's not wrong for a man to only like you for your body, then i guess that's fair enough.

Paul09 · Answer

Well you can get yourself a rich 90 year old man then. But no one likes a gold digger. Being handed everything and not earning it. Non dependent, no real skill. What's the point of your life? To make others miserable?

abc3643 · Answer

Yes, it is wrong and, in the long run, it will make you miserable.

worldscolide · Answer

Very much so.. Partly because you only see men as success objects to be used. It's the same as seeing women as sex objects.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm guessing you have no plan in store for when you turn 30 or 40? Also, feels so much like a troll question that I'm thinking a dude could be faking this account just to fuck with people.

egarcia1360 · Answer

If everyone involved knows what's going on and is okay with it, I don't see the issue.

iFarted · Answer

Soo why dont you just say that you want a sugar daddy? Be up front about it...

Levin · Answer

It is what it is. Do you think you will be satisfied with such superficiality in the future?

glutendan · Answer

You can go ahead and treat relationships like a transaction but it essentially makes you a prostitute.

goldcoast · Answer

There’s nothing morally wrong about it as long as it’s consensual. I would say that you might not find true happiness in that type of relationship though.

skeetskeetskeet · Answer

Your not alone.. and good job keeping it real... i made over 200k this year and I see it all... the best I think are the girls who claim they dont care about money... yet you never see them with a broke dude haha

DamnSam · Answer

If you're ok with that they dump you when something is "wrong" with your body...

Rangers · Answer

Yes, that's a one sided relationship and by definition makes you a gold digger.

Kdude010 · Answer

You're going against all of those feminist talking points about women being "strong" and "independent" lol

Also, yes it is wrong. You're grown woman. Get a job and stop leeching. No man has the time to take care of a grown woman.

godlovesweed · Answer

No I mean I only like girls for the sex.. see how shallow that makes me?

normalice · Answer

if you only demand 60k, you aren't just in it for the money..

Anonymous · Answer

It's not wrong at all. He has the money, and you have the honey. My boyfriend and I are struggling to pay the bills, so I date the landlord on the side. Problem solved.

Anonymous · Answer

No, I only like a woman for there body and their sex skills. So if they not up to par or talk too much i don't deal with them.

And i only date girls who make equal money to me or more. I only fuck broke bitches. Which is a lot of them

MrKinktastic · Answer

Wrong, not necessarily. It’s definitely gold digging though.

Account · Answer

As long as he knows it. No one cares. It is none of my business.

arabgoddess · Answer

I think that's the norm for girls these days.. But I'm not into rich guys.. I don't trust them!

ThisIsMyOpinion · Answer

And here we have troll number 1031963497491#. Are you having fun making all those guys mad honey? xD

Anonymous · Answer

It’s degenerate. If it works for you then it works, but it’s still degenerate.

We permit people to do all sorts of stuff, eg be horribly fat. If it works for them then fine, but it’s still degenerate.

Same vein.

Ripper_E · Answer

Yea. It's called being a gold digger. There is no way around that lol that's what you are and it's pathetic.

Jwags · Answer

Well, if it is important that you have a certain lifestyle, I guess. But when you say 'ONLY' for their money, I think that is a problem and I doubt you will be very happy long term.

lovedejj_xo · Answer

You’re a sugar baby in a relationship with said boyfriend. Stop fucking him and I guarantee he’ll leave. Do whatever you want as long as you know what it is

dbr1987 · Answer

And what do you bring to the table? A pussy and some tits a bunch of std's and A bodycount through the roof. You are a entitled bitch. The only thing you deserve is a cardboard box and anticonception.

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