How do I make my 26 year old sister break up with her 42 year old boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

So my sister is in a relationship with this guy who happens to be 16 years older then her. I say it's weird I want her to go back with her ex boyfriend but she says she wants a real man not a boy now how is a 25 year old a boy that's a man that has had life experience and mature. Now I called her ex boyfriend I told him a lie that my sister wanted him back. I decided to invited my sisters ex to Starbucks and my sister but she didn't know her ex. When my sister comes in things got worst me thinking I was for the better. Thanks to my sister now her ex got angry at me and he called me a liar which I am not all thanks to my sister. My sister yelled at him she told him that he was immature, disrespectful that her feelings for him have been long gone. All I know they broke up in 2012 . According to my sister she tells me that this 42 year old boyfriend was there for her during this past 6 years when she was going threw a hard time in her life as the years went on she ended up having feelings for her now 42 year old boyfriend. It was uncalled for my sister to treat her ex she said she never wanted to see her ex. Come on this man is old enough to be her dad, Oh my sister got so angry she won't talk to me answer my text or phone calls. How do I make my sister break up with her old man?

[AzureGirl]

You really shouldn’t be butting into your sisters relationship regardless of how you feel about it. What it comes down to is that they’re consenting adults capable of making their own decisions and you doing what you’re doing is going to accomplish nothing but driving a wedge in your relationship with your sister.

[sejla]

Stop. What you did was unfair to the ex you called and not nice to her current boyfriend. Her current boyfriend might be a good guy.

[Furuok]

Hey! Don't screw with perfection! Age is only a number, love should be tried on all boundaries. And if a 50 yr. old woman has a boy toy of 35 is this okay? Do you not believe in everlasting life? I happen to think 46 and 29 are very freakishly freaking hot! Now? What was this? Something bout your sister?

[Asker]

My 27 year old sister is dating this 42 year old dude. I want her to get back with her now ex boyfriend he is 25 years old. When they broke up he was 18 and she was 19 . I know perfect for each other. Now my sister isn't talking to me anymore.

[Asker]

If a 50 year old woman wants a 35 year old dude so what my respects She go girl , YEAH!

[Furuok]

When I was 37 I fell for a 19 year old. It was very awkward for me. But we remained friends, no sex or commitments. After five years I realized how strange it felt in the beginning. Now 9 years of awesomeness I am really happy to have someone very honest an loyal. ? Her 29 me 46 ?
Now you two are sisters? Correct? Blood sisters, same mother & same father? Mature is providing for yourself, stable job, stable way of life? Not depending on parents or outside resources to provide income for normal responsibilities. Have you ever met the boyfriend of her's?

[Asker]

Yes We have met the creep, And yes we have the same parents mother and father. We live in our own apartment. My sister has a bachelors degree in business and I have a degree in bachelors in gaming design. My 21 year old boyfriend and I had just move in together. Why would you want to date a 29 year old that is creepy on so many levels?

[Asker]

Yes we all met her boyfriend, He help her when she was having a difficult time with anxiety my family and I couldn't handle her she was a real pain in the ass. He took care of her but still it doesn't matter he is old.

[Furuok]

I have two kids one 20 and the other 23 , my daughter feel the same way you do. My son thinks, the older one, happiness has finally found me. I been divorced for 11 years now. I still pay child support on one of them. I'm retired at 42 worked double shifts most of my life. I felt like a creep at first, I love football, we love the same team, that doesn't matter. But I enjoy music when I want to listen some, she often feels the same way. An I like it loud sometimes and when I turn it on. She always begins to smile, I love what she does for a living and I have resources to where we go. The age gap is lets say I will definitely be waiting for her in heaven. Creepy yes! Very romantically evolved, yes. I don't know it just not bitter sweet, like we read each others minds. On the same wave, view the same ocean. I know what she's thinking when she smiles. I don't have to ask for a response, true love has no questions?

[Furuok]

Truth be told, she broke up with me a year ago. Right before Valentine's Day, funny thing is we met on Valentine's Day in a restaurant nine years ago. I don't know why, maybe someone got to her, like her sister. I would feel creepy if I should. But we never had a fight not even an argument.

[Rob19777]

Wow you are a massive cunt

[rockstar91]

its your mistake, why did you lie to him that she wanted to meet? she even didn't know to meet her there
dont do like this...
and you may be right about 42 year old man, but nothing to do
its her life, never mind
if she thinks its wrong, she will not talk to him anymore

[Asker]

But they're closer in age plush he is my best friends little bro.

[rockstar91]

yeah i see what u mean
but your sister doesn't think like you
and it was back in 2012...8 years ago
u shouldn't do things like that without informing your sister
yes you can tell her break up 42 year old man, but if he is good man its ok
if he uses her, she should break up.
she knows it.

[Asker]

Well I must admit he was the one taking care of her taking her to therapy session while she was dealing with anxiety. None of my family could not deal with her. Still it doesn't matter he is way to old for her. Still her is he is 25 years old he might have change over the years.

[rockstar91]

Well I don't know what to say
I hope everyone gets happy

[Asker]

Hey you are perfect for my sister.

[rockstar91]

Lol thanks but you dont know me
Please you should stop choosing a person for her ı think
I hope you and she will get good men
:)

[Rob19777]

YOU ARE A NASTY VINDICTIVE MEAN AND SPITEFUL CUNT

[Asker]

@Rob19777 I am 29 years old how dare you called me such degrading mean awful names.

[Rob19777]

Then quit acting like one and I won't

[CodyMckiver]

Please don't do it for the love of God , Don't do it. Please don't make this whole situation lead things to go on a extreme direction. My cousin would have been the same age as your sister 26 , He now widow is now 42 . My aunt wouldn't approve of the relationship. Its a sad story, My cousin refuse to break her relationship with her boyfriend. They made things to keep them separate, She got up in front of my aunt point the gun in her head and shut herself. She kill her self. I feel I can't never forgive my aunt over my cousin death 😭. Please before it's too late , Let her be happy. This man loves her so much. Just let her be happy. Don't make her do something you will later regret. Now my cousin is dead all because of my aunt, I will never forgive her.

[Asker]

That is because you're cousin was stupid, How is it my fault she's dead?

[lightbulb27]

yea, that was bad, you did lie to him and you are playing a role you shouldn't.

your sister bonded with another man when she was down in the dumps, that happens a lot. You can't make her do anything... people don't change until the hit rock bottom and see a reason to change. If he treats her well, is not abusing her.. e. g. loves her, then it's her life.

[Dchrls78104]

The truth is, you don't. It is not your place to meddle in her personal life. It would be more productive to focus on yours. Your sister might have told you the same thing because you say she doesn't speak to you. If he makes her happy and treats her well, his age is not an issue for her; neither should it be for you.

[Asker]

No she won't speak to me , My sister is a bitch.

[Dchrls78104]

More likely she was angered by your meddling in her personal life. It is not for you to determine who is suitable or not for your sister or whether he's too old or whatever for her. That option is hers alone and realising and coming to terms with that fact would go far towards repairing your relationship with your sister.

[Asker]

She choose her old man over me.

[Asker]

You are a fucking jack ass, I am 29 years old about to be 30 . I have more life experience. FYI it is only okay for a grown woman to date younger man. It is not okay for man to date young woman. Only grown woman can date young guys.

[winterfox10]

Sometimes people just need to learn things for themselves. It sucks, it's kinda stupid, but there isn't anything you can really do; she's an adult. She's eventually going to realize that her older and more mature guy is just looking for something shorter term than she's willing to provide, but that's a bridge that she needs to decide that she wants to cross.

[Nuespeed9948]

Id say the best thing to do would just to be honest with your sister and voice your concerns. Ultimately you shouldn't try to break them up however that shouldn't mean that you should stay absolutely quiet if you have concerns along the way

[parjacpar]

There was 23 years between my parents my dad being the eldest and it worked with over 30 years of happy marriage

Only ended thanks to lung cancer and my dad became a widow

[Rob19777]

Wow sorry to hear

[parjacpar]

Don't worry that happened over 14 years ago and they never had argument

[Asker]

Wow and your grandma was okay with the relationship

[parjacpar]

Yes as my dad and mums dad were friends before my mum married my dad

[Anonymous]

U should let ur sister be. After all, it's her life that ur talking about; not urs. So what if they have a big age gap when they love each other? That's all that matters. Maybe she wasn't happy with her ex after all that's y they broke up. Age is just a number after all. At least she's in a legal age. It's not like she's a child anymore

[Rob19777]

Why don't you mind your own business and STAY OUT OF YOUR SISTER'S RELATIONSHIP. In other words BUTT OUT

[Rob19777]

Why don't you mind your own business and let your sister live her life. She's a grown woman capable of making her own decisions and doesn't need your jealousy to cause her shit

[Rob19777]

All I can see if your bitter hatred towards a guy you don't even know and your jealousy and anger. Why don't you worry about your own life and quit making her life the center of your own and let her live her own life however she wants to and you live yours how you want to without you butting in to her personal affairs

[Rob19777]

Just by this sheer question you seem like a nasty vindictive cunt

[Rob19777]

I'm gonna share a story with you. For the past 2+ years lots of people who knew my girl and me (including her own family) hated my guts for no reason at all. People that knew me and her did EVERYTHING in their power to sabotage things between us with one even saying "We'll make sure you'll never be with..." They were doing everything they could to prevent me from being with her because they hated my guts for whatever reasons they had whether it be my age or the fact they were so hung up with her being with her ex or whoever they chose for her like she didn't even get to have a say in how she lives her own life. I want to tell you stuff that happened years ago but it's way to personal to talk about on here.
I will say this to you though instead of being so selfish why don't you put yourself in the other persobs shoes for once and see things from their perspective instead of always yours

[Rob19777]

I've had her own mom tell me not to take a plane out to see her when a really bad situation occured a while back and she had my calls to the hospital blocked by telling the hospital to say she wasn't a patient there and even had her ex to see her when she was in the hospital instead of me which was the biggest slap in the face of all. And literally one week before something happened to her I told her mom my girl needed to see somebody to help her out and her mom didn't want to hear anything about it. And when she was in the hospital i tried telling her mom the potential allergic reactions she could have while on certain medications and once again her mom kept saying to let her and them figure it out and not to believe everything i hear and so on and to give them space and so on. And when my girl wasn't taking her recovery time seriously i once again got into ww3 with her mom over that which once again she didn't care. The onmy reason she even did anything was because i went to my girl's ex under a fake account to have him talk to my girls mom since she listened to him more than she did me and that's when my girl took her recovery seriously

[Rob19777]

I never told my girl ANY of what happened the constant fights between me and her mom all those years ago because i didn't want to drive a wedge between those two. And with regards to everyone else i always kept that part to myself as well how a lot of other people were trying to deliberately sabotage things between me and her and what was said.

[Rob19777]

You really have no idea what it's like to walk into somebody's shoes or know what that person has bern through with the woman they love.
So quit trying to ruin things for her out of pitiful anger jealousy and whatever mean vindictive streak you have and let her be happy for once without your meddling interference

[Rob19777]

Also when i told her mom i wanted to take a plane out there all she said was to give the family some space to sort things out which i did and respected their wishes. Then it was everything else i stated earlier with the nonstop blowouts between me and her mom all those years ago.
And with regards to other people and one saying We'll make sure you never date her we'll do everything in our power to make sure of that. It hurt it was really fucked up hearing that. I mean imagine telling a complete stranger somebody you don't even know that and deliberately doing everything you can to ruin yes ruin two people's lives who never did anything wrong to you. While having all that scheming and coniving deceitful behavior take place behind yiur back for years upon years by other people without you even knowing all so they can fulfill some sick fantasy of theirs by having a complete stranger someone they don't even know personally be with her ex or anybody else other than you. How fucked up is that having that take place for years behind your back

[Rob19777]

So do your sister and her boyfriend and her ex a favor and just stay out of their lives and let them life their own lives and you live yiurs and worry about your own for a change and not other people who are capable of living their own lives

[Asker]

Well my sister she is crazy and a real pain she is telling making up stories about her ex rapid her. . My mom and I believe my sister ex more he helps at church he would never do that. Thanks to my sister her poor ex went to jail of course cops believe everything a female says. I do know the guy he help her out with therapy and her difficult times yes he was there to deal with her since my mom and I can't stand her we had no choice to kick her out of the house. My sister can be annoying no one in our family can't stand her she is the black sheep of the family. My sister she is a fucking bitch I wish my mother has even got to the point where she regrets having her. Her boyfriend has now brainwashed my sister he claims that he protects her and cares a lot more then my mom and I do. My sister and her now husband elope behind our backs. My sister she is stupid she choose an older guy over a 25 year old that goes to church. Her ex's wanted to get back with her in 2014 she claims that her feelings towards him are history long gone. Why she is the one that fuck up. He ex had to put her in her place.

[Asker]

I am sorry what you had to go threw we don't have control over this things. I hope you and your girl are together. Please don't be rude to me calling me a cunt why?

[Rob19777]

You shouldn't talk so badly or ill of your sister. You should love her and show her kindness and give her the respect she deserves. Didn't jesus say to love your enemies and to show them kindness and to turn the other cheek (or something to that nature) Both you and your mom should start showing her kindness and compassion and be happy for her that she found someone who loves her rather than think and speak so negatively of her which she doesn't deserve.

[Rob19777]

since my mom and I can't stand her we had no choice to kick her out of the house. My sister can be annoying no one in our family can't stand her she is the black sheep of the family. My sister she is a fucking bitch I wish my mother has even got to the point where she regrets having her. ... With all this negativity and hate it's no wonder she's in therapy to learn how to cope with the likes of you and your mom. You haven't said one nice thing about her or one positive thing about her since you been on here complaining about her. I'm surprised she doesn't disown the both of you's. I'm just very appauled by how you can speak to someone like that

[Rob19777]

And just so you know I'm the black sheep of my family. And what's more fucked up about your poor attitude is I'm willing to bet your sister would still help you and your mom out if either of you's ever needed it because that's the kind of person she is. She's the bigger more moral person than both of you's (you and your mom) combined

[Rob19777]

And you might want to learn to do math properly because your age gap is wrong

[Rob19777]

Treat others the way you want to be treated with respect and kindness it'll help a lot because I can willingly bet your sister hasn't spoken ill of you not even once

[Asker]

You want to talk about Jesus let's start off with you not calling me a cunt How old is your girl

[Asker]

Yes I owe my sister money because I just got a new apartment I didn't have a job a few months ago , But now I do. But anyway my sister needs to grow up and mature. She is with a man that's old enough to be her dad. You do know my sister elope with this 42 year old now what does that say about me sister doing shit behind our back.

[Asker]

Will you please stop being rude too me

[Rob19777]

So your sister was kind enough to give you money for an apartment when you didn't have a job, you still didn't pay her backthe money you owe her, and you still talk shit about her after all she's done for you. You really are evil and completely dispicable. You know what you remind me of Cinderella's evil step sisters.
And just an fyi my girl is the same age as your sister and I happen to be very much in love with my girl with all my heart. And if anything YOU have a lot of growing up and maturing to do with how bad you talk about your sister.

[Rob19777]

And just for the record my girl is the same age as your sister AND I would love to marry me girl it would be Heaven on Earth if ever given that blessing. I lay in bed a lot of nights just thinking and sometimes praying and imagining and dreaming what it would be like just to hug (yes hug) my girl being able to hold her
When you have or experience that kind of love then you'll understand what I'm talking about.
Your sister is a good woman show her some kindness then maybe you'll get some in return

[Asker]

Did you had plans on proposal?

[Asker]

Is your girl beautiful?

[Rob19777]

Yes and yes. I wanted to pop the question to her numerous times but was always afraid she would say no. She knows I bought her a diamond engagement ring because I showed her the ring numerous times I just never asked the question I guess I've always been to scared she would say no. And yes she is beautiful both inside and out. She's very sweet smart funny always knows how to make me smile (like right now while I'm thinking about her) I'm head over heels crazy about her

[Rob19777]

Of course she's beautiful I masturbated to her picture last night and a few days before that and a few days before that as well lol. Sometimes it's hard to stay focused on her sexy body because I keep looking in her beautiful eyes and gorgeous face when I'm masturbating that I worry about getting blue balls because of it lol 😆

[Asker]

What year did you meet how did you met her?

[Asker]

Is she beautiful like a Hollywood star? Why would you masterbate at her picture next thing what you are going to be kissing her pictures. So is your girl like the love of your life?

[Asker]

Well I mean your girl is old enough to be your daughter.

[Asker]

Well I must say it's speak a lot from you , Making sure you took care of your girl and never tell her the whole fake account situation. I'm surprised and shock I mean wow you really love your girl!

[Rob19777]

Yes she is the love of my life <3 I love her with all my heart and soul. I started talking to her over 2+ years ago and saw her one state above me when she was in the area for business/for her career back in 2018. I started talking to her late 2017. I'll never forget that day when I first saw her my jaw dropped. All I kept saying was Holy Shit I still remember it like it was yesterday. I'm just glad she didn't burst out laughing when she saw my reaction. I kept thinking don't laugh don't laugh because she saw my jaw drop from her very presence. Then about half way of our encounter I saw her sitting down and started wondering what she was thinking and all I could think about was hugging her and talking to her. I been in love with her for as long as I could remember and still very much am to this day and more so with every passing day

[Rob19777]

She was the very first woman I ever bought an engagement ring for. The others from my past the closest I came was promise rings nothing near this level

[Rob19777]

When you're willing to give your very life for someone that's love and I would give mine for hers

[Asker]

Did you wanted to caress her or even try to?

[Rob19777]

All I ever wanted was a hug

[Asker]

I can see you love you're girl a lot! Why

[Asker]

To masturbate her picture now that's to creepy

[Asker]

What's with man your age group dating woman my sister age group. I keep seeing a lot of 16 year age Gap. I noticed that a lot. Why would man your age want to date a 26 year old?

[Rob19777]

You know what you're getting creepy. I can tell this isn't just one person but multiple people using this account. So FUCK OFF

[Rob19777]

And I can tell you're also typing your asinine nonsense from a stupid cellphone as well. So just how many people are using that account you made

[Rob19777]

And don't sit here giving me the shit that only one person is using that account you're on now because I can tell just by talking to you the personalities have varied a great deal throughout this whole conversation. So there's clearly more than one person using the account you're on now

[Rob19777]

And your English has been going from really good to real shitty. And you haven't kept your sister's age number the same since I began talking to you or with any other comments you made on other people's posts you been making her age vary by one to a few years difference. So again just how many people are using your stupid account?

[Rob19777]

Next time learn to keep your damn story straight or at least have the same person use the account not multiple people using it especially those who's English sucks

[Asker]

Jack Ass , You are the one that started calling me a cunt. I had to get someone else to continue on with the conversation. Just so you know I have no idea where my sister could. She left with an old bastard that happens to be your same age by the way she is actually 26 . You are actually calling me creepy , Excuse me you are the one that is rubbing the cradle! Just so you know whole idea of my question is to figure out why old man like you want younger woman. I hope your girl gets into a car accident!

[Rob19777]

Why don't you and whoever else is using your lame ass account go fuck yourself you nasty fucking jealous spiteful vindictive cunt

[Rob19777]

People like you are worthless scum with absolutely no value or use in society

[Rob19777]

And jist for the record whoever was taking on the conversation before your piece of shit ass came back online was a lot nicer than your worthless scumbag ass ever will be you lowlife fucking piece of shit. People like you are a god damn waste of sperm egg and oxygen and valuable resources

[Asker]

I hope something happens to your stupid useless disgusting waste of space girlfriend

[Rob19777]

I hope something happens to you remember karma what you wish for will happen to you. You reap what you sew

[Rob19777]

Sow*

[Asker]

I can't continue on with you. You are being hurtful right now , You know that! You are getting under my skin right now if I could I would punch. The second person that took over he is one of my guy friends, He ask to take over something nice I am search for my sister God know where she could be. Since he is a guy I tough he would understand you more since he is a male. He wants to talk to you for some advice he wants to give. I don't give a fuck what you said. Your fucking girl is a stupid cunt for dating a Jack ass like you. GOODBYE SIR! Your girl should have did on that day she was at that hospital!

[Asker]

Hi look I know you are upset , I am just helping my friend here. I am one of her minions helping her. Please don't be mad listen to me from guy to guy. Don't wait Go and propose to your girl like you said before she is the love of ur life , So why wait? Take control just do it. Listen man I was like you I was scare to propose because I was scare of her to say no to me. She broke it of because she said I never propose to her and left me. Don't wait just plan something romantic take her to her favorite place and surprised her. I will promise you she will say yes to you. Just do it bro why wait!

[Rob19777]

Wow you are nasty. Pure evil through your core. I feel sorry for you and only hope someday you're able to find goodness in your heart and in your life especially before you pass judgement onto others

[Asker]

Trust me man, Your girl is waiting for you to propose. You already told her you buy a proposal ring. You got her hopes up , She is just waiting on you for that special day to propose.

[Asker]

Look I know you are upset , I owe you an apology. I apologized for using this account it's my friends I am just helping her that's all. Still I owe you an apology. I also like to apologise for my friend's unacceptable behavior and the way she acted with you. So far I do see you are a good person. You didn't deserve whatever happened two years ago about your girl.

[Rob19777]

Why is your friend so mean and coldhearted? If she treats people like that, tgat doesn't say very much about her character as a person. So why hang around or associate with someone of that nature? Look you seem like a good guy I just don't want to see someone like her drag you down the same toxic path she is on. Just go back and reread all of the commebts she said about her sister. How can anyone talk to another human being like that especially one that is a blood relative. With my family I have my reasons from years of abuse but her sister seems nice so why is she acting so hostile towards her and towards the guy she doesn't even know or barely even knows. You really should thonk twice about the type of people you choose to associate yourself with

[Rob19777]

I want to apologize to. You seem like a good guy.

[Asker]

I don't know man but she like to be in control. I believe she has had a difficult past.

[Rob19777]

Difficult past or npt that's still no excuse for her behavior. She needs to learn some manners and learn to treat others the way she wants to be treated. If she wants respect she needs to give it first. And she may act like a bully but a future word of caution there's always a bigver bully out there who doesn't take shit from anyone. Some people like me bully a bully back harder than what they can dish out.

[Asker]

Apology accepted man, You seem like a great guy too man.

[Asker]

Wish you well and happyness to you and ur girl man. For real man propose to ur girl, She will be so happy I know it.

[Asker]

Yes, I agree with you. My friend had no reason to act that way. There's other ways to handle the situation. Once again I apologize for her behavior.

[Rob19777]

No need to apologize it's not your fault. If anyone that needs to apologize it's her. But regardless I apologize to her for my behavior as well

[Asker]

Oh I see now you and my friend had become buddy buddy's. You know what I will stop calling you a Jack Ass only because my friend ask me too. He is so gullible he thinks you are a this nice guy. The thruth you and I know you are not after you had been calling me a cunt and such degrading , I'm a woman lady didn't you ever learn to be a gentleman. Yeah right me mean and disrespectful speak for yourself , You are the one that started calling me a cunt awful names.

[Asker]

You are with your girl only for the sex?

[Rob19777]

No I'm not after her for sex I never was. I love her with all my heart and soul

[Asker]

Well did you had sex with your girl?

[Asker]

I don't want you to date this 26 year old girl. Let's her be with a male her same age. Done I said what I needed to say.

[genericname85]

just give it some time. things will fall into place soon anyway. and after all it's not your business.

[Asker]

Wait did you mean they will break up when you said things will fall in it's place?

[genericname85]

i'm pretty sure they will but if they won't, so what?

[Asker]

Why you mean If they won't , It's none of my business.

[genericname85]

well it's not your relationship is it?

[Asker]

No but the 25 year old ex is closer to her age

[genericname85]

sure but nonetheless she decides who she wants to be with, not you. would you want your sister to decide for you who you date and shit?

[Asker]

But they will break up right?

[Asker]

Well I am 29 years old my boyfriend he is 21 but still it's not like I am dating a 12 year old.

[Asker]

I'm older she can't tell me who to date.

[genericname85]

i don't "know" if they will but my insight into human nature says that they probably will. she's 26. you have as little right to tell her what to do as you has the right to tell you what to do. age difference becomes less meaningfull with age, cause the speed of personal development goes down significantly so the difference between a 12 and a 13 yo is alsmost as big as the difference between a 20 and a 30 yo. the differences decay exponentially if you think about it in graphs.

[genericname85]

*she

[sponge-bob]

Don't you realize you are doing more damage by butting in. Instead of tricking her into meeting her ex which she didn't want to do. you should have talked to her about the older guy, now I doubt your opinion will mean anything to her

[Usernamesrdumb]

I say she's an adult, let her make her own decisions. If she wants an older man who is mature, thats her decision and you should support it.

[90degrees]

I agree with only have one addendum. She doesn't have to support it, but it isn't up to her anyway.

[Usernamesrdumb]

@90degrees I agree.

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

Grow up. You're not the good guy in this scenario.

[Asker]

Why? I don't want an old man for my sister.

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

Thats really not for you to decide.

[Asker]

You are really telling me to grow up I am a year older than you

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

Yes, I am. It's a figure of speech. You could be twice my age, and my suggestion would be the same. Its immature to think you can just design your sister's life without her having agency over her choices.

[slatyb]

She’s an adult. Her choice.

[Plitty-Tank]

Doesn't mean it is the right or wise choice.

[slatyb]

@Plitty-Tank Yeah, but the asker has no authority and can't make her sister do anything. What the asker can do is upset her sister to the point that they are no longer speaking.

[Dchrls78104]

@Plitty-Tank if the guy treats the girl well and they're happy together, what would make their relationship the wrong choice? And by whose standard?

[Plitty-Tank]

You are right. I have no way of knowing and it is their relationship. I rather a couple be 16 years apart where both are treated right than a couple be same age or 1 year apart and 1 or both are treated badly.

[Liam_Hayden]

You should mind your own business.

[-alexander_delarge-]

She must live the life which she chooses.

[Asker]

You wouldn't date a 42 year old lady would you?

[-alexander_delarge-]

You never know

[Plitty-Tank]

You can not make her. Just hope she learns.

[Silence00]

Kiss him.

[Asker]

Eww that is gross

[Rob19777]

You are a CUNT

[Silence00]

You can use tape then kiss him.

[laszzasgals]

Never

[Asker]

Shut up you idiot! What are going to know. Stupid old ass Grandpa