You really shouldn’t be butting into your sisters relationship regardless of how you feel about it. What it comes down to is that they’re consenting adults capable of making their own decisions and you doing what you’re doing is going to accomplish nothing but driving a wedge in your relationship with your sister.
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Stop. What you did was unfair to the ex you called and not nice to her current boyfriend. Her current boyfriend might be a good guy.
Hey! Don't screw with perfection! Age is only a number, love should be tried on all boundaries. And if a 50 yr. old woman has a boy toy of 35 is this okay? Do you not believe in everlasting life? I happen to think 46 and 29 are very freakishly freaking hot! Now? What was this? Something bout your sister?
its your mistake, why did you lie to him that she wanted to meet? she even didn't know to meet her there
dont do like this...
and you may be right about 42 year old man, but nothing to do
its her life, never mind
if she thinks its wrong, she will not talk to him anymore
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Please don't do it for the love of God , Don't do it. Please don't make this whole situation lead things to go on a extreme direction. My cousin would have been the same age as your sister 26 , He now widow is now 42 . My aunt wouldn't approve of the relationship. Its a sad story, My cousin refuse to break her relationship with her boyfriend. They made things to keep them separate, She got up in front of my aunt point the gun in her head and shut herself. She kill her self. I feel I can't never forgive my aunt over my cousin death 😭. Please before it's too late , Let her be happy. This man loves her so much. Just let her be happy. Don't make her do something you will later regret. Now my cousin is dead all because of my aunt, I will never forgive her.
yea, that was bad, you did lie to him and you are playing a role you shouldn't.
your sister bonded with another man when she was down in the dumps, that happens a lot. You can't make her do anything... people don't change until the hit rock bottom and see a reason to change. If he treats her well, is not abusing her.. e. g. loves her, then it's her life.The truth is, you don't. It is not your place to meddle in her personal life. It would be more productive to focus on yours. Your sister might have told you the same thing because you say she doesn't speak to you. If he makes her happy and treats her well, his age is not an issue for her; neither should it be for you.
Sometimes people just need to learn things for themselves. It sucks, it's kinda stupid, but there isn't anything you can really do; she's an adult. She's eventually going to realize that her older and more mature guy is just looking for something shorter term than she's willing to provide, but that's a bridge that she needs to decide that she wants to cross.
Id say the best thing to do would just to be honest with your sister and voice your concerns. Ultimately you shouldn't try to break them up however that shouldn't mean that you should stay absolutely quiet if you have concerns along the way
There was 23 years between my parents my dad being the eldest and it worked with over 30 years of happy marriage
Only ended thanks to lung cancer and my dad became a widowU should let ur sister be. After all, it's her life that ur talking about; not urs. So what if they have a big age gap when they love each other? That's all that matters. Maybe she wasn't happy with her ex after all that's y they broke up. Age is just a number after all. At least she's in a legal age. It's not like she's a child anymore
Why don't you mind your own business and STAY OUT OF YOUR SISTER'S RELATIONSHIP. In other words BUTT OUT
just give it some time. things will fall into place soon anyway. and after all it's not your business.
Don't you realize you are doing more damage by butting in. Instead of tricking her into meeting her ex which she didn't want to do. you should have talked to her about the older guy, now I doubt your opinion will mean anything to her
I say she's an adult, let her make her own decisions. If she wants an older man who is mature, thats her decision and you should support it.
She’s an adult. Her choice.
Grow up. You're not the good guy in this scenario.
You should mind your own business.
She must live the life which she chooses.
You can not make her. Just hope she learns.
Kiss him.
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