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Me:
Smiley face:
Ohh! How are you doing this morning?
Him: Just tired and in bed actually yourself
Me:
Ohh just relaxing and doing some work
Him: Cool cool
I wouldn't have minded your company
Me:
I know you wouldn't have! However, I don't know if that's a good idea
Him: How come?
Me:
It's more of a feelings thing! Not technically
Him: Why do you feel it's not a good idea?
Me:
Nothing specific just doesn't feel like a good idea
There always is some reasoning behind a feeling of this sort
Me:
Yes, there is! Don't want to lead you on here
Him: In what way?
Emotionally?
Me:
Yes, I guess you can characterize it in that way.
Him: I am not lead emotionally at all I assure you
Do you feel like I would otherwise attach myself?
Me:
Yes, I can see that! I also have to protect my emotions.
I'm unsure if you would and would you?
Him: I wouldn't actually since I respect where your state of mind is
Do you feel your emotions would be at risk?
Me:
Ok! Yes, absolutely they will be.
Him: How so?
Me:
It goes at the core of my personality I would say and just who I'm as a person clearly this dynamic just isn't for me.
Him: As in you feel like you would be attached?
Me:
Exactly!
Him: What would make you feel attached you feel?
Me:
The idea of seeing each other again would more than likely make me feel attached at this point.
Him: Attached in what way?
Emotionally or sexually?
Me:
Emotionally more than sexual.
I see. What do you feel triggers your emotions that way?
Me:
Nothing in particular just feels unsatisfying for my personality emotionally.
Him: What would feel unsatisfying I am confused now
Me:
A bit hard to explain but personally it's more of a lack of feeling emotionally satisfied-secure and at peace.
Him: What would make you feel secure at peace?
Me:
The overall dynamic wouldn't however not asking for an overhaul of changes here... as that is unrealistic.
Can't truly pinpoint one thing or the other.
Smiley face:
Ohh! How are you doing this morning?
Him: Just tired and in bed actually yourself
Me:
Ohh just relaxing and doing some work
Him: Cool cool
I wouldn't have minded your company
Me:
I know you wouldn't have! However, I don't know if that's a good idea
Him: How come?
Me:
It's more of a feelings thing! Not technically
Him: Why do you feel it's not a good idea?
Me:
Nothing specific just doesn't feel like a good idea
There always is some reasoning behind a feeling of this sort
Me:
Yes, there is! Don't want to lead you on here
Him: In what way?
Emotionally?
Me:
Yes, I guess you can characterize it in that way.
Him: I am not lead emotionally at all I assure you
Do you feel like I would otherwise attach myself?
Me:
Yes, I can see that! I also have to protect my emotions.
I'm unsure if you would and would you?
Him: I wouldn't actually since I respect where your state of mind is
Do you feel your emotions would be at risk?
Me:
Ok! Yes, absolutely they will be.
Him: How so?
Me:
It goes at the core of my personality I would say and just who I'm as a person clearly this dynamic just isn't for me.
Him: As in you feel like you would be attached?
Me:
Exactly!
Him: What would make you feel attached you feel?
Me:
The idea of seeing each other again would more than likely make me feel attached at this point.
Him: Attached in what way?
Emotionally or sexually?
Me:
Emotionally more than sexual.
I see. What do you feel triggers your emotions that way?
Me:
Nothing in particular just feels unsatisfying for my personality emotionally.
Him: What would feel unsatisfying I am confused now
Me:
A bit hard to explain but personally it's more of a lack of feeling emotionally satisfied-secure and at peace.
Him: What would make you feel secure at peace?
Me:
The overall dynamic wouldn't however not asking for an overhaul of changes here... as that is unrealistic.
Can't truly pinpoint one thing or the other.
Updates
+1 y
To provide some background I'm 23 he is 29 and we met in December via Tinder and met up for the very first time on January 16th after chatting for a few weeks and we solely engaged in Dinner- Cuddling- Movies and oral sex and then we met up on January 22nd and engaged in Dinner- A long walk which took approximately 40 minutes- cuddling and then oral sex once again. This is the last time we met up.
Updates
+1 y
Anyhow we would text sporadically and at times it would take him 4 days to respond and I began losing interest in him and also discovered he had given me the incorrect first name as I found his true name identity via my Facebook investigation which put me off completely.
So I told him prior to this text conversation that I would not be interested in potentially meeting up as I did not wish to waste his time anyhow I thought he would lose interest but has texted me sporadically once again.
So I told him prior to this text conversation that I would not be interested in potentially meeting up as I did not wish to waste his time anyhow I thought he would lose interest but has texted me sporadically once again.
