I "hooked" up with this man twice and now he says he misses me?

Me:

Smiley face:

Ohh! How are you doing this morning?

Him: Just tired and in bed actually yourself

Me:

Ohh just relaxing and doing some work

Him: Cool cool

I wouldn't have minded your company

Me:

I know you wouldn't have! However, I don't know if that's a good idea

Him: How come?

Me:

It's more of a feelings thing! Not technically

Him: Why do you feel it's not a good idea?

Me:

Nothing specific just doesn't feel like a good idea

There always is some reasoning behind a feeling of this sort

Me:

Yes, there is! Don't want to lead you on here

Him: In what way?

Emotionally?

Me:

Yes, I guess you can characterize it in that way.

Him: I am not lead emotionally at all I assure you

Do you feel like I would otherwise attach myself?

Me:

Yes, I can see that! I also have to protect my emotions.

I'm unsure if you would and would you?

Him: I wouldn't actually since I respect where your state of mind is

Do you feel your emotions would be at risk?

Me:

Ok! Yes, absolutely they will be.

Him: How so?

Me:

It goes at the core of my personality I would say and just who I'm as a person clearly this dynamic just isn't for me.

Him: As in you feel like you would be attached?

Me:

Exactly!

Him: What would make you feel attached you feel?

Me:

The idea of seeing each other again would more than likely make me feel attached at this point.

Him: Attached in what way?

Emotionally or sexually?

Me:

Emotionally more than sexual.

I see. What do you feel triggers your emotions that way?

Me:

Nothing in particular just feels unsatisfying for my personality emotionally.

Him: What would feel unsatisfying I am confused now

Me:

A bit hard to explain but personally it's more of a lack of feeling emotionally satisfied-secure and at peace.

Him: What would make you feel secure at peace?

Me:

The overall dynamic wouldn't however not asking for an overhaul of changes here... as that is unrealistic.

Can't truly pinpoint one thing or the other.
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To provide some background I'm 23 he is 29 and we met in December via Tinder and met up for the very first time on January 16th after chatting for a few weeks and we solely engaged in Dinner- Cuddling- Movies and oral sex and then we met up on January 22nd and engaged in Dinner- A long walk which took approximately 40 minutes- cuddling and then oral sex once again. This is the last time we met up.
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Anyhow we would text sporadically and at times it would take him 4 days to respond and I began losing interest in him and also discovered he had given me the incorrect first name as I found his true name identity via my Facebook investigation which put me off completely.
So I told him prior to this text conversation that I would not be interested in potentially meeting up as I did not wish to waste his time anyhow I thought he would lose interest but has texted me sporadically once again.
I "hooked" up with this man twice and now he says he misses me?
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