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I want my wife to call me to come home when i am busy in work i want my wife should be caring one and waiting for me home and romantically serve me
I am not career driven at all.
neither am i the house wife type.
What do you do then? Like, how do you live?
@Coolfred I have a job, but im not one of these people working all my life to try get a great career, but i also wouldn't want to be a house wife.
So, you want to just be a dullard, the rest of your life
@dthomas89 what has that got to do with not being career driven or wanting to be a house wife?
You have no sense of direction in your life. You just want to do a job, nothing else. A dullard
@dthomas89 No, i want a life that isn't full of work work work, and enjoy it.
most people spend there lives obsessed with work and studying and die instead of enjoy the freedom.
You just said..
You know what. I'm done with you, all you is troll, I'm not answering you anymore, as you make no sense whatsoever
you're A TROLL
@dthomas89 I understand you probably don't get girls and are very frustrated with life, hopefully you will get laid one day, take care.
@AlongCameCindy He just doesn't get it. I know what you mean, though.
@Jamie05rhs thanks jamie glad someone understands
You're welcome!
I like a career driven woman that has a little bit of hosuewive attitude in her.
I voted for B because i like independent women who are career oriented
why not both... wait nevermind. women are too idiots to balance something. i choose a housewife.
How about housemen? Why dont stay at home and care for kids? Wtf should a woman work and care for all housechores etc?
@kim45456 it's the man's duty to hunt the wilderbeasts and chop wood. Be safe and use your energy and look after the children honey.
Most guys nowadays just want love and affection. Also not to have a cheating hoe as a girlfriend
Housewive is an offense term that keeps women down.
I don’t want to have to be the only source of income. But if she needs to be a housewife I won’t think she’s lazy or whatever
I'd love to be a housewife that's the dream 💕
Guess it's time to submit your applications, boys!
Interesting, I wouldn't dream of having a housewife.
Not everyone thinks the same @Coolfred
Yeah I know, I'm just saying I'd rather be single forever
🤷🏻♀️
I want a sugar mama that's going to take care of me.
Want a happy wife. Whichever makes her happy, that's what I want.
I think small business is the best. I dont really know what people's lifestyle is in big mega corps.
She needs to be self sufficient. No mooching on either side.
Career women, it is not 1950 anymore.
So are you ok with splitting all the bills and working full time while you have a infant at home? And cook and clean?
yeah it's 1984 where everything is ass backwards and the world is ripping apart at the seams, get ready for no water, electricity, or heat.
Definitely a feminist right here.
Triggered incels
@kim45456 you're an incel? sorry to hear that.
Go fucking learn the definition
"So are you ok with splitting all the bills and working full time while you have a infant at home? And cook and clean?" You know men also have zo cook and clean
@kim45456 you scare me
Why are you spamming me
She doesn't have to do the whole household alone! He has two hands as well so he have to use his hands as well for household and kids!
Unfortunately that’s not what happens all the time I heard many stories of women divorcing their husbands because they work full time and when babies come around the man still does not help as much as she does.
Keep your eyes open when choosing a partner!
@Shamalien I wish we could vote on answers, you nailed it.
Nothing like a career oriented woman coming home all dressed up from her job pussy moist and fragrant from her frustrations at work ready for an unwinding
If I’m frustrated from work I’m definitely would not be in the mood for intimacy
Why am i getting thumbs down defuq if wrong with you snow flakes
Why are insulting caarer women or women in general
@kim45456 maybe you read my comment wrong i meant it not as an insult but when a woman has worked and earned her keep comes home all dressed up in her work clothes it is hot
Ahh get it
Beats me why the downvotes. They're noobs. 🤔
I take my dislike back
I don't need someone to be financially dependant on me and a career woman is simply more appealing to me.
When women work the population declines. This is where the women's movement comes from.
Nothing wrong with the population declining a bit.
Either works for me but I would prefer a career driven woman. I want my SO to be independent. It hurts to hear about so many women giving up their careers after marriage.
a career woman fits my plans better-i get disability checks and food stamps.
I like career driven women who are ambitious and want to be successful
Something in between thanks.
Housewives plane and simple.
I prefer housewife because I don't want to stress out attempting to date career driven woman.
I just don't want to pay for them. Don't care about their career though.
Being frank we need a good cute wife n it depends on her what she wants to be
Everyone have their own preference according to their family and financial conditions.
Today both women and men have to work and bring in so they can both help in the house
a career woman is that fully concentrated on her career.
More want house wives but know it’s not likely because you need both incomes theses days
Doesn't matter... I just want a good partner...
Whichever one suits us
Id love to be a house husband. Divorce rate is higher when the female is the bread winner though.
Not sure the down votes. Just google it. Stats are there.
It’s almost taboo and unexceptionable for a man to be a house husband
I don't see why a a man can't be a house husband
Why? I've delivered 6 kids and a placenta as an EMT. Already cook and clean my 4 bedroom house, do my own laundry, baby sitted, taught classes.
Thought we were all equal.
@Kinogo i agree! My buddy did i for 5 years and loved it.
dead at birth - what women are good for
made me choose option 1
Death At Birth What Women Are Good 4
copy n paste that into youtube search bar
and then end up on the fbi watch list
@ChefPapiChulo its jjus a song, not an abortion video where some guy bosses a woman around lol
"dead at birth - what women are good for " wtf does that even mean?
@kim45456 its a song title, search it in youtube,
very educational and good song
No sum up
You are 20 and probably a broke fag. You can't even afford a housewife
Your mum should have aborted you
@kim45456 well ur right about 1 thing. yes she should have,
but ur wrong about everything else,
im actually 20 and im heterosexual, not fag, and i dont even want a housewife so why the fuck would i pay for that worthless shit?
22* twnty two not 20 wtf
The first Option is "housewife"
I thought you like housewifes
@kim45456 i know
@kim45456 im not saying i want a housewife, im jus saying that song makes me think men want housewives... other men that ain't me... cos if u listen to the lyrics... it sounds like a lot of guys excpectations from a girl
Be nice this is a open discussion.
damn, you are looking at my profile, shit, better make it private... or u will be shocked by some of my comments
either is fine with me
Who gives a damn what they want a woman to be? Think for yourself and decide what to be based on what YOU want, not what men do.
No men are out there asking if women prefer a house man or a career man, do what you want
This question is based on curiosity especially with the shift in society and women becoming more modern. I know what I want, and I date accordingly. Why are you even on this app?
To give my opinion and ask questions
Housewife with rich parents.
If a family is planned then a House wife
I don't mind which, whichever makes her happy
For me, career women.
I don't know I just want someone that loves me 😂
I'd be fine with either.
Housewife but it's her choice
Career minded women are sexy
Housewife all the way
Women are biologically more equipped to nurture a family. Men are biologically more equipped to provide and work more. I think it’s unfair to children when both parents work long hours. I make enough to support everyone, so why fight what’s natural? I want all of my wife’s attention to be on my children. I want her in a good mood and not exhausted when I come home. Don’t want all of her energy slaving to some corporate ladder.
Housewives do not nurture children all day. Kids are in school all day. As kids get older, they won't need her anymore. Housewiving is less than a part time job.
@nelly83 Preparing lunches, cleaning the house, running errands.. all takes time. My mom stayed home with me a good majority of my childhood and I loved it.
@nelly83 You don’t have to, but this is what I see that works best.
@nelly83 Are you a mom? Never heard anything say that mommin is less than a part time job lol. Literally never heard that. My girl wants four kids. That’s more than a full time job.
The washing machine does all the laundry for her. The dishwasher does all the dishes for her. Back then housewiving was a real job where women had to wash their own clothes by hand, bake their own bread, make their own ice cream, wash dishes by hand, sew their own clothes. Nowadys, most housewives just shit at home all day with nothing to do. I watch a lot of housewife youtubers online and many of them complain about having nothing to do while kids are in school all day.
jessicazambie.com/.../
"Technology. As far as housework is concerned, there’s just nothing to do anymore. It’s too easy. Laundry machines, stoves, microwaves, vacuums, all that stuff. Anyone who tells you keeping a home is hard work doesn’t know what real hard word is. Housewives were needed in times where you had to wash clothes by hand, walk a mile to the river to collect water, light your own fires to cook, sweep everything, wash dishes by hand, make your own clothes. Now? It’s too easy. And when their kids get older and start going to school all day, what else is there to do? That’s when you get bored. You finish your housework in an hour, your kids are gone, your husband is at work. There’s been studies done that show housewives are usually more depressed. They need to get hobbies or something."
www.quora.com/What-causes-women-who-wanted-to-be-housewives-to-become-bored-housewives
thetransformedwife.com/.../
Saying that housewives do not suffer from boredom and loneliness is like saying climbing the corporate ladder is exciting and lucrative rather than the reality of it being hard, frustrating, and disappointing.
Once your 4 kids are all in school, she will have 8-9 hours all by herself during the day. All she has to do is cook 3 meals and put laundry in the washing machine everyday. Its not much work to do.
I don’t need to read studies about this. I got a big family and most of the women either work part time or have a side job. They’re busy. With four kids, you have to consider sports, running errands for groceries, household items, and you have to do that a lot. Sports take a lot of time out of the day. Cooking for that many people especially takes time out of the day with how much we all eat. We also got dogs, so you gotta take them out to poop at least 3 times a day and get them their exercise. If you have a social life outside of your kids and husband, then most people would be fine. If you’re one of those people that aren’t, then I’m not forcing you to be a house wife. I think it’s only natural, and you’re perfectly entitled to deviate from that.
My girlfriends mom did 8 years in the Marine Corps and said that raising all of her kids staying at home when they were younger was hard work. So it’s not just that people who disagree don’t know hard work.
@nelly83 My house is also 4,700 square feet, and will be more with kids. That’s a lot to fucking clean.
It sounds to me like you're trying to add dogs, get a house as big as possible, in order just to keep your housewife busy. But if you can afford a house that big, you would also be able to afford maid services. But honestly, its pathetic how some people work hard as hell to support and care for their children while there are parents who have absolutely nothing to do most of the time then try to kill time by buying as many dogs as possible or have to much time on their hands so they need a social life while the rest of the world is at work. Most adults won't even have the time to talk to you 9-5 pm, as they are working.
I was raised by both parents working who sacrificed so much for me and barely ever had time for themselves. Housewiving is not a full time job at all. And you're not even caring for kids most of the day. You're just at home all by yourself with little to nothing to do.
@nelly83 It sounds to me like I’m trying to relate this to my personal life, because that’s how I’m answering this question. We have a big house because I can afford it. We will have a bigger house when we have our kids for the fact that 6 people will be living there and I’ll still want my office. I don’t know what world you’re living in where you actually believe that having children is less than a part time job, but that’s not the reality that I’ve ever seen or come close to seen in my life. You’re cooking for six people, you’re grocery shopping for six people, you’re cleaning for six people, you’re running errands for 6 people. you’re taking care of the dogs. you’re preparing everyone’s schedule, you’re preparing for wheneverone gets home. you’re paying attention to each kid, their development, and emotionally supporting your husband while keeping everything afloat. You only have so much willpower in one day, and my girl deserves better than to be completely burnt out for the rest of her life.
You can disagree 100%, and I don’t care. My mom stayed home when I was a kid and it was great. I have some of the best memories as a child and my friends didn’t even have their parents around because they were both slaving to jobs. Kids who actually have a parent throughout their adolescence typically turn out better.
And we love our dogs. Don’t just buy them to kil time. Don’t have much time to kill in my life rn
It really doesn't take much work to go grocery shopping three times a week and make 3 meals a day. Nobody stands in the kitchen 8 hours a day to make 3 meals. And you don't even wash clothes. The washing machine does all the work for you. You hire a maid service to clean your huge house. The kids are out of the house 8-9 hours a day, how much do you really have to do? Maybe you can buy another 6 dogs to keep busy.
@nelly83 Ahaha I mean if you think raising four kids is just a cake walk, then I feel as if you’re going to be in for a shock factor when you have kids. It makes me believe that you lack real world experience if you think it’s this simple. You also seem to have an inability to have a conversation without becoming rude and unpleasant which also makes me think you lack real world experience. I tell you I love my dogs and you further regurgitate that we should buy more to waste time lol. I’m not mad, but it’s just a moment of damn, I don’t want to talk to you anymore. Plenty of people on here that are cool with me that I still disagree with. We have a constructive conversation and then move on. You also seem to try to reinforce your points by saying they’re insecure because they don’t agree with you. In all, you’re really unpleasant to talk to on here. I’d appreciate it if you stay off my opinions for now on.
@nelly83 And if you want to work, then go ahead man! Whatever floats your boat and makes sense. If that’s the dynamic you seek, then go for it. It’s not what I seek. I don’t agree with it, but that’s okay. But again, I’d appreciate it if you just stay off my opinions in the future.
yea you have not provided any examples of what else she has to do other than to make a few meals a day. I grew up with parents who worked FT jobs, tutored me on homework, watched tv with me, cooked me breakfast and dinner, bought groceries, picked me up from school.
If you think making 3 meals a day for 4 kids is already killing you, you don't know what real hard work is like.
there's always this over glorification of housewives. But really they are just mothers who want to take the easy way out. I've seen parents who work full time and still managed to raise 3 kids. These are the real heros, not your housewife pretending her life so soo difficult.
@nelly83 Lmao I sleep four-five hours a night work a career, part time job, and I’m finishing my masters. Former military as well. Go live your life and do what you want, but fuck off. You’re a bitch and unpleasant to talk to.
I don't have a preference.
Being housewife is not a life. It is fucking selfish of the man to except from women to care for the whole family while he can make caarer.
Well... if you have a baby. Someone should have to compromise, and in most cases it's the one who have a lower wage.
Why tf do i get dislikes?
Amen to that! Being a parent means 50/50 and not one with a career and one with a ruined life!
That’s your perspective. Many women love being home more with family. It’s not healthy in my opinion to have children and let them be raised by others. The new generation is brainwashed. I wish my mom stayed home and spent time with me instead of being violated by strangers.
Both of my parents always worked full time and were always there for us unconditionally. My mother went back to work three weeks after giving birth to me. And we were never looked after by others (we never had to go to one of these dirty kindergartens) My parents are my heroes, my idols, my best friends, my everything. I adore them and I will raise my kids the way the raised me.
@sunshinet123 my mum was a housewife and i wish she would not be one
Why is that Kim?
I have never seen any profit from her being a housewife for me as a child. I have to go with age of 4 to "all day school" and before my 4 years i dont remember anything and dont even care who care for me. If she was a working woman she always explains my dad how much she spend which is embarrasing and my dad never ever help her a bit at home.
I have never seen any profit from her being a housewife for me as a child. I have to go with age of 4 to "all day school" and before my 4 years i dont remember anything and dont even care who care for me. I dont think a kid care who look after them. If she was a working woman she did not have to explains my dad how much she spends everyday which is embarrasing and my dad never ever helped her a bit at home.
Do I really need my wife to work when I am already having a stabled business running that can me a hundred times? If it's selfish then no men would prefer it. Also I don't prefer day cares to touch my children.
You are entitled of your opinion, so are we. What you're saying is not gonna change anything.
I agree with you 100%
Kim clearly your mom didn’t think to at least homeschool and spend time with you which is a shame and I’m sorry you went through that. But healthy housewives want to invest into children, give the organic home cooked meals, support them in activities like sports, teach them how to read by age 2. Invest in their emotions healthy buy communication.
There is no real argument against both parents working full time. You can do all that for your kids if you work full time. I speak from experience because my both parents always worked full time. They were always there for me; I got freshly cooked food every day, they taught me to read and write before I came to school, they read a book to me every night before I went to bed, they drove me to my trainings, went to each of my competitions and cheered for me. I could list so much more. As you can see, I am proof that you can have wonderful parents who are always there for you even when they both have careers. They have always been the very best parents I could have ever wished for. I will raise my kids exactly the way they raised me.
@Satu16 U surely don't know what u are talking about. I think a lot of people will never understand what it feels like when one of the parents stays at home full time. I grew up with my mother being a full time housewife (bcoz no one would take care of me and when my sister was born). Basically she was a housewife until I graduated highschool and my sister is on 5th grade. I tell you, as someone who experienced both seasons of a "housewife mom and a "working mother", the level of affection and attention is incomparable to what stays at home parents give. Everytime I arrive at home, I would always look for my mom and just the presence of her in the house makes the home feels warm. Unlike when she is not around, it feels empty and lonely. Plus when you need help, time and someone to talk to, someone could be there for you asap. Working parents can help you and be there for you, but in minimal accounts only. When I was a kid, my mother would help me on all my projects and hang out daily to the park. Meanwhile my sister was left to fend for herself in most days, coz both of my parents are working and I went away to college. I really do feel bad for her. I also think this is partly the reasons why we are so different in attitude. I'm a very open type of a person specially to my parents, while my sister is the secretive one which worry me sometimes.
@Primrose21 your dad also could stay at home
@kim45456 He can't coz way before he married my mom, he already stablished a great career. It would be such a waste if he throw away his position as a Captain of a Cargo ship just to be a house dad. Plus my mother have no problem with being a housewife before. She did it, bcoz she wants to and have no regrets. Now she is a teacher.
But why should a woman give on its caarer?
@Primrose21 and it would be such a waste if your mom got a career degree and did nothing but stay at home
@blackxbarbiex01 Getting a carrier degree is a waste of time at all if that's not your passion. There's something called "Going through something you didn't want in the first place"
@Aiko_E_Lara if a woman gets a degree for nothing and just decides to be a house wife, that’s stupid, why learn about something if you’re not gonna do it? That degree could have gone to someone else
@blackxbarbiex01 In society's standards, not having any degree is considered a low life. But in fact, not everything in collage you learn has something to do with your life. So should I continue being a chef when I'm already a store owner with great income just because that's what I finished?
@kim45456 @blackxbarbiex01
To clear things out, my mother gave birth to me right after she got her degree. So basically, she didn't started any career yet. She can't leave a new born just to find a job without certainty and it would be suicidal for my family if my father left his job (that pays a lot already that time). Lol. People need to be practical u know.
@Primrose21 she could have gave you to her family members until she got off work, therefor you can still have help for homework and stuff
@Aiko_E_Lara like I said that degree could have gone to someone else
@blackxbarbiex01 "That degree could have gone to someone else" Just like all the food you throw and the mistakes you bought. That's basically everywhere in the world. Guess what? Not everyone knows what they want in life after they graduated highschool. Some of them just know what they want at a later age. Is it ever your right to be in charge of someone's life? If that's so, you're just as bad as parents who forces their sons/daughters to go get a degree they don't even want.
@blackxbarbiex01 And ofcourse you probably are ignorant about what that leads to.
Primrose, if she does not have any problem with it, then there is not anything wrong with it but also she should be respected too if she wanted to make a caarer. I dont know where you live but where I live you can take parental leave, so the woman can stay one-two years at home, then the other two years the dad can stay at home without giving up on caarer, as soon as your kid become 3-4 years old, the kid can stay at kindergarten where it can social and have friends
Primrose, if she does not have any problem with it, then there is nothing wrong with it but she should be respected too if she had chosen to make a caarer. I dont know where you live but where I live you can take parental leave, so the woman can stay one-two years at home, then the other two years the dad can stay at home without giving up on caarer, as soon as your kid become 3-4 years old, the kid can stay at kindergarten where it can be social and have friends
@blackxbarbiex01 Another example. So tell me how many grains of rice, drops of water and crumbs of bread have you throw away through out your life so far? With a total of how many kilos and litters, that could go to someone else but what can you do? Brood about it? Past is past no matter what.
@blackxbarbiex01
Not everyone has a family member that is willing to take care of a new born, specially when they themselves have also kids to tend to. Plus, my parents always make sure our safety. Even relatives can abuse a child. U know, when u build a family, it's not always about you. Sometimes u gotta make sacrifices. My mother was not alone on making those sacrifices. My father also went tru things to make if that far into his career and provide us with the best life and education. Plus being miles away from your family is no joke. Before we only get to see him maybe around 10 times each year. PLUS MY MOTHERS DEGREE WAS NEVER WASTED COZ NOW SHE EARNS MORE THAN MY AUNT (who is also a teacher and had a career right away after graduation).
@Primrose21 It's sad they don't know the meaning of "power of leverage" which is what made us survive through out the years
@Aiko_E_Lara that’s why teachers tell us to choose our careers before we get to college
@Primrose21 yk there’s also jobs where the mother can work at home right? So quitting jobs isn’t an exuse
@Primrose21 and also with the mother without jobs things, I was referring to the kids who mothers didn’t get a job because she had to take care of them
@kim45456 A captain of a ship asking for parental leave? Thats more like asking to be fired from your job. Sea farers jobs are not the same as land jobs. It's like military, you can't say no unless you quit. My father was not even there when I was born coz he can't find a replacement asap if he files for a leave. Took him a few days before he got the chance to come home. Same scenario happened when my sister was born.
@Aiko_E_Lara you can prefere housewifes but you should also respect caarer women like you respect caarer men
@blackxbarbiex01 Easy for them to say and easy for them to generalize thinking everyone will make up their minds at the same time but however that's not how the world works. (If I'm a girl 18) So what about if I get a marketing degree because that's what I "thought" I want? I finished it 4 years later now I'm 22. Then got married at 25 and I finally know I wanna be a house wife. Do I have to make a change when I turn 50 then regret I haven't when I was younger? That's the real meaning of waste.
@Aiko_E_Lara well how is she gonna make money if the husband goes bankrupt
@blackxbarbiex01 All what the teachers learn are just from their book. School is outdated AF. It's not like you'll apply everything they taught you. Those teachers only learn but they don't do. Business teachers are just teachers but do they have a real business? A lot of them don't.
@blackxbarbie01 You are only 13. You surely don't know yet the harsh realities of adulthood. It's easy to say things like they are simple but it's not. In life you gotta make sacrifices specially when u have kids. Plus what works for you might not work for others coz people have different circumstances. I hope someday you won't be tangled into situations of having kids and got no one to look after it.
@kim45456 I never said I disrespect career women. However I disrespect people who bash on other people's life.
@blackxbarbiex01 I tell you and I'll predict it. You'll just pass school but you'll forget majority of it.
@Primrose21 actually I’m not having kids, I’m gonna be too busy, plus kids actually annoy me Ik it sounds rude but it’s true they don’t act right, and it’s hard to get them to listen , and also I have a health problem and I heard having kids make it worse
@blackxbarbiex01 Acting like you've experienced it yourself at a later age? We'll see.
@Aiko_E_Lara I have strict family, if I go to college and don’t use my degree my family will be disappointed and probably will reprimand me
@blackxbarbiex01 And I'm starting to wonder if your parents like you in the first place. I mean you were once a kid. (Technically you still are but whatever)
@blackxbarbiex01 Then it's not our decision but yours. Should you obey? Should you stand up for yourself? Your "strict parents" is more like a manipulative parents if that's the case.
@Ailo_E_Lara well if they didn’t like me they wouldn’t be pushing me past my limits to be successful, all my other sisters failed because of drugs, having kids early, or deciding not to continue school
@blackxbarbie01 I've observed that u only care of money and career. I suggest that just don't start a family if you always feels in competition with your husband. Anyways, It's good to have a career for woman, so that he can leave her husband if he turns out to be a jerk. Tho, never forget that marriage is a team work or else you will just end up in a divorce.
@blackxbarbiex01 "reprimand me" <-- Way to prove me right. And you don't have to spread your ideology and just because you're manipulated doesn't mean everyone else should be. It's not our fault nor it's no body's fault
@Aiko_E_Lara I didn’t say everyone else should be manipulated, I’m saying everyone should at least try to be successful
@blackxbarbiex01 And sure you wouldn't like kids. As I projected how it's gonna turn out, they will rebel against you due to the lack of support.
@Aiko_E_Lara ofc they’re gonna have lack of support I’m gonna be too busy and I have health problems which is why I’m not having them
@blackxbarbiex01 And we're talking about a successful house wife. So what is it that you want?
@blackxbarbiex01 More like making excuses. + you're only 13. You have a long way to solve your own problems the mature way.
@Aiko_E_Lara well if the husband isn’t giving her any money she isn’t
@blackxbarbie01 about the kids part u said. Be careful what u says, coz someday u might eat everything u said. Some girls have late maternal instincts. Plus, who told you that starting late in life would be a hindrance on successful lives? Don't u know that a lot of billionaires started late in life like the owner of kfc? Lol. A lot of people started way early or right after graduation but still works on the same old job with a not so good pay.
@Aiko_E_Lara so kids aren’t annoying? Having kids can’t make health problems worse? You want me to struggle?
@Primrose21 wdym? And also not all people who start early are still working the same job
@blackxbarbiex01 Then you're talking about an unsuccessful housewife but that's not what were talking about. Just like to point out how you strawman about them
@blackxbarbiex01 It doesn't for me. Because I know how to handle things the right way unlike a 13 year old girl who's a smart aleck at life.
@Aiko_E_Lara do you have a birth defect?
@blackxbarbiex01 Well no body is actually forcing you to have kids. It's your life but if that's your excuse, that's pretty shallow
@Aiko_E_Lara do you have strict parents?
@blackxbarbie01 tbh. I think it's immature to talk all this stuff with a 13yrs old. You have a long way to go. Also, I swear everything you are thinking now would change as years keeps adding up to your age and your mentality develops and aware of the truths of life. What u want now, still have a huge tendency to change overtime which is normal for everyone.
Tho, I hope you get successful as how you vision it today.
And isn't that what humans are biologically suppose to do? Struggle to get mentally ill? Maybe in your pseudoscience book
@Primrose21 thank you but I’ll see
@blackxbarbiex01 I have. But they're also good parents. Unlike yours who don't want you in the first place.
@Aiko_E_Lara there are actually women out here who regret having kids but I see where you getting, it’s their choice
@blackxbarbiex01 It'll only be a matter of time. But it's not easy to let go of pride. Because we say you'll change your mind, you'll just try not to because of ego. I've been there.
@Aiko_E_Lara well maybe if I reach my dreams I will, I don't know yet
@aiki_e_lara and wdym they don’t want me?
@blackxbarbiex01 And there are women who don't. How do you think we populate in the first place?
@blackxbarbiex01 And those women who don't are successful housewives. So your point is?
@Aiko_E_Lara women that don’t regret having kids also has jobs, not all of them are housewives
@blackxbarbiex01 "Wdym they don't want me?" It doesn't take a genius. You can scroll and read again.
@blackxbarbiex01 "women that don’t regret having kids also has jobs, not all of them are housewives" Ehh before you generalize do you have a source? That "all" women who are successful housewives have jobs?
@Aiko_E_Lara if they didn’t want me they would have been put me up for adoption instead of making sure I got an education, and making sure I had good and clothing and spoiling me
Food*
@blackxbarbiex01 Now change the topic will you? This is about housewives were talking about and you're talking about working wives. Sure they don't regret some working wives also do so your point is?
@blackxbarbiex01 And ofcourse you don't understand what "lowkey" means. How sad.
@Aiko_E_Lara that is my point, you just said it again
@Aiko_E_Lara I know what “low key” means and also telling someone their parents don’t want you is the evilish thing ever, how would you feel if someone told you your parents didn’t want you?
@blackxbarbiex01 "some working wives also do" <- is what i said but wouldn't that contradict you saying working wives don't regret? Now you say that's your point? The tactic of contradiction tho
@blackxbarbiex01 That for saying "Being housewife is not a life. It is fucking selfish of the man to except from women to care for the whole family while he can make caarer." I know you're not saying it but you "100%" that is when justice serves you right and trying to reflect the situation to you.
@Aiko_E_Lara people have the choice to regret or not regret children there
@blackxbarbiex01 Who ever said they dont? Are you gonna make up more stories?
@Aiko_E_Lara that is nothing compared to saying your parents don’t want you compares nothing to this, your parents could have thrown you away in either situation but it’s clear if a parent didn’t want you they wouldn’t keep you sir, have a good day
@Aiko_E_Lara I never said that someone said they don’t? I’m saying that to end the conversation 🤦🏽♀️
@blackxbarbiex01 "reprimand me" <-- such a good parent. "your parents could have thrown you away in either situation but it’s clear if a parent didn’t want you they wouldn’t keep you sir" <-- And is that really a choice to just put you in the orphanage? Or they're just keeping you for the sake of their reputation? Not everything unwanted has to be thrown away FYI. But yeah "that is nothing compared" <-- nothing compared to interfering with people's lives. Uhuh now you don't like it. Double standards you're trying to prove? If that's the case you don't have to think it's selfish and generalize about housewives being unsuccessful who regrets having kids.
@Aiko_E_Lara if you ever have kids and they don’t want you being their parent then you’re gonna feel some type of way, so saying your parents don’t want you is like that but backwards, and housewives is a choice idc anymore 🤷🏽♀️
@Aiko_E_Lara I wouldn’t change my parents for anyone and also “reprimand” is a word I found on BitLife and assumed what it meant so I’m probably using the term wrong, I love my life and my parents love me :) anyways HAVE A GOOD DAY
@blackxbarbiex01 If they don't want me as a parent then I have to understand that they're just kids and they'll change their minds someday. And like what good fathers do, they support but not spoil giving them almost no chance of not wanting to be their children anymore. And if you don't care anymore, why are you still here?
@blackxbarbiex01 "and housewives is a choice" That's not you're saying. "Being housewife is not a life. It is fucking selfish" Read again
@Aiko_E_Lara because you keep replying to me and also my dad is a good father, he supports me and I love being a child because adulthood seems extreme and I don’t wanna imagine what adults go through even tho I’m going to get older, you don’t know what my parents do
@Aiko_E_Lara I don’t have to read anything because I didn’t right the opinion
@blackxbarbiex01 "I 100% agree" And if you don't remember what you're saying then proves you don't know what you're saying. "because you keep replying to me" <--- Well I do have something to say but if you don't like it, you can always end things up like what grown ups do. If you're saying your dad is a good father then who knows? Judging by you alone against housewives is telling us something.
And you don't care anymore. Uhuh. Care about me replying?
@Aiko_E_Lara well actually you replied to me first I was talking to Primrose not you , so ya,
@Aiko_E_Lara you worry about your parents treating you right, not others, I rather have them than anybody else 🤷🏽♀️
@blackxbarbiex01 So? It's called freedom of speech. Get it? Take it or leave it. I do what I want when I want.
@Aiko_E_Lara and I do what I want when I want it to :)
@blackxbarbiex01 If you're talking to her talk to her. I'm just siding on her. Do you really have to care? Now this is not the main topic is all about. I'm not gonna detour to a new one. Talking about housewives here. Dodge it will you?
@Aiko_E_Lara for the 3rd time, have a good day
@blackxbarbiex01 Sure do what you want. Still pointing out how you complain about me replying to your sullen comments.
@Aiko_E_Lara because you keep talking to me stfu damn bitch
@blackxbarbiex01 "for the 3rd time have a good day" <-- what happened to that? And I'm not the one saying I'm done here but you. Like what I said if you're done then you don't have to care. No one is forcing you to care just to get butthurt
@Aiko_E_Lara I tried being nice by saying that but nahhh u keep annoying so I think it was time for me to get harsh
@blackxbarbiex01 No need to sugar coat anything. It's either you leave or get butthurt. Simple as that. Now which do you choose?
@Aiko_E_Lara if you expect someone to not say stfu after u keep talking to them then you're crazy
@blackxbarbiex01 Im not forcing you to care however. You have the choice to go back to your safe place and let the grown ups talk but you keep blowing it.
@blackxbarbiex01 And did I say Im done? No. Have any more valid arguments to present?
@blackxbarbiex01 "stfu" because I can also say thesame thing. It's one of the easiest thing to say however I'm not salty like you.
@Aiko_E_Lara but there is no argument so you’re here for no reason
@Aiko_E_Lara I told you good day 3 times so it’s not my fault if I said it
@blackxbarbiex01 Except for the house wives thing you've been dodging the whole time. Just because you're done doesn't mean I am but if you're really done, you don't have to say it. Just telling you saying "good day" no matter how many times doesn't get you anywhere.
@Aiko_E_Lara well keep bothering someone doesn’t get you anywhere either, and it tells people something is wrong with you
@blackxbarbiex01 "Being housewife is not a life. It is fucking selfish of the man to except from women to care for the whole family while he can make caarer." <--- You: "100% agree" Ironically speaking. And try to win it all by saying "good day" that's not how the world works FYI
@blackxbarbiex01 Wanna try again? Or you wanna continue being salty that doesn't prove you anything? I'm still here.
@Aiko_E_Lara and keep mentioning the same thing over and over doesn’t prove anything either
@blackxbarbiex01 Yeah let's ignore the fact that you're bothering people's decisions. It's easy to be in denial of evidence.
And the evidence, ofcourse I have to copy paste it over and over as you keep denying over and over.
@Aiko_E_Lara I never denied anything, now you're “making up stories” I said that housewives is a choice earlier
@blackxbarbiex01 Actions speaks louder than words. <-- like saying you're not in denial lol. You're saying something way earlier than that. And if you say so, don't complain if I copy paste it again.
"Being housewife is not a life. It is fucking selfish of the man to except from women to care for the whole family while he can make caarer. <--- You: "100% agree" Say you're not in denial again :)
@Aiko_E_Lara I’m not in denial :)
Anyways since I’m salty let me be saltier... I hope your life worsens and you won’t achieve any of your dreams, and I hope you won’t find any love in your life and that you struggle trying to get thinks you need, good bye ma’am :3:
@blackxbarbiex01 Yeah "let me be saltier" Meaning you're trying to be more pointless than you ever was? Let's put it that way.
Of course house wife , in my opinion
What made you come to that conclusion? Your 23 many people at your age group think differently. Did you have that way growing up?
Because women are for arranging home and men are for earn and fulfill family expenses, it's a rule for a happy family , and I am agree on it, I don't care what others need
Respect your wife decision. She does not have to stay at home
Ofc its gonna be 50/50
Men who pick housewives are men who probably calls women weak and tell them to go to the kitchen
And also being a house wife is a bad way to live, you never go out, never learn anything new, I feel bad for the women who are stuck home with a baby
That’s a lot of opinion for someone who is 13. Any man who speaks to a woman in that manner is verbally abusive. Any marriage team work.
Hey look, another femanazi.
Housewives have way more opportunity to learn. Just shows how little you know about things. They dont have a boss making them do things every second of the day. Housewives have time to have their own hobbies, read books, volunteer... way more than any working woman at least.
@bamesjond0069 but wouldn’t you like your wife to make money to?
No. I make plenty of money as it is. I don't need any extra money I need someone to make my house a home and make my life pleasant
She can do that and always work, maybe take turns
Well its a competition. The girl im with now does not work and she cooks elaborate meals for me, house spotless, she's almost always stress free and pleasant... so very attractive... women who try to do this but work have no chance to meet her level of attractiveness. So in theory what you say sounds good but its just not realistic. How can you cook me three meals and keep a spotless house and remain stress free AND have a job? Will never happen.
There are restaurants out there, make it easy for her, and I’m pretty sure she’s gonna make the husband clean his messes at some times
House wifes dont expect the man to do the chores. They do them. So no i dont have to clean. My girlfriend cooks cleans and just takes care of all that stuff. I pay all the bills and do the man things like actually repair the house. Thats that. We stick 100% to traditional gender roles. And its by far the best. It really also increases sexual satisfaction by 100x too.
The less messes you make the less stress she will be so men can actually make the job easier
And also just bc y’all work dont mean u have to make tiny messes like leaving paper on the floor than can be easily thrown away, the only chores she should do is clean the dishes and kitchen the other messes you make are careless msistakes
And also cleaning the bathroom toilet
@blackbarbiex01 Honestly, I think that's where a lot of the tension in a marriage comes from. Because if it's expected that it's her "job" to clean, then the husband won't want to pick up after himself. And that will make her mad because she has to work harder. And he'll see it as "nagging" because he feels like that isn't his role to keep the place clean, since he's earning all of the money. Then she will become resentful, and they stop having sex, and eventually the marriage breaks down completely and they get divorced. All of which could have been avoided if they just had a "share the load"/ teamwork attitude.
If I was the one to marry, I would want to arrange a schedule like on some days he do this and other dais I do em
@Jamie05rhs^^
@blackxbarbiex01. I agree with the schedule thing. Organization is key.
@Jamie05rhs this is the craziest thing i ever heard. So the husband should work full time and he still has to split the chores with a housewife? Thats just nuts. Id stop having sex with her and just not be with her if i had to do that. Total bullshit.
And why would she resent doing all the chores? Thats her job since she doesn't have one.
And by the way studies show the more traditional the relationship is run the happier the participants, less cheating and the less likely for divorce. I been in three highly traditional relationships and nothing what you say applied to any of them... and i never ever did the girl stuff and we never ever didn't have sex and we never argued about chores or roles at all. I think you must have got a lazy housewife who not only didn't want to work outside the home but didn't want to work in the home either.
@bamesjond0069 what if she does have a job then? A smart women wouldn’t waste her time getting degrees for nothing, and plus just because another option is better doesn’t mean the other option isn’t good 🤦🏽♀️ and plus what if she’s becomes pregnant, the man has to help anyway
Why would he just throw paper on the floor? Are we talking about normal men or are we talking about someone with mental issues or something? I dont make messes. And ill clean up sometimes but i never have to. Its not my responsibility. Just like she might sell our dining room table for a high price and bargain hunt for a good deal and make money for the house but its not her responsibility to make a positive income.
@bamesjond0069 I didn’t say he threw it on the floor, I’m talking about men who make messes like leaving paper somewhere, leaving a dish somewhere instead of putting it in the sink, spilling something on the floor, etc
A smart woman wouldn't get degrees for nothing. Thats why i almost exclusively date intelligent women without higher education. Its a big waste of money and I've noticed these days more and more idiots have degrees and more and more intelligent people dont. Its just a bad deal. They are hella expensive and its easier to succeed just on your own than climbing a corporate ladder.
@bamesjond0069 so you’re keeping your wife dumb?
I have no comment on making messes. Im not a clutz so i almost never spill things. So i really dont know how that would work. My girlfriend does clear the table after meals though so i do leave my plate out.
A simple task like putting in the sink wouldn’t hurt, she's gonna clean it anyway
But why would i? Its her job. If she worked as an accountant would i show up and handle her clients? Lmao. But the second its in the home its different somehow?
@bamesjond0069 bc it’s a small mess that can easily be avoided
@bamesjond0069 when she goes on vacation, you have to clean up after herself
Well generally home vacations they have things like housekeepers at hotels so I'm not really sure how that's applicable. I mean you obviously just don't like it so don't be a housewife it's that simple but just don't complain when lots a man especially the successful man or not intrested in you. Just comes with the territory and if you're cool with it more power to you you'll be fine
@bamesjond0069 🤣 I don’t need a man, honey I’m getting 3 jobs, one is owning my own business I don’t need a man to be successful, I was born with a bank account full of money, so having a husband won’t change anything
@bamesjond0069 and so what if hotels have maids, that don’t mean you have one
If you dont need one then why even have one? Thats exactly why men dont like career women. I need a woman to achieve my goals, i want someone just as invested in me.
@bamesjond0069 well I have to disagree bc today I’m seeing men married to rich women who walk carpets, go on tv shows, and still have more than 2 kids
@bamesjond0069 and they also made their money themselves
They are famous and have gold digger husbands. For example you have kanye and kim. Kanye would marry a woman who got dicked down in a porn video and who is a weirdo just because he's materialistic asf and wanted MORE money. He literally put her success ahead of everything else. I find that gross but if you and your hubby are super materialistic just hope you never have any financial hardtimes.
@Miristheiss if that's being a 'femininazi' then I'm one hell of a 'femininazi'
It's seriously up to them and what they wanna do
I think it depends on the guy.
Where is the "I dont care" option?
I prefer not to die a virgin
I like both, but I prefer the housewife type more.
Popular question and both are fine
It's up to the woman what she wants.
Conservative cucks will
And you know it!
Want housewives. Sorry, forgot to finish it
Common interests means better conversations.
of course housewives. 😏
Career is more important
I want a career driven woman.