How do you deal with damaged women when it comes to relationships and dating? (Page 2)

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“damaged women” meaning, women who have experienced a wide variety of negative situations, interactions, or experiences in their life that has caused them to do one or a few of the following -Early sexual interactions -Sexually prolific or promiscuous behavior  -Drug usage -Disrespectful or hostile treatment towards individuals  This is certainly not an exhaustive list Some causes of the above may be one or a mix of the following  -Negative experiences with men -Absentee or abusive mother or father, possibly both mother and father -Poor peer influence  -Biology

Anonymous · Answer

It's best to consider them women as black holes and move on to someone else. It's not your job to fix them. That's their job.

Agape93 · Answer

On a case by case basis.

LeoElias · Answer

Usually just to bust a nut and leave. But if I want a real relationship, i wouldn't stay talking to a girl like that. I'd want someone more stable.

shimmeryns · Answer

Help her get emotional help?

Synikal · Answer

I'd rather avoid them. I have my own shit to work on. I can't repair me and you. Be your own motivator. If you always lean on others some are fortunate others keep looking for the same result.

Shamalien · Answer

Stay away from them they are poison. Tried to help em in the past but they just damaged me

Meropatrick · Answer

She must consider getting help first. You cannot walk with a broke limb

open4funn · Answer

That's a highly loaded question. It's a hard road. Take your time in fully getting to know and understand them.

yeeterskeeter · Answer

Care for her give her space whens she needs it show her trust and compassion no matter and always remember that she cares for you she just has a different way of showing it

mikesafa · Answer

ot will be an interesting subject.  you have to listen realy and focus on her more than what you think is good for her. be there and hold her. never push or be unpleasant. just be there for her

Anonymous · Answer

Pump and dump. Everything is always about them even when there's children involved, they eventually cheat and say it's your fault. Never ignore the red flags.

TahoeHiker · Answer

Patience and understanding. Because I might be damaged at any given time too.

DiscomfortZone · Answer

Well, the first time they try to throw their shit at you - slap them senseless and yell "no!".

bamesjond0069 · Answer

Stay away from them for dating and wear a condom when having sex. 👍

art84 · Answer

I would probably try to put myself in their situation and relate tp what they went to.

LexyIsSexy23 · Answer

You make judgements and assumptions about them based on bs things you have read online.

Iron_Man · Answer

Baby them pretty much handling them with kid gloves walking on egg shells for life

Kdude010 · Answer

Don't deal with them. Let them figure it out themselves because only they can sort it out. It's their problem.

Wolkmi · Answer

I don't mean to offend, but do women empathize with "damaged men"? I don't think so.

coolhandroo · Answer

Gooooooooooooood fuuuuuuuuuuuuuucking luuuuuuuuuuuuuuck sucker.

Usernamesrdumb · Answer

Lol dating my age is like finding the least damaged good at a thrift shop.

walknTOinfinity · Answer

If you truly care about her... think of it as not only was the harm done to her it was done to you as well

driver929 · Answer

tried you can't fix what you didn't break they have to fix themselves frist then you can have relationship

Anonymous · Answer

You let someone else do it. Its an emotionally draining roller coaster that's not a lot of fun. My advice based off of my experience. Walk away.

Sweetnessxoxo · Answer

Be calm and understanding and always listen

hombre69 · Answer

If you feel there is chemistry there be patient and be a good listener.

jimmy2 · Answer

You do it by forgiveness and leading them in Gods ways

Anonymous · Answer

Been there. Done that. Too stressful, frustrating and painful...

Stoner710 · Answer

Well I tried it didn’t work the women was nuts

Avicenna · Answer

Avoid them. You can't fix them, as I've learned

Anonymous · Answer

Be patient, be true to your morals and don't critisize. Lead by example, be there to help pick up the pieces, but don't get dragged into the drama.

MackToday · Answer

That's easy, don't date them.

Anonymous · Answer

I only have a problem if she had sex with one of my bullies from High school days.

JimmyQ · Answer

Get away. They will make you part of the problem.

Laozi · Answer

With compassion and patience.

NickiB1 · Answer

you get glue and repair them

gagsucs · Answer

shit on her face when she isn't expecting

DWornock · Answer

As soon as I recognize it, I avoid them.

EnglundUberAlles · Answer

I like to keep them at bay using a long pole.

abbie_wright · Answer

dont ask me im not a therapist

Juxtapose · Answer

Pick another woman.

JamesRandiDebates · Answer

Pump and dump only.

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